How do I mend my mental state after back to back heartbreaks?
2016-02-27 4:53 am
All my relationships just don t last I ve been cheated on and lied to and that has really made me not trust men I want to love but I don t want to get hurt again I lose men when acting crazy and not really trusting them what can I do to change?
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2016-02-27 5:09 am
Lots of us have suffered or experienced Bleeding and Broken Hearts.
Personally, I think I hold the record. But one thing I have noticed, is that I don't QUIT "liking" or "loving" the opposite sex. My guess is that you will figure that out too.
Each Bleeding and Broken heart will teach you what mistakes to quit making... AT THE SAME TIME... you will tuffen up.
Yea, Rejection hurts, but it doesn't kill you or FORCE you to become gay.
The time will come, when it doesn't phase you. You get told NO and learn to try to turn it around. OR move on to the next one.
You you felt LOVE for one guy, then later on another and then another... that just means you don't know what LOVE IS.
You have "Warm Spots in the Sunshine" and they make you feel good.
Everything you learn or suffer will develop you into the person that will STAND BY your mate or NOT FALL when the end arrives.
NOBODY glamorizes this in Romance Novels or "Happily Ever After" stories, but its part of what happens. You never read a story of a broken heart, unless someone was HAPPY First.
Hang in there and also consider what "ronbo" advises. It can't hurt.
Personally, I think I hold the record. But one thing I have noticed, is that I don't QUIT "liking" or "loving" the opposite sex. My guess is that you will figure that out too.
Each Bleeding and Broken heart will teach you what mistakes to quit making... AT THE SAME TIME... you will tuffen up.
Yea, Rejection hurts, but it doesn't kill you or FORCE you to become gay.
The time will come, when it doesn't phase you. You get told NO and learn to try to turn it around. OR move on to the next one.
You you felt LOVE for one guy, then later on another and then another... that just means you don't know what LOVE IS.
You have "Warm Spots in the Sunshine" and they make you feel good.
Everything you learn or suffer will develop you into the person that will STAND BY your mate or NOT FALL when the end arrives.
NOBODY glamorizes this in Romance Novels or "Happily Ever After" stories, but its part of what happens. You never read a story of a broken heart, unless someone was HAPPY First.
Hang in there and also consider what "ronbo" advises. It can't hurt.
2016-02-27 4:56 am
you given your self away sexually. stop!!!!! your getting sex and love mixed up.en will say ANYTHING to get sex. remember that. go to a good church bible believing. and seek the LORD. for wisdom . stop seeing men for a year and get your head on right.lord bless
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