Boy Confusion!! Please help?
2016-02-17 4:25 pm
Me an this boy have been texting for the past few days, like jokes, and talking about school...well, he started complimenting me (like I m cool and awesome) then are jokes went toward how we like our girls (him) guys(me) then he asked how I m so awesome and then said I was hot and the best person he s ever met...I then got suspicious at this and asked if he was always this smooth with girls, he said he doesn t have many friends who are girls. Which made me go wait he d talk to just a friend like this? So proceeded to ask, after him insisting no girls liked him, if he had a gf.Now I asked not because I wanted to be his gf but because I'm trying to figure him out! He said no, he wishes though...I said well you have to ask someone outré fire that happens. He said he didn't like anyone and that he tried once but got rejected and it was embarrassing... I have the usual it's better to fail than to never know thing...he said yeah he guesses but also that he was really busy during school days and never has too much time to text so I said me too..he said that we have sooo much in common...then I tried to tell him a joke later (to try to cover the awkwardness and prove that I wasn't just talking to him cuz I liked him) and he didn't respond. Please help I'm so confused
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2016-02-17 5:12 pm
Your conversation was starting to get a little too real, so he's backing away. He knows things are getting awkward, and he needs time to get his thoughts together. He'll be okay in a day or two.
He liked a girl once, thought he was close enough to ask her out, and he got rejected. That's painful for any guy, and it creates a huge wall of fear. He's not over that wall yet, not completely. We don't like to admit this (I'm a guy too) very often, but our hearts are just as fragile as yours and hurt just as much when they're broken. I've lost a few really impressive fistfights in my life, some requiring medical attention, and none of them caused nearly as much pain as a smashed heart.
If you're interested in this guy, send him a text saying something like this: You didn't want to make things awkward for him, you didn't mean to pry into his life so much, and you're not trying to put any pressure on him. You like talking to him, you liked it when he called you awesome, and you don't really want that to stop. If he just wants to talk about casual stuff, you're totally good with that. Tell him nobody else needs to know what you talked about with him, and that you're not the kind of girl who builds up a guy's confidence just to reject him for your own pleasure. Tell him that the other girl, the one who rejected him, is the real loser. He doesn't have to reply to you right away, but you do hope he reads this message.
Send him a message like that, and wait. I'm guessing you won't have to wait long.
He liked a girl once, thought he was close enough to ask her out, and he got rejected. That's painful for any guy, and it creates a huge wall of fear. He's not over that wall yet, not completely. We don't like to admit this (I'm a guy too) very often, but our hearts are just as fragile as yours and hurt just as much when they're broken. I've lost a few really impressive fistfights in my life, some requiring medical attention, and none of them caused nearly as much pain as a smashed heart.
If you're interested in this guy, send him a text saying something like this: You didn't want to make things awkward for him, you didn't mean to pry into his life so much, and you're not trying to put any pressure on him. You like talking to him, you liked it when he called you awesome, and you don't really want that to stop. If he just wants to talk about casual stuff, you're totally good with that. Tell him nobody else needs to know what you talked about with him, and that you're not the kind of girl who builds up a guy's confidence just to reject him for your own pleasure. Tell him that the other girl, the one who rejected him, is the real loser. He doesn't have to reply to you right away, but you do hope he reads this message.
Send him a message like that, and wait. I'm guessing you won't have to wait long.
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