I lied to my boyfriend. Should I come clean?

Whatever you did in your last relationship is personal and private and no one's business but yours. Why are you telling your current boyfriend anything at all about your past relationship?

If my boyfriend asked me about my past sex life? He'd get no answer.

It's not a "secret"... it's just a matter of no one's business. And if someone asks you about your past sexual history, they are intruding on your privacy.

Don''t tell all!

This is what happens when you have to stand by what and who you have done. You have fun at the time, but you have to own your actions.

HE DESERVES TO KNOW, AND YOU DESERVE TO BE LEFT ALONE... TO DO THE THINGS THAT SINGLE GIRLS DO AS YOU ARE DOING.

No, don't tell him. It wouldn't do any good. He sounds like an insecure little boy, anyway.

If he leaves you then he isn't mature enough to be in a relationship in the first place. Guys like this whine about being lied to but do everything in their power to ensure that it happens by behaving this way. It is unreasonable that he should hold you somehow responsible as though you cheated on him for something you did in a previous relationship! It is the response of a child not a man! The only thing that will relieve your conscience is to admit the truth. Whatever happens won't be your fault. In the future to avoid this kind of thing don't allow fear to cause you to lie or omit the truth!