Am I a burden on my parents?

2016-01-27 3:44 pm
I am a 15 year old girl who has many medical issues. I have to go to the doctor every week or so and am on a lot of medications. On top of that my pop doesn't currently have a job and I know I am costing them a lot of money. Plus my mum and 3 little siblings were in a car accident last week and their car was totaled. Everyone in my family is injured and I am currently going off my meds so I am passing out 3 to 4 times a day. Meaning my parents have to constantly watch over me. Are my parents going to start resenting me? Do they hate me already?
更新1:

The only reason I am going off my meds because I have testing next week and the medicines would make the test give me false answers. Sorry, forgot to clarify that point.

回答 (8)

2016-01-27 5:14 pm
take your meds, that will be more of a burden if you dont, if your parents thought you were a burden they wouldnt have had you
2016-01-27 4:49 pm
pls don't think like that. I'm sure your parents love you and they wouldn't want you thinking like that. I used to be epileptic when I was young and I felt the same way but my mom told me that she would do everything to get me well. she passed away when I was 19.
2016-01-27 4:46 pm
They will NEVER hate you or resent you.
2016-01-27 4:01 pm
No you aren't a burden. It sounds like your family is going through tough times, and this happens. It's also common for parents to have kids who are sick and require medication.

However, l don't get the part about you passing out 3 or 4 times a day. If it's time to go off your meds, fine....but this is an indication it's being done too quickly or not done the right way. Your parents need to take you back to the doctor, or at least call him and explain what's happening.
2016-01-27 4:00 pm
It would be likely that they feel priviledged to care for you even though it is a seemingly impossible burden.
2016-01-27 3:51 pm
No, your parents will always love you no matter how angry they seem. You're not a burden, you're a human.
2016-01-27 3:48 pm
I doubt that they hate you, I would say that they love you and your siblings, Why are you coming off meds if you require them? is this something you want to do or is it under a doctors recommendation, sorry to hear that your family is not having very much luck of late though things like car insurance should be in place for those sort of happenings. Try not to blame yourself or your condition and if you want to help ask if you can do some things for your parents or ask if you stay on then meds would it help in reducing their work load
2016-01-27 3:48 pm
they love you and so does jesus.

prayers you all get better to you. talk to your parents if you feel as though youre a burden and theyll prove you wrong.

take your medications if you can.

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