慈濟給我的感受及參加的過程?

2016-01-16 6:24 am
我知道,每個人都有習氣,但是不代表可以傷害對方。
我參加慈濟的青年團體,已經快要4年了。
這4年以來,我為了做慈濟,其實也跟家庭鬧了不少革命。
因為家庭本身經濟狀況不好,自己身體不能說很好,要承擔功能,都必須要花很多的時間、今年與體力。
家人對我的擔心是,為每次寒暑假都很少在家裡,能夠陪伴自己的家人,都關注在慈濟裡。
其實做慈濟過程中,當然也不是一路順風。
也會遇到被人欺負、排斥、甚至歧視。
但這些我都熬過來了,因為我相信證嚴法師的佛法。
但後來發現,我一直堅持麼做,我反而開始自卑了。
我為了慈濟,其實放棄了我能夠跟朋友出去玩了機會,甚至交流、關心別人。
但我覺得自己在做有意義的事情,我也可這麼犧牲。
我一直堅持他們所說的戒律,但一切都被認為傻子。
跟我同期做慈濟的人,有些人離開了,但有些人已經在做指揮別人的工作了
雖然我這麼說,大家一定會認為我是沒有修行的人。
但是,我覺得每個人還是要尊重別人,不要因為你屬於管理別人的指揮人,就可以欺負在做事情的人。
一直以來我都被人誤會、欺負、甚至裡面的人還造謠我的事情,四處亂說話。
讓很多人對我的印象都不好,甚至活動也不給我參加。
我自己很乖乖地做事情,被人說這麼難聽這麼多年,其實不壓力都很難。
我知道慈濟做事情是不分國籍與階級地位
但是,那是你們自己認為,有時候你們沒有站在別人的立場做事情,其實不知道有些人離開也是因為得不到溫暖。
言重了,很多人都希望有成就,這個我可以了解,但人也很希望被人認同及很有尊嚴地活下去。
這麼多年了,其實今年最後選擇退轉,我也不想這麼做。
我已經告訴自己,我不在乎結果,只在乎曾經擁有。
慈濟人多難免嘴雜,傳話比傳法還要快。
但是,我離開不會說慈濟很爛要大家不要去參加之類的話,我還是會跟別人說,親自去體驗,就知道了!
我也會認同證嚴法師的理念及他所堅持的佛法,但是在於人與人之間....可能還有很大的進步空間。
以上是我個人的感受,不代表所有人的立場。
更新1:

佛法難得,得來不易,我會堅持在佛陀的教法裡好好的老實修行。 我自己也思考著,不一定要在慈濟才能夠修佛,只要心有想要修行,處處都是到場,處處都是修行~對吧?

回答 (16)

2016-01-16 8:38 am
[堅強]來自體証緣起法的[心]....所以生命狀態就不需要他人的認可或讚揚才能生存!

會參加[慈濟]者都是良善的人....您沒有過錯,他人也沒有過錯...

只是因為每個人的生命經驗不同..所以產生認知的差別!

會有差別,就是因為沒有體認釋迦佛教導[[緣起無我]]的佛法根本意義!

若已經[見法].....找到生命在世間離苦的出路.

自自然然的就會慈悲那些尚困在生命困苦中,找不到出路的眾生.

所以會看到他們在[生氣],[指責]或批評...時的真實生命相貌.

會指責他人.是因為自己陷入生命苦處,沒有智慧去放下,只好向外抓取,所以欺負他能夠欺負的人.

有堅強的心,有明覺的心...[[面對,接受.處理,放下]]......自己肯定自己良善的心,肯定自己隨緣盡份的付出..

選擇生命的道路中....沒有對錯....只有因果!

祝福您!! 善哉!
2016-01-16 12:55 pm
大德安好:

工作即是修行;家庭即是道場

先把工作家庭做好,再隨喜宗教道場,才是正確做法

凡事須用「忍」「調適自已的心態」,不用後悔也不用批評,當抱持「感謝心,祝福心」

祝大家吉祥大吉祥
2016-01-16 8:36 am
先不論對錯、能在是非考驗之間堅持四年就很難得。如果你深信佛法一定明瞭、在那邊遇到的好事或壞事都來自於累劫累世所造的因緣。

家裏的阻礙也好、被別人欺負排斥造謠也罷、實在是過去(不一定是這一世)我們曾經造了惡業、現在業報現前。而你曾經不因這些魔難而堅定信心、不但成就六波羅蜜忍辱的功德之外、繼續在利他的道路上前行也增長了自己的善根與福德。雖然暫時離開了世間的道場、相信你必定能在佛道上繼續自利利他。

一個凡夫要在六道輪迴裏接觸佛法已屬難能可貴。對善知識生起信心、不畏難足見你的善根福德深厚、應當《發菩提心》為利益更多眾生學習佛法。自己能成就也能《幫助更多人》。

你也知道就是眾生愚痴無明、才會在人我的是非裏沈沈浮浮。忘了做這些事的目的是要磨練自己、同時幫助更多眾生。像你這麼有智慧的年輕人、一定能把握福緣好好學習佛法。

經過這段路就當作一個經驗、以後走得更順。
2016-01-16 6:40 am
隨喜您的發心 !

時間總是一點丁 ,做了這樣,就做不了那樣,

但不用家庭革命,要多溝通,有良好互動,那才是上人的弟子。學業,家庭,志業,總是難以樣樣兼顧,隨份隨力就好,不是嗎?

您可分配些時間,有時慈濟,有時陪陪家人,還有寒暑假都可稍稍分配,全心全力呆在慈濟,當然最好;但事不從心時,稍稍妥協,又何嘗不可?

戒律 。。。守戒是傻子 。 就當傻子吧。
善知識法喜

做對的,就對了…
剩下的自己明明白白…

上面的師兄們說的非常好!
版主師兄也很好,重要的就是認知自己當下的心。

不才祝福師兄
願法喜充滿
2016-01-17 7:59 am
我也有親人參加過慈濟的活動,其結果,換來的是家人的不諒解,甚至是咒罵.
基本上有很多人不明白佛教的修持是什麼,因慈濟的活動,很多跟佛教主要修持並無任何關係.
比如唸佛,唸咒,唸經,打坐禪定.
不管前三種乃是大乘佛教必修.
打坐禪定乃小乘佛教方法.
慈濟基本上並無直接正確教導釋迦牟尼講過的佛法.
不能算是佛教團體.
因此你說退出慈濟算退轉,乃是錯誤的講法.
從無進行修行行為,何來退轉?
只有唸佛持咒,才有法子真的開智慧.
以前慈濟一開始的確算是行善團體,但這幾年鬧出不少醜聞.
已證明了,沒照佛經來修持,遲早會露出馬腳.走入外道之路.
連基本的行善都會變質.
基本上版主不必為了自己退出慈濟內疚.
你並無何過失.
因連慈濟的平時活動,你仔細回想,有多少真的是直接幫助到別人的?
我年輕時也當過義工,那時是真的義工,沒錢拿,又要自己出錢.
那個慈善團體,當初根本沒人要去,人手又少.
自己要打字又要當粗工,做雜務.被使喚來喚去.
但每天都覺得自己很有意義的活著.
因當自己看到有殘疾的朋友受到幫助,自己心裡也很舒服.
只是這幾年,不少慈善,公益團體,已很有錢,人手又多,其實去那裡當義工,志工,變成只是賺個虛名而已.
團體本身已有很多錢,可以請很多人,義工,志工,就感覺很多餘.
時代不同了,行善的方式也要變通.
不是一定要加入慈濟,或某些團體,才叫行善.
你並沒什麼錯,只是對佛法了解太少.
證嚴法師其實對佛經了解的很少,因大藏經太多太多了,有的人一輩子都還研究不完.
在研究過楞嚴經後,我已明白,佛教效果最好的修持,乃唸佛,跟持咒.
如要跟佛法結緣,不妨先唸南謨觀世音菩薩108次,大悲咒五次,南謨藥師琉璃光如來108次,再唸藥師灌頂真言108次.
如怕麻煩,唸南謨阿彌陀佛108次也好.
算是跟佛結緣.
佛法有出世跟入世之別.
小乘佛法乃是要出世,大乘佛法是要入世.
因很多人修行,都是要顧家庭,不可能離開世間,到深山修行.
因此唸佛唸咒就很方便,隨時可唸.唸久了自然功深,開智慧,佛經就看的懂.
一旦佛經可看懂,就多少可幫助諸佛傳授佛法.
使人人可學佛.
行善只是修行的一小部份,外道也講行善,只是行善最後只是升天當天神.
福報用盡,最後還是會墮入六道輪迴.
唸佛持咒,配合行善,才算正信佛教,正確的佛教修持.
2016-01-16 10:43 pm
從罪人出來的東西,又怎值得去跟隨!四年說長不長,說短也不短,但願不要再浪費光陰。中華民族的先祖們也是尋找真道的人,何不跟隨他們的腳蹤!

老子:'有物混成,先天地生。寂兮寥兮,獨立而不改,周行而不殆,可以為天地母。吾不知其名,字之曰道,強為之名曰大。'《道德經25章》

譯文:有物神秘地形成,在天地之前就存在。在沉寂與虛空中,獨立而不變化,不停地運行,可以稱作萬物之源。我不知他的名字,以"道"為他的字,勉強以"大"為他的名。

諸聖們還沒確認的萬物之源,在聖經中就可以找到。。。

箴8:22 在耶和華造化的起頭,在太初創造萬物之先,就有了我(道)。
約1:3 萬物是藉著他(道)造的;凡被造的,沒有一樣不是藉著他(道)造的。


約1:14 道成了肉身,住在我們中間,滿有恩典和真理。我們見過他的榮光,正是從父而來的獨生子的榮光。

成為肉身的道就是耶穌基督。
參考: Bible
2016-01-21 9:04 pm
是啊是啊
2016-01-17 12:56 pm
凡事如同佗羅尼經所述:[但願眾生體解大道,發無上心],如今你加入慈濟行善救濟已四年有餘,尚稱能體解大道,才能發無上心。如同文殊菩薩一般。
佗羅尼經又道:[但願眾生深入經藏,智慧如海]。
如果你能夠想要再深入,即是智慧的問題。慈濟為人所詬病的就是與貧民爭利的問題,一般拾荒的百姓,目的就是想糊口飯吃,但慈濟事業就是整碗端去,雖說理由冠冕堂皇。卻又忽視在貧困生活區裡面百姓的感受。
一切需求面,應該以大智慧來因應。才能達到佛法的[摩訶,般若多羅蜜]圓滿的境界。犧牲也是需要智慧的。
2016-01-20 12:45 am
慈濟志工人員多.是非一定也多.每個團體都有這樣的現象

.人一到上位.就自以為是領導者.境我慢起.師父是慈悲.但是底下的人就不能相提並論了畢竟心態不同層次..

當志工很好.但是不要疏忽正業.及家庭.因為家是一個國家的根.
戒律要守.去到哪裡都要守.才能不離正道.長遠前進.
我們修是修自己.不為別人修.自己心慈.不殺.竊盜.......等.品格自高.
戒神護佑.修行路就更容易.
祝福您突破自我喔~
2016-01-19 8:53 pm
你並沒有退轉啊 你不是學到了 體諒關心他人 又或者 你本來一直以來就是如此阿 直不過多了個 理解事實 和 忍受羞辱 這不是你當初 所選的修行 而體驗到人性中的無情和私心 不就會讓你更加會去仔細觀察仔細抉擇做出正確的回應 至於羞辱不就會讓你更加體會到被羞辱的人的感受 不然你怎嘛去做實質的幫助呢 那也就表示 現在你只剩下 平靜的面對 和發自內心的愛和關懷啦 哪來的退轉 至於道場 你的心它本來就是道場 何必向外求 你的內心是平靜中 外圍環繞的真善美德 那不就是菩提了 心平靜 無任何波瀾 外圍環繞真善美德 卻又不被自身發出的善所動搖 不就是個如來
2016-01-19 1:35 pm
在家居士 孝順父母 尊敬師長 這是佛陀的教誨
除非你真心出家 否則家人都處不好 說學佛法 你學得什麼佛法..........謗佛吧?
2016-01-19 5:44 am
南無阿彌陀佛

智慧開顯的,於順逆境界,出入無礙。
智慧隱沒的,於順境則貪愛,於逆境則瞋恨,出入障礙重重。^^
2016-01-18 3:09 pm
修行真正的道場 . 就是處在您身邊的人事物 . 也就是與您 " 因緣 " 最深的親人 . 那才是您真正要修行的對象與緣份 . 您今日在這重要時刻 " 回轉 " . 乃是因為您生前的福德庇蔭 . 本人在這裡恭喜您了 ! 把精神用在您身邊的人事物 . 好好體會自己的人生 . 真正的佛法不是在 " 經書 " 裡面 . 就在此了 . 真誠的善心並不是做善事 . 而是發出內心的善 . 這種善不求回報 . 只求內心的舒坦 . 現今在 " 末法時代 " 宗教裡行善的人很難找出有這種心底的人了 .
2016-01-18 1:00 am
慈濟給我的感受及參加的過程? Fake Patriarch Kirill and other fake church leaders signed a document in 2006 where it says that all religions worship the same supreme being; anathema. Last Orthodox Patriarch is Patriarch Irenaios of Jerusalem. Major heresy of the last century was that the name of the Creator doesn't have anything to
do with the Creator.
American pronunciation of the word "God/god" is "gaad" which means Satan in Ruski.
Ruski words for "English" and "angelic" are very similar; Satan was an angel.
Read only Bible that is translated by theologians. John the Baptist ate only carobs and honey. Eating bugs like locusts leads to demon possession and three stands of DNA. 666ed people eat GMO food (which is food with bug DNA).
Ecumenism has 263 heresies; each heresy leads to hell.
Roman Catholic icons are drawn from naked people.
Orthodox icons are inspired by the Holy Spirit.
When you look directly into the eyes of the figure depicted on an Orthodox icon, energy is coming your way, that is, you get healed.
If you look at Buddhist-Roman Catholic-Satanic icons, you get the passions from the person depicted.
There has been a study done by Ruski scientists. When an Orthodox Christian crosses regular water, it becomes better. When an Orthodox Christian priest crosses regular water, it becomes even better than if regular Orthodox Christian crosses the water. This is the usual.
Now, we are in the end days. In some churches (that have been infiltrated by the antichrist's minions), antichrist's blood is served. Also, scanners put 666 on foreheads at the entrance. Theotokos Virgin Mary pushed down the altars at these churches (invisible to humans). Icons in these churches are changed to Satanic-Buddhist-Roman Catholic type instead of normal. Water (instead of becoming better) becomes worse when "blessed" in these "churches".
Orthodox icons must have correct hand signals.
Correct blessing hand means Alpha and Omega
AND
Iesus Christous (Jesus Christ in Greek and Church Slavonic).
Incorrect hand signals are signifying the antichrist.
Also, do you see the scrolls on the Orthodox icons?
They will be opened when antichrist will be coming to town.
These scrolls will reveal everything about the antichrist.
Note also, calendar must be Orthodox, not Roman Catholic.
During the 8th "wolf" Council, antichrist will kill those priests who
disagree with him. Other priests will worship him when a bird dies at
his feet.
Pelageya of Ryazan said that there will only be seven churches left in the end days.
Vaccines, IVs, tooth fillings/implants, cosmetics, medicaments, certain foods and drinks, etc. contain nanochips and/or cells of aborted fetuses; intake of which leads to demon possession.
Give back your documents to the gov't and live in Ural Mountains or Alaska.
Heresy leads to loss of love. Rapture is a heresy. You have to hide with Orthodox Christians to escape 666. Reject globalism, UFOs, documents, vaccines, ecumenism, cities, technology, etc.
The only true Christians are people who rejected mark of the beast documents and drink blood of Jesus.
Note, some churches serve antichrist's blood. So, choose wisely.
Read the Book of Revelation.
It's all clear now anyway if you have wisdom to
understand that 2 elongated lines on a barcode is a 6.
Each barcode has 3 double elongated lines.
Hence, it spells 666.
Barcode on documents leads to temporary hell.
Barcode on one's body by isotope rays leads to permanent hell.
According to Vyacheslav Krasheninnikov, 666ed people will
first hide the green 666 with durags and long sleeves, but then openly will walk
with shiny green 666 on their foreheads or wrists.
The Most Holy Trinity gives you a name during baptism.
Devil gives you an anti-name during anti-baptism.
Barcode is Druid black magic curse and a form of mark of the beast just like Social Security.
People who took any number (which is an anti-name given during anti-baptism by the beast) on documents or in computer go to temporary hell;
but those who receive green 666 (given with World Passport with no name on it) on forehead or wrist go to permanent hell.
How not to go to hell?
Give back all these anti-name anti-baptism documents back to the beast
by writing to appropriate authorities.
If authorities refuse to cancel these anti-names, then write again (up to three times).
If you wrote to the gov't three times about it, but gov't refused, then The Most Holy Trinity
will not send you to hell.
Don't take the microchip. If you already took it, get rid of it because microchipped people will be influenced by computers to take the World Passport (grey plastic card with no name on it).
Don't go into a UFO to be healed by demons. Those who reject 666 will go to heaven. Also, their direct ancestors will be saved from hell.
All who call on the name of the Lord Jesus Christ or sign themselves with sign of the cross during WW3 will be saved. War in Ukraine will last two years (2014 - 2016). Then WW3 will start. Then Tsar (revealed by resurrected Seraphim of Sarov) will come to power in Russia to protect people from the antichrist. Antichrist will allow all sin. Don't sin. The Most Holy Trinity is merciful but 666 is not forgivable. 666 is given with grey plastic card.
Food stores, prisoners, and police will 666 people too. Don't get new documents. Don't get any surgeries. Don't eat meat. Don't eat fast food. Don't eat junk food. Pray the Jesus prayer.
Don't go into UFO to be healed by evil demons. Feed the pigeons. Give to charity in the name of Archangel Michael. Reject vaccines. Hide with Orthodox Christians to escape mark of the beast; leave all electronics behind so that you can't be tracked.
Antichrist's next target is the Statue of Liberty.
One big shake, one giant step forward, one giant collapse.
You use your spirit to talk to The Most Holy Trinity.
Demons attack soul and body.
Demons live inside clones. Jesus died for all sins committed by all.
Jesus said that you have to drink His blood.
All people have soul, body, and spirit.
In animals, blood substitutes soul.
That's why you're forbidden to drink animal blood.
Animals don't have spirit.
You're forbidden to drink human blood (like during blood transfusion) because sins transfer.
You're told to drink blood of Jesus (because He's sinless) so that your sins are forgiven.
Dogs are not allowed in your home and your church because the Holy Spirit will leave.
One can receive mark of the beast because of cats; so, stay away from cats.
Give to charity in the name of Archangel Michael; he rescues people from hell twice a year (or brings them up a level, that is, to a level with less punishment; eventually, people are freed). Feed the pigeons; when pigeons bow down, people are saved from hell. Birds participate in time creation. It's a sin to kill birds. Dinosaurs live under our level. They will get out through sinkholes and lakes. To kill them, go for their nerves. Save the birds; but kill the dinosaurs. First dinosaur will come out of Volga River in Russia. Since antichrist (born to a 12th generation prostitute, flying, big-nailed, gloved, pale-faced, red-eyed, Satan-possessed since he's 12 years old, homosexual man from the tribe of Dan, who wears blue robe over left shoulder while red/pink robe is underneath just like Jesus, and is surrounded by demons but people see angels of light) is around, there is no need for disputes. Forgive me.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=8dub8PF2d8E
http://fatheralexander.org/graphics/sects_e.pdf
http://cs629216.vk.me/v629216013/6f4c/Qji_GVZorQY.jpg
http://vvedenskiy.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/clip_image003.gif
https://vk.com/wall-25720730?q=рязанская&w=wall-25720730_57029%2Fall
https://youtube.com/watch?v=0LUKFmZfOrs
http://vk.com/otrok_slava?w=wall-31832035_103469%2Fall
http://orthodoxinfo.com/praxis/guidech3.pdf
http://fatheralexander.org/booklets/english/life_after_death.htm
http://pravoslavie.ru/english/55141.htm
2016-01-17 6:40 am
(證嚴法師)沒學過什麼佛法,三乘經典也不太懂,只是讀一些印順法師的邪見著作,就跟著印順不信有如來藏可證,跟著印順不信有極樂世界阿彌陀佛,跟著印順不信有地獄;所以她將種種的世間善行,都冠上菩提之名,所以就有所謂的草根菩提、清涼菩提、環保菩提……,她以為只要冠上菩提之名來作世間善事,只要是以人間佛教為依歸而作世間法上的善事,這樣子就算是佛法了。
以上是當今佛門公認正法道場,十幾年前對證嚴法師的評論(有關評論甚多,不一一舉述);如今她不但在佛法上毫無悔過長進,還發生了種種離譜的行為事端(「宇宙大覺者」、土地開發、財務狀況、善款流向、會員層級等事項。),可說對佛門傷害不小。
這樣連佛教的清淨表相都談不上了,所講佛法更是不堪聞問。
題主如果想要修集人天善法,也不一定要選擇「慈濟」; 有心學佛時,更不可信受「證嚴」的說法,她不過是凡夫比丘尼,連佛教戒法都沒守好,那有佛正法可學呢?


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