I'm 23 and am smitten with a 36 year old (12.5 years difference). It's a new feeling for me because I'm used to liking guys my age, but I'm really attracted to this mature, hilarious, kind, and happy person. He is NOT married and doesn't have children.
- We can talk for long periods of time, and have a lot in common, especially music
- We laugh together and joke around
- He compliments me
- He watches out for me, asks me how I feel and sympathizes
- We follow each other on a blog, and he likes a lot of my posts and thanks me for liking his
- When something major happens in my life, he wants to hear about it
- He teases me
- He told me he told his mom about me (they're close but he doesn't live with her)
- When I told him I had a bad day, he said he wished he gave me a hug
- We both are big music fans, and share music with each other
Any thoughts? I have a gut feeling he likes me but again, it's hard to tell. Everything feels natural with him and I don't notice the age gap, but I tend to overthink. I feel we connect well and are on the same level emotionally, spiritually.