Should I get back with my ex or not?

2016-01-09 11:53 am
I broke up with him yesterday because we argue every single day and we make each other depressed when we do. He always says horrible things to me when we argue and he won't let me do stuff i want, like go out drinking or talk to my best friend who is a guy.
I get jealous of him constantly because his group of friends are boys and girls.
We don't really get along but when we do we are amazing and so cute together and so happy, and we both couldn't imagine the other being with someone else. When i think about him being with anyone else I get angry and upset. We were each others first and proper relationships, but he has had other girlfriends before that he said didn't mean anything. He was my first boyfriend.
I know he wants me back because he has been trying really hard but today he said he doesnt care anymore, he said if i take him back then thats great but if not then he'll find someone else. He keeps saying things like he'll just go talk to another girl and that someone else can have him. i told him i need time so ill tell him on tuesday. Should i take him back or not?

回答 (2)

2016-02-12 7:06 pm
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/PdMaC

Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-01-09 12:22 pm
you like fighting maybe you need a stronger man for fighting and attacking...ask ypur mother

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