Am I not giving him space? Why doesn't he like he spend time with me unless he wants to?how could I make him realise his mistake?
2015-12-15 7:15 am
I love a guy . he s so good and he s only SPL person I have come across. He used to spend a lot of time with me for the frst one year .we were in a relation for one and half year .He used to be with me every time.But these days he started a business and was busy with it.But the prblm is he s not at all interested in spending time with me? He always counts the number of hours he stays with me .even though when he was free he tries to spend time with his friends. He s been always asking for space .and after some research he doesn't even an other girl in his life ? He only loves me a lot . though he shows his love towards me .but he s been searching for reasons to avoid spending time with me ? Why is he doing like this ?? I never said no to anyone of his desires or for freaking out with his friends until and unless it was not good for him ?? But he still doesnt want to spend time with me ?
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2015-12-15 7:33 am
Shawty...you gotta be vocal with him about what you want..which is for him to spend time with you..otherwise the issue will never get resolved. There are unfortunately guys like this in relationship, who require a lot of space, aren't big on closeness or regular contact & affection - alot of times just like in your case - there may not even be cheating..It just is what it is they like space.
So you know..You just gotta be vocal with him & explain that you have a need for regular attention, affection & closeness - and if he cannot keep & is not willing to make an effort - then both of you need to compromise (*meaning you will give him space - which you already do - but as often as he likes, however you also want there to be periods compensating for your loneliness where he's excessively attentive & in constant close contact with you), otherwise if he can't or both of you can't compromise - I would then say move on & find someone that's way more compatible with you. Yeah.
So you know..You just gotta be vocal with him & explain that you have a need for regular attention, affection & closeness - and if he cannot keep & is not willing to make an effort - then both of you need to compromise (*meaning you will give him space - which you already do - but as often as he likes, however you also want there to be periods compensating for your loneliness where he's excessively attentive & in constant close contact with you), otherwise if he can't or both of you can't compromise - I would then say move on & find someone that's way more compatible with you. Yeah.
2015-12-15 7:17 am
Sweetheart, you gotta make it clear to him that he needs to visit you. If he doesn't want to, to hell with him. It disturbs me that you've never said no to his desires.
2015-12-15 7:19 am
Maybe he doesn't want to spend time with you because of your awful spelling and grammar....... I can't help you when the sentence structure and spelling is bad and your words contradict each other.
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