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.if you ask someone a question, fairly intimate, and you have history,and they say sure do you take that as an ahhh, yeah i guess i have to or should....i need a yes or no, an sure feels like an obligation to me, idk thats my choice of word with obligation, guys does this mean yes to you, or obligation? Im a female asking a reconnected ex if they want to meet for a drink while im in town...answer....sure....i said dont worry about it, was look for a yeah that could be fun or an ah sorry, cant