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I'm sorry to hear your story :/ but listen he is being honest with you and that is HUGE ! What I mean is my ex -was the same in that he wasn't over his ex-gf
But he chose not to tell me and just leave me with out a word 💔that hurted like hell and I felt devastated, there was nothing I could do to get him to talk.
Anyways you wrote your bf is actually telling you how he is feeling and that you're not a rebound and he is just not ready right now! Which yea it sucks but he must like you enough to not let you go ! He might just need time to figure himself out! I would respect his choice and just let him know I was there for him .. Like send him a cute gift for Christmas or something also you can text him but don't expect a reply just say something like "thinking of you :) hope you have a lovely day" or something sweet just to let him know you'll be waiting for him I'm sure this will help him realize you care !😊
Wish you both the best .x