Everyone read!!!!!! Need some serious help here!!!!!!!!!?

2015-12-10 6:17 pm
Ok so this guy I was talking to pretty seriously for about 2 months just decided to tell me the other day that he still needed to get over his ex that had cheated on him. We were supposed to hangout the day it all happened and then he said “we need to talk” and that’s when it all started. He said what made him realize he needed space with me was the one day that I stayed the night at his house. He said I was the first person to since his ex. And he said he was uncomfortable with me staying but he was the one who wanted me to which doesn’t make sense to me. I’m really sad about it because he said he wants space and he said we will see how things go in the future and saying he needs to work on himself right now and stuff like that. And said he wasn't ready for a relationship yet. And he also told me I wasn’t a rebound or anything. So I’m wondering if there’s anything I can do because we talked every single day all day and now it’s just all taken away ): I already miss him a lot ): I even met his family and he met mine ): do you think I should give him his space for now and try in text him in like a month or something??

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2015-12-10 6:53 pm
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I'm sorry to hear your story :/ but listen he is being honest with you and that is HUGE ! What I mean is my ex -was the same in that he wasn't over his ex-gf
But he chose not to tell me and just leave me with out a word 💔that hurted like hell and I felt devastated, there was nothing I could do to get him to talk.
Anyways you wrote your bf is actually telling you how he is feeling and that you're not a rebound and he is just not ready right now! Which yea it sucks but he must like you enough to not let you go ! He might just need time to figure himself out! I would respect his choice and just let him know I was there for him .. Like send him a cute gift for Christmas or something also you can text him but don't expect a reply just say something like "thinking of you :) hope you have a lovely day" or something sweet just to let him know you'll be waiting for him I'm sure this will help him realize you care !😊
Wish you both the best .x
2015-12-10 6:20 pm
Ok, take his word for it, at least he told you the truth and didn't lead you on. I think he was just looking for a rebound and still has feelings for his ex.
2015-12-10 6:32 pm
He is telling you he is not over his ex, and its possible he never will be. Regardless of what he said, you are a rebound. Don't wait for him to "find himself", move on.
2015-12-20 12:30 am
Of course you were a rebound. He wanted some free pu$$y and you obligingly gave it to him. Now he's done with you.

Whether his story about still being emotionally attached to his ex is true or not, there's no way to tell. Either he's telling you the truth, or he's just using that whole "not over my ex yet" as an excuse to dump girls after they've given him what he wanted. Either way, you don't need to be pursuing him any further.

Don't jump into bed with someone you've known for all of five minutes in future. Find out FIRST if they are ready for a relationship, THEN take that relationship to a more intimate level. Otherwise you'll just keep getting used and tossed aside. As this guy did.

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