Pedophile is a term that these days strikes fear into everyone, which is why maybe we should change it to pedosexual, at least for the non-offending pedos. What do you think?
Yes I think it's quite reasonable to label a person who has a sexual interest in children, but whom doesn't act upon their desires, with a less emotive term. Pedosexual is as good as any.
No. In this society we must be able to idenitfy people who are predators to young children. Changing the name will just help those who wish to do harm a chance to hide. Call it what it is.