Were both 16 and when I asked her to talk to a cute boy about me she said she didnt want to. She was disobedient and its in my duty to punish her. I was thinking about making up a terrible rumor or just smacking her silly. What to do
Excuse me? You're only 'duty' as a friend is to have good times with them and listen to each other. Stop talking about 'disobedient' bullshit, you've got no authority over her.
Yu don't punish friends. ANd inanother post you were compaining about no body eating at yourwedding. I had a feeling you were a troll when yousadi the drink was grape juice-wine-and dr pepper.
Be the better person and don't spread rumors or anything of that sort. Be respectful and caring even if she didn't do what you asked to. You don't get everything you want in life. Go talk to the boy yourself.
Once a rumour starts, it grows in intensity and can't be stopped leading to possibly devastating consequences not just for your friend but for you too. So she didn't do as you asked - or did you command? - so what? That's her choice.
Please do not smack her either as you'll get a reputation as an aggressive individual and I'm sure you don't want that following you around.