Not ALL Dogs Are The Same. Some Nippier Than Others. But Maybe You Should Go With Your Parents And Pick Out One That You Feel A STRONG Connection With. If They Don't Bark Out Of There Minds And Don't Try To Bite You Through The Cage They're Perfect. And If You REALLY Ignored The Little Puppy Then Why Should You Be Scared Of Something You Didn't Really Bother To Pay Any Attention To? Maybe That Particular Dog Had A Problem. Or Maybe It Was Just Happy To See New People. Don't Take It Personally. If It's Any Consolation I Am A Vet, And Study Dogs Behavior's/Actions/Reactions/Likes/Dislikes/Etc. What I'm Trying To Say Is Don't Be Hesitant Find A Quiet/Play full/Sweet/Loving Dog Who's The Only One At The Shelter NOT Barking It's Head Off. BARK BARK-"Pick Me I AM THE CUTEST DOG, IGNORE THE UGLIES!!" RUFFITY RUFF RUFF- "AY!! What'Chu Doin' In My Shelta' Human. I Ought To Kill Ya'. Wait Till' I Get Out Dis' Cage, Man!!" Quietness- "I'm Fluffy, Please Pick Me. Lovin' The Hair. Wait Is You Bald? Oh Well, Grow Some Hair Silly!! Lol Just Biting Your Leg. Naw, I Don't Bite. But My Mother Is 'Nippy Nancy'. Boy Do I HAVE A Lot To Discuss. Hey, Ur Taking Me Home? I lOVE YOU SO MUCH, NEW OWNER!! OH BOY, OH BOY, OH BOY" This Oughta' Cheer You Up!! Hehe!! :) Hope You Get What You Want. Happy Holidays.- From Vet, Jessie. :) ;) :m XD XP Hugs, XOXO!!
Why don't you ask your parents why they want to give you a puppy. At 18 you are considered to be an adult and will presumably not live at home forever. What will happen when you leave for college, university, start work or get your own place ?
You really have to think about these things and so do they. A dog is not an impulse buy - it takes time, money and commitment. If there's any doubt then you should say no.
Tell your parents your fears and since you are 18 yrs old, you will be moving out soon. If they want a dog, its their dog; not yours. Not all people are comfortable around pets and since you have a fear, then its best to not own one at this time.
Maybe you will eventually get a dog you are comfortable with but don't force yourself now. The dog/puppy WILL pick up on your fears.
Same thing happened to me. . . except that it was a hamster, not a dog. Once a hamster bit me so hard that I was so afraid to come close to any hamster because I've had bad experience with them. But, I overcame my fear by thinking that not every living thing is the same. . not every human is the same. . not every human is mean, cruel and barbarous.
The puppy WILL most likely nip at you, but it won't bite you unless you were threatening it etc etc. Puppies do nip a lot since they're exploring the whole world and they just want to get to know things before doing any serious damage. Although it's very hard to overcome some fears, puppies don't bite that hard.
The dog that bit you before was probably biting you because you were simply invading his territory which can happen a lot of times. The dog was being protective over his territory and decided to attack you since you were invading it. Or it could be the case that the dog thought you were a threat because he never saw you or counted you as a threat by simply ignoring his actions.
Remember, not every dog is the same.. some dog's are nicer than others. You've stated that you still like dogs on the other hand, so why not give it a try.
Once there was a dog on a walk and he came running at me. He started to bite my pants and tug at them. Guess what 'I' did? I just ignored the dog as if it was no threat to me and kept on walking. If you show your fear, the dog is the one that is the dominant one and you're allowing him to control over you. OK. I'm going off topic.
All you need to remember in these paragraphs... not every dog is the same. Some are nicer than others.
And also, puppies will nip you, but it won't be hard, TRUST me! And once you grow a bond with the puppy by playing with it, he'll/she'll be your best friend forever!
I've wanted my own puppy since I was little too and finally got one this summer. Even though I'd been researching and planning for years, it still took me by surprise! The amount of work it took to keep that little rascal out of trouble was overwhelming.
She's seven months old now and, though still trouble, much more manageable and really sweet and fun.
But all puppies 'mouth', like playful nipping, I think, and it's hard to train them out of it. So if you think that might be a problem for you, definitely a reason to hesitate. Puppies are really rambunctious and it's likely you'll have a somewhat repeat scenario of the pup chasing you and maybe trying to nip at your legs. (especially if you get a herding breed, like I did)
So like some other people have said, I'd try spending some time around dogs (especially puppies) and see how you do with it. You can volunteer at a local shelter, or ask a breeder about it, or go to pet stores, etc.
I would definitely tell your parents, as it won't be good if you go through with it and end up not being able to handle this puppy. So they'd rather just know, I think. Also, as someone else said, just keep in mind that depending on where you live, this is definitely not the best time of year to get a puppy.
And maybe, if you find in spending time around dogs that the puppies are a problem but adult dogs aren't, maybe you could try adopting an adult dog instead. They're less likely to have the nipping issues, and won't be so energetic.
Good luck!
Mom, Dad, you know I've been doing some serious thinking and I have decided that I am not emotionally or financially ready to take on the responsibility for a pet at this time. In case you were thinking of a pet for Christmas, please don't.
Tell your parents to get the dog for themselves, not you. It is not fair to you or the dog at this time. Whether you are going to college or getting a job, the responsibility of dog ownership is a burden you do not need now. Dorms will not let the dog in and apartments will charge more. You can see the dog when at your parents' house and reconcile your feelings about future pet ownership without assuming the commitment now.
Dog ownership is for the life of that dog. It will need exercise, medical attention, food. Those responsibilities require time and money. You do not know the personality of the dog they will get. Is he a barker, chewer, slobberer? Your parents' circumstance enables them to attend and rectify these conditions. If you are an ordinary 18 year old, it is another rock in your rucksack you do not need at this point in time.
Tell your parents how you feel.
Why would they 'tell' you they are getting you an animal without even asking if it's something you want? A puppy is not just a cute little birthday gift, it is a commitment for life.
You have a responsible attitude, because like others have pointed out, making that commitment to own a pet is not something you should do lightly.
When i first got my dog as a puppy it did target me to claw, this only happened for the first month after we got her. Before her a had another dog she was the sweetest thing especially since i was only a baby. During that first month i was very hesitant to go near her. I would always think of my previous dog and it helped my fight through it. By the end of that month i was in love with the puppy and other than the occasional accidental scratch she never did it again.
Maybe if you have a friend with an older dog you can be slowly introduced to him. This might help you if you really want to have the puppy. Honestly i'm happy we didn't get rid of the dog (my parents were afraid the clawing would go on forever) because that dog got me through some tough times.
Here's the thing about puppies, you never know what your going to get. All personalities are different, just like people's. I am the same as you, I wanted a dog ever since I was little and recenly, I finally got one.
The first day I brought him home he was well behaved, besides a little bit of teething which all puppies do. That was at 4 months.
Now at 8 months, he's become aggressive. If you try to pick him up he bites ( not in a teething manner )
He growls, bites shoes, and humps everything.
He's a nightmare, and the only option we have left is a trainer, but that's really expensive.
I guess my point is, make sure you really want a dog.
Make sure you'll have time for a dog, or even the energy.
And most of all make sure you'll have the money in case you'll need a trainer.
Because now since I wanted the dog, I'm stuck with him. I have to take him out, feed him, bathe him etc. and hes aggressive and unenjoyable.
The question is for you, do you really want a dog as a pet. Not all dogs are the same. Maybe you should spend some time volunteering at a veterinary clinic. Talk to the people there, and interact with the puppys. In the meantime do some research on the type of dog you are interested in, learn about their personalities. At the age of 18 and taking care of a small dog is a lot of responsibility. Consider EVERYTHING before you decide.
Personally, I find it strange that they're starting you out with a relatively demanding pet.
Not only that, but before you're about to move out, go to college, have a lot of life changes, etc. Its not the time to get a dog. Propose another idea. Especially if you have something you need to let settle down. Maybe visit the shelters, donate food and know that you're helping but not entirely responsible. A dog liking you more doesn't mean you're liable to own one just yet. The most selfless thing you can do is wait until you're ready, and give a sweet dog the best you can give
You need to be telling your parents this.
Not ALL Dogs Are The Same. Some Nippier Than Others. But Maybe You Should Go With Your Parents And Pick Out One That You Feel A STRONG Connection With. If They Don't Bark Out Of There Minds And Don't Try To Bite You Through The Cage They're Perfect. And If You REALLY Ignored The Little Puppy Then Why Should You Be Scared Of Something You Didn't Really Bother To Pay Any Attention To? Maybe That Particular Dog Had A Problem. Or Maybe It Was Just Happy To See New People. Don't Take It Personally. If It's Any Consolation I Am A Vet, And Study Dogs Behavior's/Actions/Reactions/Likes/Disli... What I'm Trying To Say Is Don't Be Hesitant Find A Quiet/Play full/Sweet/Loving Dog Who's The Only One At The Shelter NOT Barking It's Head Off. BARK BARK-"Pick Me I AM THE CUTEST DOG, IGNORE THE UGLIES!!" RUFFITY RUFF RUFF- "AY!! What'Chu Doin' In My Shelta' Human. I Ought To Kill Ya'. Wait Till' I Get Out Dis' Cage, Man!!" Quietness- "I'm Fluffy, Please Pick Me. Lovin' The Hair. Wait Is You Bald? Oh Well, Grow Some Hair Silly!! Lol Just Biting Your Leg. Naw, I Don't Bite. But My Mother Is 'Nippy Nancy'. Boy Do I HAVE A Lot To Discuss. Hey, Ur Taking Me Home? I lOVE YOU SO MUCH, NEW OWNER!! OH BOY, OH BOY, OH BOY" This Oughta' Cheer You Up!! Hehe!! :) Hope You Get What You Want. Happy Holidays.- From Vet, Jessie. :) ;) :m XD XP Hugs, XOXO!!
I would like to tell you the best advice you are probably going to receive. If you chose to take my advice you will look back on this question and be glad you listened. I love animals, especially dogs, I have three! I got a dog when I turned 20 and I love him so much! He's my best friend and I don't know what I would do without him. However, there have been many times when I wanted to go out with my friends ,hangout with my boyfriend or even go visit my family in another state and I couldn't. I had a responsibility...my dog. I would feel guilty leaving my best friend and didn't even realize how much work it was to actually take care of him! THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THIS ANSWER IS: DOGS COST MONEY. NOTNJUST TO BUY ONE BUT TO TAKE IT TO THE GROOMER, THE VET, BUYING ITS FOOD, TREATS AND LEASHES! IT NEEDS EXERCISE AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. If you can't afford that and you don't have your parents to help you out no matter what the situation is, PLEASE DONT get a dog. Rescue a dog if you do
I had the same fear of dogs, back then nobody really cared about their dogs and left them outside to do whatever they wanted, heck I don't even think people had a leash or even knew what it was called, so pretty much my childhood consistently was running away from vicious dogs. Some of them their hair was standing on end and their teeth where bearing, I had to slowly back up inch by inch (trust me took me awhile to get out of there in one piece)
I just recently got a dog (a toy dog) and heck I love him, he is a goofy little dog and makes me laugh so hard at the silly things he does. He will go on his back and act all silly and goes up and licks my face constantly and refuses to sleep unless he is with me.
So now I understand that dogs are they way they are from what they have been taught, I am not mean to my dog and he is not a mean dog. Where as the other dogs I encountered as a young child I think must of been brought up mean or heck they could of had rabies for all I knew.
You will be fine, just make sure you get a dog that matches your energy level, which means, if you feel you are a lazy person, get a lazy dog, if you are an high energetic person love to get outside and run everyday for like a hour then get a high energetic dog (like a yellow lab)
The best thing is to be honest with yourself, if you don't know much about training then get a dog that is easy to train, since I found out that training one thing in a dog can take up to a year depending on the dog. If you don't have that much time on your hands then be honest with yourself.
This website below is a breed selector and you should fill out the questionnaire and see what dog is right for you.
http://www.pedigree.com/all-things-dog/select-a-dog/
It would not be smart to get a dog or puppy at this time. You're 18. This is the time in your life for moving / going to school / being on your own / travel. Dogs are a big responsibility and a hassle. You will have to look after it and worry about it's needs.
My advice is to wait until you have your own place and get your own dog. Work on your issues later.
If you were scared of a little dog, then you shouldn't get a dog at all. I suggest you get a goldfish because they won't bite.
Btw, if you ever run into another situation where a little dog is attacking you, I suggest that you scold with a loud deep voice; most dogs will obey.
I was so busy at 18, a dog takes time and wants family time, needs 2 long walks a day. If your not up to that then take a pass. I thought I wanted a dog that was because I picked out a distant cold bf. Plus I was a not responsible at that age for the time and attention a doggie needs.
Since you have not been given the gift yet, ask your parents to give the money they planned to spend on it to your local animal shelter. Give back, indirectly, to your friend dog by helping other dogs. If you have these issues, you do NOT need a dog right now. Good luck.
Don't do it. You're young. Enjoy your life because having a puppy will take away your freedom for awhile. It's a lot of work, and if you are hesitant, don't do it just yet, whatever your reason may be. We got ours at 2 months, almost took her back the next morning but we stuck with it. She's 2 and a half now and the best dog we could ask for, but I'm also older and I raised her with help from my fiancé.
Puppy's are a big responsibility. If you're going to school and working you may want to hold off a few years. Focus on getting a career going first.
Tell them your fears and you would much rather an XBOX ONE with a few games.
Having a pet is a long term responsibility. If you are at all unsure, do not get one. Tell your parents, Thanks but no thanks. You do not want a dog.
It's natural to feel the way you do. I love animals but one time I had a stray that I put in my garage so he wouldn't be out in the cold, and everytime I tried to feed him he would bite my arms like they were a chew bone, so for awhile I was scared of big dogs. Just know every dog is different just like no person is the same. Plus the way a dog is raised really will show its behavior. your puppy will bond with you and with proper raising will be a great dog! If you feel like you cant handle it make sure to find it a good home or give it back to the breeder. I personally say rescue but however you acquire your future best friend is your decision
Tell your parents how you feel. They will understand :)
Maybe a good first step would be to go to a rescue and re-homing centre, Dog's Trust are excellent, perhaps you could volunteer and work with both dogs and staff to familiarise yourself with dog's behaviour and learn about their psychology. You sound as if you could, with a bit of support and insight be a good and responsible dog owner. I have been rescuing and re-habilitating (problem) dogs for fifty wonderful years, they have in the past and continue to, enrich my life. The right dog is out there waiting for a lovely owner like you.
Cats don't randomly claw anyone.
If you're not wanting a pet, tell your parents, so they don't get you one.
It was a traumatizing experience. It is completly normal for you to feel this way. Some experience around friendly dogs may help you warm back up to the idea :)
Not all dogs will attack you, especially puppies! There just playful and hyper so if they chace you it's mainly because it wants to play ( I know that wasn't the case with the dog that chaced you but generally a puppy doesn't want to harm you ) also it depends on the breed of dog you choose, how you rais the dog and also like humans dogs have many different personalities :)
To begin with dogs smell fear. If it's a pup you have nothing to fear it won't do anything. It's like a baby it won't try to attack you, all dogs are different and the type of breed you're going to get also varies. Try to look into the different breeds of dogs and their temperment. Look for a breed who'll meet up to your standers. It's a pup so it's learning it won't attack. Also there's different breeds for example a husky or a Great Dane ( just an example). As it grows you'll need to show you're the alfalfa. When I say that I mean show you're in charge of the house hold by training him/her and showing if he/she is doing something wrong. 90% of dogs respect their owners just don't be afraid.
參考: I love dogs. I have one and normally study on them.
Your just getting out of your diapers at 18. The problem here is your priorities. You need to get a job, move out and support yourself while continuing your education. You do not need any pets at this time in your life. Childhoods over~!
PLEASE , TELL YOUR PARENTS NOT TO GET YOU A DOG.
IF YOU HAVE THE SLIGHTEST FEELING THAT YOU MAY NOT LIKE THE DOG FOR WHATEVER REASON ( IN YOUR CASE IT SEEMS THAT YOU HAVE BEEN TRAUMATIZED BY ONE NEGATIVE ENCOUNTER WITH A DOG) THEN YOU MAY FIND YOURSELF ABANDONING THE DOG, ABUSING IT, OR NOT TREATING THE DOG RIGHT AND IT WILL CONTRIBUTE TO A VERY LARGE PET-ABANDONMENT PROBLEM IN THIS NATION.
GETTING A PET IS NOT JUST A NOVELTY AND I AM AFRAID THAT YOUR PARENTS MAY SEE IT IS SUCH. THEY SHOULD HAVE TALKED TO YOU AND MADE SURE THAT GETTING YOU A DOG IS THE RIGHT IDEA. IF THEY WERE MORE AWARE THEY WOULD KNOW THAT BECAUSE OF YOUR TRAUMA BECAUSE OF BEING NIPPED BY A DOG THAT YOU CANNOT BE ABSOLUTELY SURE THAT YOU WANT ONE AS A PET.
DON'T BE AFRAID TO LET YOUR PARENTS KNOW THAT A DOG IS NOT THE RIGHT PRESENT FOR YOU. EACH PET DESERVES LOVING CARING RESPONSIBLE OWNERS. I HAVE HEARD PEOPLE SAY THAT THEY USED TO LIKE ANIMALS BUT JUST "OUTGREW LIKING THEM" OR HAD A BAD EXPERIENCE AND "NOW HATE ANIMALS" (ETC) AND STILL THEY END UP GETTING A PET JUST BECAUSE IT IS A STATUS SYMBOL. DON'T FALL INTO THIS STATISTIC.
IT TAKES A MATURE AND HIGHLY SENSIBLE MIND TO REALIZE ALL THIS.
FORGET BECOMING A PET OWNER IF IT IS NOT TRULY IN YOUR HEART TO UNCONDITIONALLY LOVE AND TAKE CARE OF A DOG OR ANY PET.
OMFG, you know there are real problems in this world? I mean grow some balls, if you are a boy, if you are a girl grow some metaphorical balls.
Tell them what you have told us. It would not be a good idea to have a puppy at the moment. They are very intuitive and can sense feelings...and would be receptive to your fear and either feel very depressed....oh yes dogs can be depressed....or take the lead and become the alpha male instead of you.
Leave it for a couple of years for your sake and the puppy's.
First, you should tell your parents your thoughts of having a dog/puppy (maybe they can change their mind on what they will give you instead).
Second (if you are still ok on having a dog), research some information about dog breeds. There are information about personality and behaviour of dog breeds in the internet. Choose something that fits your preferences. But if you still have some fear dogs, I recommend a small size dogs. They are friendly, less domineering visually, and easier to maintain.
Lastly, when you decided on which breed of dog you like, talk together with your parents about which breed of puppy you want. Knowing your worries about dogs, they can help you decide.
It is after all, going to be your four legged best friend. Good luck! :)
The dog will sense your fear, and will never accept you as "Pack Leader", You will have nothing but problems with any dog unless you overcome your anxiety.
Do a favor for your next dog, spend some time going to animal shelters to see if you can overcome these feelings before you get any dog.
Once you get your puppy, you'll form a bond because you'll watch it grow up etc. However puppies like to nibble you and test their boundaries. I doubt the puppy will hurt you so hopefully you'll grow out of your fear. So it up to you if your prepared for one. I brought a two year old dog from someone a few months ago, I was nervous to meet her at first because I didn't know how she behaved but she was so friendly and happy to see me :)
Ok, so a good saying would be you are how your owners are. Keep this in mind. If you constantly play with a puppy and pet it, it will become a very nice, loving dog.if you are obedient to it as a puppy,it will be obedient when it's older. If you neglect it and treat it like crap, it will be a bad dog. Dogs are a big responsibility, and I highly suggest getting one. Good luck!!
參考: I own a very friendly and loving shihtzu.
You're an ADULT; Why are you living in your "Mommie's" home ?
I'm most certain this problem will go if you get a dog and are devoted to him or her. When you get a dog you'll learn that not every single dog is the same. When you get a dog you'll be more observant to other dogs. When you get a dog you'll be able to understand dog body language. Ever since I've had my first dog, my life has changed.
Not every dog is like that particular dog you saw when you were younger. That owner definately had not done enough or any training to that dog.
Just know that if you get a puppy, day one is when you should start socializing and training.
Socializing is essential, I regret not doing enough with my dog. Anyway, I'm sure there are better replies than mine haha. Good luck, you'll definately love having a dog I recon.
The puppy will be so cute your heart will melt and it will be too small to do you any harm. The puppy will help you work past the fear (which is completely natural, BTW). You need to take the dog to a puppy training class and work with it so you'll not only train the dog to do what you want (makes both dog and owner happier), but also gives you insight into how dogs think.
I agree with pretty much all the answers. Telling your parents is a great idea as you are being rational in your hesitation and fear and I'm sure they will be understanding. I think it is also a great idea to go to a store or wherever you buy/adopt pets where you live and see if any seem unthreatening and also think how cute and dopey puppies are, I don't like small dogs personally maybe a puppy that will mature to a medium ish size would be a good idea and as long as you treat it well it should turn out loyal and you will make more amazing memories and be reminded of your childhood friend. And if all else fails get a cat, just because they're awesome :) hope this helped and good luck!
Not ALL Dogs Are The Same. Some Nippier Than Others. But Maybe You Should Go With Your Parents And Pick Out One That You Feel A STRONG Connection With. If They Don't Bark Out Of There Minds And Don't Try To Bite You Through The Cage They're Perfect. And If You REALLY Ignored The Little Puppy Then Why Should You Be Scared Of Something You Didn't Really Bother To Pay Any Attention To? Maybe That Particular Dog Had A Problem. Or Maybe It Was Just Happy To See New People. Don't Take It Personally. If It's Any Consolation I Am A Vet, And Study Dogs Behavior's/Actions/Reactions/Likes/Disli... What I'm Trying To Say Is Don't Be Hesitant Find A Quiet/Play full/Sweet/Loving Dog Who's The Only One At The Shelter NOT Barking It's Head Off. BARK BARK-"Pick Me I AM THE CUTEST DOG, IGNORE THE UGLIES!!" RUFFITY RUFF RUFF- "AY!! What'Chu Doin' In My Shelta' Human. I Ought To Kill Ya'. Wait Till' I Get Out Dis' Cage, Man!!" Quietness- "I'm Fluffy, Please Pick Me. Lovin' The Hair. Wait Is You Bald? Oh Well, Grow Some Hair Silly!! Lol Just Biting Your Leg. Naw, I Don't Bite. But My Mother Is 'Nippy Nancy'. Boy Do I HAVE A Lot To Discuss. Hey, Ur Taking Me Home? I lOVE YOU SO MUCH, NEW OWNER!! OH BOY, OH BOY, OH BOY" This Oughta' Cheer You Up!! Hehe!! :) Hope You Get What You Want. Happy Holidays.- From Vet, Jessie. :) ;) :m XD XP Hugs, XOXO!!
Not ALL Dogs Are The Same. Some Nippier Than Others. But Maybe You Should Go With Your Parents And Pick Out One That You Feel A STRONG Connection With. If They Don't Bark Out Of There Minds And Don't Try To Bite You Through The Cage They're Perfect. And If You REALLY Ignored The Little Puppy Then Why Should You Be Scared Of Something You Didn't Really Bother To Pay Any Attention To? Maybe That Particular Dog Had A Problem. Or Maybe It Was Just Happy To See New People. Don't Take It Personally. If It's Any Consolation I Am A Vet, And Study Dogs Behavior's/Actions/Reactions/Likes/Disli... What I'm Trying To Say Is Don't Be Hesitant Find A Quiet/Play full/Sweet/Loving Dog Who's The Only One At The Shelter NOT Barking It's Head Off. BARK BARK-"Pick Me I AM THE CUTEST DOG, IGNORE THE UGLIES!!" RUFFITY RUFF RUFF- "AY!! What'Chu Doin' In My Shelta' Human. I Ought To Kill Ya'. Wait Till' I Get Out Dis' Cage, Man!!" Quietness- "I'm Fluffy, Please Pick Me. Lovin' The Hair. Wait Is You Bald? Oh Well, Grow Some Hair Silly!! Lol Just Biting Your Leg. Naw, I Don't Bite. But My Mother Is 'Nippy Nancy'. Boy Do I HAVE A Lot To Discuss. Hey, Ur Taking Me Home? I lOVE YOU SO MUCH, NEW OWNER!! OH BOY, OH BOY, OH BOY" This Oughta' Cheer You Up!! Hehe!! :) Hope You Get What You Want. Happy Holidays.- From Vet, Jessie. :) ;) :m XD XP Hugs, XOXO!!
Small dogs are jerks, they think they are bigger than they actually are and try to act tough. That's why they're always so noisy and annoying. They can turn out well if you care for them the right way though. That person that raised the dog obviously didn't do it the right way. They did it all wrong.
If they're getting you a puppy, make sure it's a medium or big breed. They are much more calm than a chihuahua or a yorkie.
Just remember, it can turn out as a loving and harmless pet if you care for it the right way. I suggest you first pick a breed and then reasearch all about it, it might help you know how active, calm, or smart it is.
You can also watch YouTube videos and see how to care for it so it won't turn out like the one that attacked you.
I'm sure you'll do fine :)
參考: Experience
Thank you for considering how the dog would feel. That alone shows you are more than capable of taking care of a pet.
Fears are best conquered by facing them head on. It's most likely you will feel confident enough to move past your fears with a companion you truly love. After all, a relationship with a pet is based on trust. You will trust her to not hurt you, as she trusts you to not hurt her, and your fears will start to feel pointless!
Of course, the best approach is to visit the dogs and find a dog right for you. There are many different breeds that behave differently. Stay away from hyperactive dog breeds like Border Collies, Heelers, Huskies, Shepherds, etc. Do a lot of research. You will want a dog that matches your energy level. Golden Retrievers and Labs are amazing breeds and often serve as emotional support/service animals. They are easy to train, eager to learn, and love to play but do not have excessive energy. Of course it also depends on the individual dog so be careful when picking a dog.
You may also want to look into an older dog. Puppies bite. They just do. It's how they learn and how they play. An older dog, like around 2 years old and older, are less likely to bite. Consider rescuing from a shelter and adopting an older dog. Do not believe stories that these dogs are damaged. They are just dogs.
You obviously love dogs and I believe that having one of your own is a good way to take a step forward and blossoming your love for dogs again. Don't let one incident take control of you nor keep you from loving dogs.
How your puppy turns out depends on YOU. The amount of attention and training you put into your puppy at a young age stays with it for a life time. That being said, DOGS ARE AMAZING PETS. They're fun, and they always love you unconditionally. Small dogs tend to be antsier and more territorial, so if your afraid of being hurt or having an annoying dog, GET A BIG DOG. A lot less work training the bigger dogs to be quiet than the little dogs. Personal experience. Like i said before. How you're dog turns out depends on Your training. A dog will naturally be more responsive to his pack leader, And that is what You want to become for your pup. I really hope you get the best friend you could ever have :) Its well worth it.
參考: Raising 9 miniature Australian Shepard pups since 2010.
Get a puppy, you need to learn to trust them. Dogs are wonderful to have in your life, they make great friends. I would get a breed that has less tendency to bite. Do your research.
I get where you're coming from. The dog that chased you must have been raised wrong for it to chase you randomly. As long as you raise your puppy right he/she'll love you and maybe even protect you.
Since you're getting a baby pup it'll be easier to get friendly it's him/her. You just have to play with it, feed it, clean it, and bathe it. If you do this and be happy with it, you'll be fine.
參考: I have a puppy of my own
Get a Calalier King Charles Spaniel, not a puppy.
I have this kind of dog and these things are ANGELS. These dogs are extremely social, small, and they seem to love virtually everyone. the best thing though? MOST, IF NOT ALL dogs of this breed are like this. These dogs are actually so friendly, that the breeder i got mine from said ALL of her cavaliers qualify to be therapy dogs to individuals with mental disorders. they have a test, and all of her cavalier's passed the test with full marks, and THEY WERE NEVER TRAINED! most of the time, Cavaliers need to be potty trained, and that's it. They also don't eat that much either. i believe it is 1-2 cups of dog food a day, and a large bag of small-dog food from costco should cover you for about 3-4 months. They only down sides to Cavaliers are 1, some have a genetic disease where their skulls are too small for their brains, so they die a slow, excruciating death. I know, sad, so you need to test the dog you want with a MRI scan. the other down side is that these dogs are in HIGH demand, for obvious reasons, and there are very few breeders that are willing to give them to other families.
I was bitten by a small dog. Not really her fault as she had recently given birth. I remember that so clearly and I was 10 at the time. Since then I have gone on to have a fair few dogs but my heart belongs to Chows. Do not let your parents pick a puppy for you. Tell them you want to choose your companion yourself. take your time and make it the dog you cannot live without. That might sound nuts but if you do that you will have a friend for his or her whole life.
I had those horrible rabies shots through the belly button but it did not stop me from loving Chows. I have one now and he is the most awesome, handsome, adorable, sweet tempered dog in the whole world. For me anyway.
my case was even worse but when we brought a new puppy in the family all my fear was gone it just gets better with time
Well puppies nibble and that's a big problem but u can always make that problem go away by training them. Look up "Zak George" on YouTube he's a VERY VERY good dog trainer. U should look up on the breed and more info about dogs so u could become an expert!!????????You should figure out if u want to feed them raw or kibble too. They both have a negative and a positive side!! And u should figure out if u want to bath them using baby shampoo or dawn or some other shampoo for ur dog that is less expensive and works well. And don't be afraid!! u need to get out of ur shell and this is ur only chance to have ur true and only one little puppy as ur new family member you have always dreamed about. Get out of ur shell because u are worth more than gold. And u are very special. I hope this comes true!!! Good luck!!????????????
if you want a puppy, then you should get one and make sure you train it well, so it doesn't try to attack you. the puppy might accidentally bite you, because it will be teething, but it shouldn't hurt. and if the pup bites you on purpose, you must clearly say 'NO' in a stern voice so it knows that biting humans is not allowed.
but if you are still quite hesitant, tell your parents that you want some time to think about getting a puppy because of the incident.
goood luck !!
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"he was seriously better than humans"? Seriosuly?
Would he pledge for you at court? Nope. Would he just stand there like a dumbass and not even bark at the judge when you're sentenced? Probably. xD
it's a puppy.. what harm can it bring?
The puppy thinks that the person that plays with it and gives it food and water is there owner and pays more attention to that person. just do all of the natural nesescities that come with the puppy and the puppy will love u trust me i got this from a very good source
For dogs, it all depends on the way they are brought up and who they are comfortable around. If you treat your puppy well it will not hurt you. It will become one of your best friends! But you need to know that almost all puppies will play nibble at you when they are exited. That doesn't mean that they want to hurt you in any way, they just are exited and/or have a lot of energy.
Dogs are the best things ever. You'll see.
All puppies/dogs are different. It would be best if you asked your parents to pick the puppy out with them and get one who you and your parents feel comfortable with and vice versa. Maybe do a little research too to see which type of dog you should be looking for in particular, for example if you have a small yard, you shouldn't get a dog that needs to run around a lot.
I have a dog. Chances are, in training, they will nip and they may misbehave but this is just the learning stage. They will get through this soon enough. Talk to your parents about the breed of dog and make sure you feel comfortable. I'm sure your parents could understand if you didn't want a puppy if you decide against getting one. I recommend doing your research on the puppy stage and the different breeds to see what you feel comfortable with and what fits your life best.
Dogs are different. The owner most likely was aggressive to the dog who tried to bite you. It wasn't the dogs fault, it was the owners.
Be aware that all dogs do bite, though it is often a playful nibble. If you aren't as comfortable around dogs, I would suggest asking for a smaller dog rather than something like a lab or golden retriever. If you are hesitant about getting a dog I would go for maybe something no larger than a Boston terrier.
Also, smaller dogs aren't as agressive. Like a yorkie or chihuahua. (Tiny dogs do tend to bark a lot though)
Before spend times with familiar dogs so you can get used to them again
if you spend time with dogs again you will be fine, it will take a little time but since you loved dogs before it wont take very long don't worry.
I have 16 dogs and had dogs since I was born and up to right now witch I am 19 . they have became my family I have one that's mine well you sorta become there pet . I have bonded so deeply with him that if he where to pass away I don't think I could live another day . so it depends on the dog and you . go to the pound to find a dog don't buy cause there is so many being thrown out . buy good brands of food like purina . stay away from store brand foods . blue bluffo is also great and so is royal canine . .. Don't forget water free all the time . and depend on if its going to be inside or out . inside dogs will most likely follow you everywhere and sleep on you at night . . but the dog personally is all based on the dog and your self . the dog will read your emotions and react to them . they need attention all the time . don't get a dog if they will be on the bottom of you list . you will be there life .
參考: Myself
You are going about this all wrong. Please don't judge all animals based of of one animal. Not all animals are the same. That's like saying all humans are the same. I'm sure we can both disagree on that. Shame on the dog that tried biting you especially his owner for that. ???? Dogs act accordingly to how they were raised and trained just like a child would. Everything lies on its owner. You didn't do anything wrong. Well you kinda did by running away. Dogs are in a way very intuitive. They read people very well and know what they are feeling. At that moment the small little yapper that tried biting you sensed your fear. When dogs sense fear they don't trust. So hence he chased you off. Get a dog and try not to think of that incident. Yes, a puppy will nip you not trying to hurt you just being playful. You just have to be very assertive and calm when training them then you'll have a happy puppy/dog. Trust me it'll be the best decision you make. If you get a big breed I recommend a GSD.
Just because one dog has not been properly trained or the owner just has no business having a dog cause he can't control it doesn't mean all dogs are like that. Dogs need training, displine (i dont mean spanking!), care, and love. There kinda like kids. If u dont discipline your kid or care for it properly he or she will act out, just like a dog if not trained properly. If u get a puppy just make sure he gets the attention and love he needs but, at the same time the displine and training. Remember just cause 1 dog is one waydoesnt mean there all like that.
P.s. you should adopt a puppy from a rescue or shelter because there r so many dogs getting euthanized because people r buying from breeders and pet stores, also I've come ro find rescue dogs are sweeter and better dogs all together and will be more commited to you if they know you resved them.
Ask yourself some of these questions. What is the breeds nature? What is expected life range. Does this breed have many of few health problems. Do I have time enough to deal with a needy puppy for the next few months? Am I willing to clean up the puppies accidents and keep things off the floor that could strangulate its intestines? If the dog lives 10 or more yrs you will be in your early 30s when it goes to doggy heaven.
Not all dogs are like that. that one was not raised as well as it could have. Also, this puppy needs a home and you should really take the opportunity. you can raise this puppy the right way and you both can have a happier life together.
Clearly youve suffered some psycological truma that makes you feel this way. But yyou musy know, dogs are loyal and loving creatures, they are known as a mans best friend! I think getting a dog is a great idea, get a small cute dog so youd feel more comfortable around it and eventually you ll get use to it, its good for your personel growth too. Once you get use to him/her you wont be scared of dogs anymore. Dont be hesitant, dogs are amazing! And very loving, if you raise them right, which isnt too hard
It wasn't the dogs fault it was the owners because he probably didn't treat the poor pooch right, so dont be bustin(freaking out)
The puppy WILL most likely nip at you, but it won't bite you unless you were threatening it etc etc. Puppies do nip a lot since they're exploring the whole world and they just want to get to know things before doing any serious damage. Although it's very hard to overcome some fears, puppies don't bite that hard.
The dog that bit you before was probably biting you because you were simply invading his territory which can happen a lot of times. The dog was being protective over his territory and decided to attack you since you were invading it. Or it could be the case that the dog thought you were a threat because he never saw you or counted you as a threat by simply ignoring his actions.
Remember, not every dog is the same.. some dog's are nicer than others. You've stated that you still like dogs on the other hand, so why not give it a try.
Once there was a dog on a walk and he came running at me. He started to bite my pants and tug at them. Guess what 'I' did? I just ignored the dog as if it was no threat to me and kept on walking. If you show your fear, the dog is the one that is the dominant one and you're allowing him to control over you. OK. I'm going off topic.
It shouldn't hurt you. You just have to get used to him/her.
Not all dogs are the same
I am a cat lover but have a similar story. I had cats all my life, but once I was walking up these steep stairs outside of my townhouse complex to get home. There was this cat sitting at the top of the stairs staring at me. I didn't think much of it, the cat would probably either meow and be cuddly or run away. It did neither. As I approached it yowled at me really loud and tried to jump at my face. I screamed. It scared the crap out of me. It ran away. Anyway, I probably just never took that stairway again. I still loved my cats and some nicer ones in the neighbourhood. With cats...just like people, there are the bad eggs. On a good note though, I never met a cat like that again. Mine are all cuddle bugs and so are all my friends cats. I'm kind of scared of dogs simply because I never owned one and was chased by 2 in my life time....but it's the same thing really. It doesn't mean all dogs are bad. :) And hey at least if I ever did get a dog and was chased by a stranger dog again, my dog would protect me!
look man, you need to go to a therapist IMEDIATELY. you have PTSD from this event and it can only get worse from here. you could end up spiraling into a deep depression and murdering small dogs in order to get a sense of closure. stop this before it begins. don't worry if you go to a therapist itll be okay honey boo
I can understand your problem if it had happened when you were 2 or 3 but not 13. I say just get over it. get a small dog and just love it and get used to holding a dog again .
Raising somthing from a baby is a completely diffrent scenario. I can tell with one glance if my dog doesn't like sombody you'll no what he likes and doesn't what makes him mad and how much they can take. It is a bond unlike any other. They also love you that much more. Why do you think people always say hes never done anything like that to me before after sombody gets bit
I would go to the shelter and spend time with a dog and see if theres a connection and you can get to know each other better. Every dog is differentso therefore it might take meeting a couple of dogs until you find the one you connect with. Ypu gain trust with the animal. If you're fear doesn't subside, do talk with your parents and maybe do a class with dogs to get rid of your fear. I can't recall what they're called. Once I got chased and bit by a dog who had recently given birth and most would've thought I'd be fearful of them. Now I'm working at a dog groomer risking everything. Remember though that puppies are playful and will tend to chew and bite your hands and ankles, anything they can get their teeth on. Look for information online as well and other people's experiences.
The dog that bit you was just one of those dogs. Heck, I ran about 2 miles with a dog chasing after me before it finally gave up. Some dogs are just like that. This new puppy may be a sign of change. If you have a good start with the new puppy, then it will be positive towards you and you will have a good relationship with it.
It's difficult to know what event will cause us trauma until it actually happens. Somethings might seem obvious (violent crime, sudden death of loved one, etc) but any event in which we are suddenly presented with an unfamiliar situation and/or expectation can lead to 'imprinting.'
Being chased by an unfamiliar dog and being bitten by it does sound like something that would imprint on a 13yr old. However, what you should take away from that incident is that it was an unfamiliar dog. Unless your parents bring home a deeply abused animal, that dog will become YOUR dog, and both you and them will understand that bond implicitly. Furthermore, that dog shouldn't ever be a cause of concern of being bitten because it understands you are the one taking care of it. Dogs bite out of fear or response to territory. In other words, you should only be in danger from a dog if it doesn't know you or you are doing something to interfere with something it's currently playing with.
In addition, before biting, most dogs will growl or give warning before they strike. If your dog is chewing on a bone and they growl or move away when you reach for it, it should be clear to you that Fido doesn't want to play and they should be left alone. More people get bitten because they misread an animal's body language than are randomly attacked for no apparent reason.
Lastly, a puppy would be the least dangerous version of a dog I would consider. Puppies are more easily molded and bonded than adults and are very receptive to good ownership. In other words, taking good care of a puppy is the best insurance that the one person Fido is least likely to bite, as it ages, is its owner.
Taking care of a puppy would be excellent therapy for you. Let the loving actions of your new friend help balance out the momentarily traumatic actions of that stranger. The first time your new friend tries to jump up and lick your face, and you smiling from ear to ear, will soon have you forgetting all about that other dog.
I'm sure you'll get used to your own puppy. Just because one dog acted one way towards you doesn't mean that they all will. Just try to train your puppy.
Go to the animal shelter in early January and take home a young dog. It would have already been vaccinated and housetrained. Plus the staff will be able to match you with a dog with a suitable docile personality
I have a husks and I'm 13 I used to be all scared and she used to think I was playing so she tried to bite me but u have to be stern with any dog ur us or not and tell it no and be dominant a dog is usually dominant if it doesn't know u and train ur dog well good luck
Not all dogs are mean to other people and want to bite other people. The only reason why the dog wanted/ tried to bite you was either it's owner was a bad master, or the owner barely feeds the dog. Dogs are mans best friend, if they weren't good company to people, or always turned on their owners they would have been called Mans worst friends. I myself have a pet dog, who scratches me mostly because I keep the ball away from him for too long, thats the only way dogs could hurt you... from playing. So if you always wanted a puppy, go with it, be nice to it and feed it don't let the past affect the present. :)
tell them what the problem you have with having a puppy is once they know that they can figure out what to do about it so it is not an problem
I was like you up until the age of about 15 I hated dogs they scared me to the point id Cross the road if there was on the same street as me but my parents got a dog and I realised that being around dogs they're not all the same and you'll find that having a dog raised around you gives you a whole new perspective on them
Lets get to the chase and the end on your mind set regarding your issues you are still not in the position
of being in a responsible position to engage in having a puppy of your own unless you overcome this issue and
and for your sake and perhaps more the puppy as he will suffer
Ditch this for the time being until you can cope with it or not
Do not visit this on a pet
John
Why would you let 1 bad experience taint your view on all dogs. That dog had a bad owner who let it harass people. A dogs behavior is a reflection of its owner. There are like kids: they need training, you don't let them misbehave and disrespect other animal or people. Your dog will love you and will only want to please you but you have to be a responsible pet owner and train your pet to behave properly and everyone will feel safe and be happy.
it all depends on how u train ur dog .if you make it violent it will be violent if you train it to be nice it will be nice
I highly suggest you Go to the humane society and choose your pet.
They have a wonderful mix of dogs.some young house trained spayed vaccinated.. all different personalities.
zi got mine therr. I had something specific in mind so I spent a year
looking But I got such a winner!
Shouldn't have run, dogs can't chase something if it's not moving. Trying to bite is not actual biting. Should have reported the dog to animal control if it was off it's property.
Pets should never be given as gifts, period. If you want a dog then you should be the one to get it and have your parents pay for it.
Aww. You seem such a sweetheart to be so much concerned about your new dog. But trust me, not all dogs are like that. And especially when that one would be your OWN pet dog. You can train me all the way you want. He'll be yours and will never harm you. You'll love him and he'll love you more.
So don't you worry. Good luck and yeah, Happy Birthday♥ :*
If you put in the effort and time to learn how to train and raise dogs and then you apply those techniques properly and regularly the dog will repay you manny times over.
Face your fears. Dogs love people
just tell them and see what they say
Hey, It's Me Jessie. I Lost My Last One.
Not ALL Dogs Are The Same. Some Nippier Than Others. But Maybe You Should Go With Your Parents And Pick Out One That You Feel A STRONG Connection With. If They Don't Bark Out Of There Minds And Don't Try To Bite You Through The Cage They're Perfect. And If You REALLY Ignored The Little Puppy Then Why Should You Be Scared Of Something You Didn't Really Bother To Pay Any Attention To? Maybe That Particular Dog Had A Problem. Or Maybe It Was Just Happy To See New People. Don't Take It Personally. If It's Any Consolation I Am A Vet, And Study Dogs Behavior's/Actions/Reactions/Likes/Disli... What I'm Trying To Say Is Don't Be Hesitant Find A Quiet/Play full/Sweet/Loving Dog Who's The Only One At The Shelter NOT Barking It's Head Off. BARK BARK-"Pick Me I AM THE CUTEST DOG, IGNORE THE UGLIES!!" RUFFITY RUFF RUFF- "AY!! What'Chu Doin' In My Shelta' Human. I Ought To Kill Ya'. Wait Till' I Get Out Dis' Cage, Man!!" Quietness- "I'm Fluffy, Please Pick Me. Lovin' The Hair. Wait Is You Bald? Oh Well, Grow Some Hair Silly!! Lol Just Biting Your Leg. Naw, I Don't Bite. But My Mother Is 'Nippy Nancy'. Boy Do I HAVE A Lot To Discuss. Hey, Ur Taking Me Home? I lOVE YOU SO MUCH, NEW OWNER!! OH BOY, OH BOY, OH BOY" This Oughta' Cheer You Up!! Hehe!! :) Hope You Get What You Want. Happy Holidays.- From Vet, Jessie. :) ;) :m XD XP Hugs, XOXO!!
Eric · 2 weeks ago
Dogs are like humans, they have different "dognality"(personality) you will try to choose a dog by going to your parent and pick for yourself :) I prefer Husky :)
It depends because some dogs, if raised as a pup, will become extremely protective of its owner. I have a 185 pound full grown newfoundland and, because we raised her since she was a puppy, she will attack any of my friends who try to wrestle with me. She like to bite there ankles and drag them away and then come stand by me and growl
I used to have a kitten and I loved it very much but it died. Later I got a stray dog and I loved it just as much but my parents hated it and they sent it away. Bad things happen but you cant deny yourself (and possibly the new doge) temporary happiness
I always wanted a dog since I was a child but some are NIPPIER than others.
Get, a puppy, as young as possible, research its bread really good. Then train it to behiave well. If you do that then you should be ok. The puppy will understand whose boss, and will obey.
I LOVE PUPPIES NOT ALL THE SAME
Not all dogs are like that! Let that fair go away, I had the same problem when I was little now I am 19 years with one German Shepherd and a Belgian M.
dog awww.. sweet gift ever
Not all dogs are alike if you get a puppy it will be fine. You will get used to it after a while.
Be brave and take it one day at a time. It is unfortunate that this happened to you but as one person said above all animals are not like that. A pet can be you best friend more so than a human can be. Give the puppy a chance and you will over come your fears but don't let your fears get the best of you and turn it in to a bad situation.
Don't go along with this as long as you feel unsure and are afraid of a/the dog. Most pups are easy, but they turn into independent and rambunctious teenagers, and then they turn into bossy and untrained adults - UNLESS you are willing to take charge and work and train your dog. That means getting out of your comfort zone, getting help from a trainer or someone else who is good with working with dogs, and it means being responsible too.
As long as you feel ambivalent about this, it is not fair to any pet. You are depriving it of the chance to go to a "perfect" home, to have a healthy relationship with its owner, and you may create a monster of a spoiled or unruly dog that - depending on the breed and its issues - may end up being put down, because you did not live up to your commitment.
Take your time talking to your parents, and also look at your future plans. Do you really want a dog? At 18 you are ready to step out into the world, get independent, start working or going to college. Do you have time, space and money to support a dog? Will your parents keep it, if you leave and can't take it? Really bad timing in my book. As a breeder of nearly 18 years, I would not sell to you at this time. The pup deserves a commitment and surety and you can't give that to it right now. Time to think things through and making adult responsible decisions.
And for all of you who have indicated problems with your dogs - you need to step out of your comfort zone and begin working with your dog. No matter if it is a large breed or a wee bitty ankle biter. Here is a link for free training videos that deal with some of the most common issues, with more available if you need them. I recommend all of my puppy buyers to at least get the 3 day sneak peak version to access this website. The initial training videos are free of any commitment:
http://cestsibon1.doggyd4n.hop.clickbank.net/?rd=easy-way
參考: 18 Years of Dog Breeding
I think you should still get a dog, because once you get used to him/her and they get used to you, they will be like your best friend. The reason that dog attacked you is because smaller dogs(like chiwawas) are usually more aggresive than large dogs. Also, dogs are very protective of their owners so if they think that you are going to hurt their owners they will probably attack you(my dog will just bark, unless you start running).
Your gonna have to get past this fear man u cant be scared of animals your whole life.if it really bothers u ii recommend getting a dig that isnt too aggresive maybe a small dog
Not all of the dogs are the same, some are nice and some are mean. But I say give it another try.
Oh my gosh you got a lot of idiot on this one. I love animals and I have been bit by a lot of dogs for no reason. Puppy's nip and often draw blood BUT you teach them not to and they not only learn fast but feel bad for nipping. My family hit dogs when they bi and I'm sorry to say, when the dogs nipped - maybe out of fear, I'd smack them, I dog I loved more than anything would nip out of fear and instinctively a smacked him. But you what? I still loved him so much and he loved me and would have died for me.
But a tip. When I was grown a stopped smacking them. Time out does better because they feel bad. Love your dog and introduce it to people for it won't be biting like that dog.
Not all dogs are the same. Not all dogs chase you for no reason so conquer your fear and just do it.
Hey, I used to be afraid of dogs too, until I got a puppy. It will go away. When they are pups you will see they are harmless. Expect the normal puppy mouthing, but it's nothing that will hurt you. You can teach them to not mouth at you really easily, and when they are older (depending on the breed and how well your relation is with them) they will most probably 99.9 % chance not turn against you and attack you. You must be prepared to give all the love and attention that a puppy needs in order to properly bond with them, and make sure you will have time to care for them in the future. When you have dogs as pups they bond to you for the rest of their life. They will get depressed if you give them away later in life. Dogs are like children, you can't simply give them away because you got tired of them. They suffer too.
German Shepherds and Herding dogs are very loyal dogs and almost never turn against you. BUT, make research, these breeds require a lot of energy and dedication to keep them up. German Shepherds are not for the average dog owner. Sure, you can be a first time owner with this breed, but you have to give what the breed demands. Exercise, attention, a job/task to do, mental stimulus, etc.
It's actually better to adopt an older dog from a shelter that needs a home, but that is up to you. Maybe in your case it will actually better to start with a pup because of the trauma.
If you have any questions feel free to contact me.
Dont be a pussy you can kick the dog in the face and it will be scared of you. Never do that to a dogt unless you feel threated of course but still its a lot diffrent when you raise your own dog he will be there to protect you not harm you
It's your personal choice.
first you need to find the one that loves you the most
Not ALL Dogs Are The Same. Some Nippier Than Others. But Maybe You Should Go With Your Parents And Pick Out One That You Feel A STRONG Connection With
Please start researching dogs and you choose the breed...based on your lifestyle.Sounds like your parents think they are doing you a favor...if you straight out feel you can't get past this episode,then tell them straight up .It won't be fair to the dog if you aren't fully commited.Why not go to a pet store that allows you to hold the puppies and see how you feel about it.I would suggest a shelter but most have unknown backgrounds or breeds in them,which may not be the best choice for your lifestyle.
Try to ignore your bad memeory of the leg-biting dog and you will love your new puppy. I have had the same experience as yours when I was small so I was afriaid of dogs but puppies have some kind of cutness magnet that will draw you to it
You should get your own dog. It will be yours and with you until you are 30 years old more or less. Your life will be affected by this animal in ways you can't immagine yet. You should take some time to learn what kind of dog you want and one that fits your lifestyle (active/inactive). My Labrador is quite different from my Catahoula in personality and disposition.
If you are going off to college in a year or two maybe the whole idea should come under reviewed for who the dog belongs to before bringing it home. Dogs live a long time and you're just at the age to get free of parental control. Getting a dog is close to getting a child in that you always have to be responsible to him/her. Not sure why you would want to give that freedom up so quick.
when you get a puppy they will be playful, they will not intentionally go out their way to hurt you because your puppy will see you as the pack leader. you will also grow with the puppy as your confidence grows so will the puppies. Remember that not all dogs are the same, my dog would bark at you then she would want you to stroke her. that dog that chased you was not a very well trained dog, its not the dogs fault but that off the owners. It should be questioned to why a dog who is unsafe around people was off the lead in the first instant so please don't beat yourself up over it, learn to love again (the puppy species) your dog will be different.
We are not talking about a 10-16 year old here. We are talking about a grown *** adult.
So, she's most likely already looked up what it takes to keep a dog.
All the others have made good cases, try going to pound and talk to some one there and find out what sort of dog fits you. One that make you happy and it easy to manage, if you want go rescue dog try seeing one can have a one on one with the dog. Dogs reflect there owners.
As long as you socialize the puppy, expose it to people, other dogs, and different types of environments, it should be fine.
Now seriously, how can a puppy hurt anyone. A dog is truly a great pet, and a companion. Just let that puppy win you over. You'll get along famously.
Get a lab you'll be solid
I bet when you get your own pet dog and get to know him better, you'd learn to love dogs the same way again. Don't worry, everything will be fine, if you're afraid, buy a more gentle dog, not fiesty ones like Russell Terriers or anything. That'll help.
I agree with everyone else basically
let your parents know about your feeling. i think you should get one because dogs are so cute and they makes you feel happy every time when you play with them at least you would have a dog to pass time with i think you should get it
face your fear that is the simple answer to that.
Golden retrievers are usually very loving and sweet so maybe consider one of those. I think you'll probably get over your tenseness and love a sweet loving dog or puppy. And maybe don't get a little dog cuz they can be nippy and you've had bad experiences with them.
If you still want a dog, then begin research breeds. Some are very excitable and more npy than others. I love poodles and have had two miniature poodles in my life. (Not tiny teacup ( which aren't actually recognized by AKC, but a miniature). Poodles are smart, like water, fun and playful but not overly excitable and nippy.
If you love cycling and fell off your bike and broke your arm,would you be afraid of bikes for the rest of your life?
Jockeys love horses but often fall from the saddle and even experience a horse falling on top of them! Yet they are resilient and get back into the saddle and carry on riding!!!! If a bee stings you, will you keep away from flowers forever?
When I was 11, a neighbours dog bit my foot! When I was 12, a neighbours poodle jumped up and went for my arm!!!!! It put me off for a while, but because I love dogs I went on to own my own dogs.
The dog that chased you and tried to bite you belonged to someone who had no control over their dog! He was an irresponsible owner! They still exist and you will meet with them from time to time! But as for you, please do a lot of research online before you choose a dog breed suitable for you! As a guess, I would choose a very gentle affectionate breed for you such as a king charles cavalier from a reputable breeder. They are naturally friendly loving and like to cuddle up to their owners.......just cos you ve had a negative experience with a dog, dont let it put you off! How a dog grows up all depends on its natural temprement AND YOU!
Maybe having a dog will help you get over your issues.
Exposure therapy to something like that is probably the best.
Go with them to pick one out, expose yourself to animals and pet them, hold them, play with them, etc. Your mind will hopefully realise not all animals are like that and that incident was just an unfortunate one-off.
That was only one dog plus if they give you a puppy that means you can train it and you can teach it well think of it like this dogs have no one in this world but us and they look up to there owner with a lot of love.. some dogs might be mean because they way there owner treats them but getting a dog and loving is the best thing. i have a dog named chubby shes loving and caring and protective if she feels we are in dangere she will act on that. i take care of her like my own daughter and i love her to death. shes trained to be an inside dog..and sh has a little accident but ive been there for her all the way and i love her i wouldnt trade her up for nothing in the world.
The puppy you get will be loyal to you because he/she will be your dognot mean toyou atleast you theat he/she badly
I wish they would get me a puppy for my birthday but they never will ???? you're so lucky????
ask them to get you a dog that is a little older about 2 years it will be calmer than a puppy I think you will get along much better.
That was just one dog. When you get your own puppy, you won't feel like that anymore because the puppy will be soooo adorable. If you train your puppy very well, you won't have a problem!! My mom use to be scared of big dogs because she got bit by one BUT now my sister has a big dog and she is okay with the big dog. It takes time to be ok with a dog!
Well since it's going to be your puppy you can train Him/her to how you would like. Just let the puppy get used to you and there should not be no chasing involved. I know you still have fear of what happened to you in the past just remember that you only live once. I bet you will have an amazing experience with your puppy. Just let your love of dogs overpower your fear.
Do not choose a dog with a dominant personality. They are aggressive and will want to be leader of the pack. (I don't like my neighbor's dog because if you hold eye contact with him he considers it a challenge and growls.) On the other hand, my cousin's huge dog is so lovable. He has waited at the end of the driveway (trained not to touch the sidewalk) if a family member (his pack) goes out. My cousin trained him to behave when he was a pup.
It will be fine, if you raise a dog right it can be your best friend. My dog right now is laying in my bed next to me while im answering this question when I should be doing homework. A dog will always love its owner as long as the owner is nice to it. Don't be discouraged it it barks at you when you get it or it bites you early off, it is most likely just scared of being around new people and a new home. If it is scared and does something that scares you give it a day or two and give it treats so it gets near you and accustomed to you.
Get a dog that doesn't bite you, genius.
There is nothing to be worried about
A puppy will not care if you are "hesitant", it will be all over you begging to play and be loved. Puppy's are not aware of the feeling of "dislike" immediately, so unless you physically and purposely hurt him/her multiple times, you will have no issues.
Getting a puppy for your birthday, that's cool.
And I'm sorry for the unhappy experience when you were 13 and chased by some dog.
I have friends who got bite by dog, just like you, she is a gentle and loving girl and she loves puppy very much, but since she got bite before, even though she wants to get close to dog, she just could make it. She was afraid that the the dog may hurt her again for no reason.
But I'm glad to tell you that she changed her mind with dog, (the pessimistic parts), because last month, she went to the beach and watched the sea, which is the first time for her. And she met a lovely golden retriever, you know that kind of dog, a big size, the dog is just so lovely and it plays throw and catch with his owner, very active but docile. So she went close to the dog, and somehow, th dog was very compliant and meek, it smelt her and snuggle up to her. She was surprised, and found out that not all the dogs are fierce and barking. since then, she feel free, or at least so much less hesitate to dog.
So, I think that maybe you can take this chance , and see if you can overcome the hesitation, you can go to the store with your friends, and see what kind of dogs do you want, and tell your opinions to your parants and the shop owner, maybe they'll give you good idea.
And i think you can start with small-sized dogs, and those dogs which is docile, good-tempered dogs are better choice.
Hope you overcome the hesitate and find a lovely dog.
I have 3 dogs , LOL, love them, like a part of my family member.
Not ALL Dogs Are The Same. Some Nippier Than Others. But Maybe You Should Go With Your Parents And Pick Out One That You Feel A STRONG Connection With. If They Don't Bark Out Of There Minds And Don't Try To Bite You Through The Cage They're Perfect. And If You REALLY Ignored The Little Puppy Then Why Should You Be Scared Of Something You Didn't Really Bother To Pay Any Attention To? Maybe That Particular Dog Had A Problem. Or Maybe It Was Just Happy To See New People. Don't Take It Personally. If It's Any Consolation I Am A Vet, And Study Dogs Behavior's/Actions/Reactions/Likes/Disli... What I'm Trying To Say Is Don't Be Hesitant Find A Quiet/Play full/Sweet/Loving Dog Who's The Only One At The Shelter NOT Barking It's Head Off. BARK BARK-"Pick Me I AM THE CUTEST DOG, IGNORE THE UGLIES!!" RUFFITY RUFF RUFF- "AY!! What'Chu Doin' In My Shelta' Human. I Ought To Kill Ya'. Wait Till' I Get Out Dis' Cage, Man!!" Quietness- "I'm Fluffy, Please Pick Me. Lovin' The Hair. Wait Is You Bald? Oh Well, Grow Some Hair Silly!! Lol Just Biting Your Leg. Naw, I Don't Bite. But My Mother Is 'Nippy Nancy'. Boy Do I HAVE A Lot To Discuss. Hey, Ur Taking Me Home? I lOVE YOU SO MUCH, NEW OWNER!! OH BOY, OH BOY, OH BOY" This Oughta' Cheer You Up!! Hehe!! :) Hope You Get What You Want. Happy Holidays.- From Vet, Jessie. :) ;) :m XD XP Hugs, XOXO!!
We are not talking about a 10-16 year old here. We are talking about a grown *** adult.
So, she's most likely already looked up what it takes to keep a dog.
My advice to you, is not to allow your parents to choose the puppy. You should choose it, more of an attachment that way. Stuff happens, and what humans don't understand is what makes them afraid.
You cannot blame the dog for this aggression. You can only blame the owner, it's always up to the owner of the dog to correct this aggression, if this doesn't happen, then the puppy doesn't learn, then the puppy grows up to believe this is the correct way.
Their could of been multiple reasons why the dog went after you. Dominance, Protection (Of the owner.) ect.
When you have you own dog it's different, nothing like others pets. He/She is literally your pal, if taken at the right age, 8-13weeks, and trained well, you'll have a loving dog. Although, I suggest not taking a puppy before it's ready, which will always be before 8weeks. Depending on the breed, it can cause behavior problems in adult dogs. (Due to things it didn't learn well with their siblings, (Bite control, body languages, blah, blah blah.)
I like smaller dogs, they need just as much attention then a large dog, follow you everywhere, and you can own them in apartments, the smaller the dog is, the older it has to be before it leaves. -Lab puppies 8weeks, Beagle- 12 weeks. (Example)
So I always loved dogs and I wanted one since I was a child. I was also great friends with a dog when I was a kid, he would often choose to be with me rather than his owner and generally I had a very positive experience with dogs until the age of 13. When I was 13, I was walking down the street returning from school and a random small dog started chasing me for no reason at all, I just walked past it without even looking at it, and it tried to bite my leg (its owner did nothing). Since then I have been hesitant around all kinds of animals, I am hesitant even when I am walking past cats fearing that they might randomly claw me.
So now that my parents told me that they plan to get me a puppy I really don't know what to do because one the one hand I still love dogs but on the other hand I don't want to be so hesitant around the puppy and make it feel anything negative towards me. Will this problem go away if I get a puppy and become more familiar with it? I never had any problems with dogs before that incident and I honesty don't get how it happened and it bothers me very much.
Update: Whenever I remember my friendship with that dog back then I feel even worse because he was seriously my best friend, he was better than humans and I just don't get what happened to me.
