my mom has no trust in me?
2015-11-20 5:25 am
I cant do anything! I have to sneak to wear mascara because im not confident without! All i want is to be ALOUD to wear bb cream powder and mascara but my moms to stubborn. I wasnt wearing anything today but i have dark circles under my eyes and i just got out the shower and my mom storms up to me looks me dead in the eye and gets her fave really close to mine and starts yelling and saying she knows im wearing makeup. She proceeds to storm into my room take all my lip gloss (which im aloud to wear) and throws it all away. I BOUGHT ALL OF IT WITH MY HARD EARNED MONEY (i do extra chores for my sister she pays me and i help train my friends puppy and she pays me) Im thirteen and have tried to reasonably explain that im not asking a large request and that im growing up and need privlages. I cant even walk my dog or go to my mailbox without my mom one foot away from me (not even exaggerating) I get straight b's in school dont do anything bad and i just feel trapped i live across the street from my school and my mom has to drive me because she thinks im going to ditch or get hit. I can't have an instagram anymore because i got 200 followers (all people i know) and she thinks im a slut. My dads chill but if i ask him something around my mom and he says yes my mom will convince him not to let me. I cant even go to the mall down the street from me with a group of friends without her being their! I get having rules and limitations but come on! I'm 13 its 2015 And I need some freedom!
回答 (2)
2015-11-20 11:38 pm
maybe you should call cps, you might get to go live somewhere else
2015-11-20 9:37 am
Hang in there. At least your mom is doing it because she loves you. It's way better than being neglected.
Try talking with your dad alone. Ask him for advice about how to get more freedom. Ask him to help you get specific agreements and a specific plan to get more privileges.
And try to make your mom as happy as possible. The more you relax instead of pulling away, the more she will relax her grip and trust you.
Good luck! It'll work out.
Try talking with your dad alone. Ask him for advice about how to get more freedom. Ask him to help you get specific agreements and a specific plan to get more privileges.
And try to make your mom as happy as possible. The more you relax instead of pulling away, the more she will relax her grip and trust you.
Good luck! It'll work out.
2015-11-20 5:37 am
hmmm maybe your mom just want the BEST for you just to be simple.. because in my age of 13 too tracking back my past my mom realy gets mad when im wearing eyeliner which is rely black i just like it it makes me look good . my mom always say that its not suitable for my age. but anyway just enjiy life the right time will come for your mom to understand what generation we are having right now . ♥
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