my girlfriend says if I get her pregnant she's getting rid of the baby. What If something goes wrong? What if the condom break? What do I do?
Two years ago my ex was pregnant with my baby, she had a miscarriage when she was two months pregnant. My girlfriend now told me if I ever get her pregnant she's getting rid of the baby but I really don't want to lose another baby. I was already so hurt and depressed when I found out my ex had a miscarriage.. I have a good job that pays me well I can get us a two bed room apartment instead of one. I just can't stand the thought of losing another baby. What do I do? I love her
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I know this sounds like a crazy thought, but consider not having sex with her until you are securely married. In other words, make a lifetime commitment.
Drop to one knee and propose marriage. Then when she says yes, go out and buy a ring together. Plan a wedding and a honeymoon. Marry her in front of all her family and friends. After all that, if she gets pregnant then it will be fine, you'll be a family and she won't "get rid" of the baby.
Promising a two-bedroom apartment isn't worth much. You have to show her that you're prepared to stick around for the next 18 years, minimum.
If you want to have kids and she obviously doesn't want to then you need to walk away from the relationship. Also you should both be having protected sex because abortions aren't an easy thing to go thru so don't get her pregnant just to call her bluff.
Dont think she loves you the way you love her.
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