My 4 year old sister keeps biting me and my parents don't do anything about it. What can I do about it?
2015-10-26 11:41 pm
I'm getting really annoyed with my sister biting me. She literally walks up to me and bites me for no reason. My parents tell her "no", but then she does it again and they just say "no" again. She made me bleed yesterday and I lost my temper with her. I pushed her off the sofa, she went crying to our parents and they grounded me. I'm 13 and I don't know why I get treated like the problem when it's her. Why don't they do something to her? I'm grounded for 2 weeks. This is f'ing stupid. I would g have pushed her if she didn't bite me or if my parents did something about her biting.
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2015-10-27 10:08 am
Bite her back, but even worse than she bit you that she can feel how much it hurts. Maybe she will try it again once or twice, bite back don't give up until she stops, even if you are grounded for that. As soon as you stop biting back after the 1st or 2nd time she will go on and on. Be strong this might take a week or two, but dont give in. This is the only way to teach her right from wrong. Good luck!
2015-10-27 2:54 am
4 is a little old to be biting. Your parents need to deal with this now before she's in school biting kids and having to deal with those consequences. If your parents aren't respecting you and your feelings about this then your sister won't respect you either. Maybe you can think of a fun activity you and your little sister can do if she doesn't bite- like a reward system-this is something your parents should be doing but if they aren't then maybe you can try. Biting hurts!!! She needs to stop!
2015-10-27 5:21 am
Sit down and talk to your 4 yr old little sister and tell her that biting is bad and tell if she don't bite you then you will play a game with her or take her outside....or tell her if she keep biting you then she not gone have no more teeth lol
2015-10-27 12:50 am
Your sister sounds like a brat! And your parents are being jerks! I think your sister deserves a spanking, I bet she wouldn't be biting anyone then!
2015-10-27 8:55 pm
I had the same problem.So I sprinkled some pepper on my fingers in the morning and when she bit me....let's just say I never had the problem.
Harsh I know,but she has to learn that biting is bad if you don't it's gonna get worse and she might do it in school as well.
Harsh I know,but she has to learn that biting is bad if you don't it's gonna get worse and she might do it in school as well.
2015-10-27 1:18 pm
If your parents aren't respecting you and your feelings about this then your sister won't respect you either. Maybe you can think of a fun activity you and your little sister can do if she doesn't bite- like a reward system-this is something your parents should be doing but if they aren't then maybe you can try,,
2015-10-27 12:46 am
Just completely ignore her. If she bites you just get up, don't say anything and walk away - remove yourself from the situation. Once she realises she isn't getting a reaction out of you she should stop
2015-10-28 8:08 am
If your parents wont do anything you need to act more parent/like to her. If she bites you again tell her your not going to talk to her or paly with her for a week. Make sure you follow thru with it. Also give her a stern look (not mean) all the time for while, maybe a month even when things are ok. If your friends have little brothers or sisters call your friends while your sister is around and say how lucky they are to have such nice little brother or sister that doesn't bite them (have a regular conversation first so no one gets suspicious).
2015-10-28 7:02 am
Since you've tried to tell your parents about it, it seems like the way they say "no" isn't very convincing. Of course she's young in all, & in my opinion, it sounds like your parents could learn how to be more firm with her.
If the "no," isn't in a firm tone, then she will think that it's acceptable to keep biting where she needs to learn that it's actually not acceptable& there is a chance she could possibly do that to kids in school as well.
I will say that I do agree with Roderick that you can try to ask why she keeps biting you& if she chooses to explain, you should listen to her & try to work a solution out with depending on her reasoning.
And if that doesn't work and if she keeps biting you, try explaining to your parents that your little sister needs to learn that her actions will and do have consequences. They may think she's too young to be punished, but in my opinion, she's totally not to young to be punished resulting in learning from her own actions
If the "no," isn't in a firm tone, then she will think that it's acceptable to keep biting where she needs to learn that it's actually not acceptable& there is a chance she could possibly do that to kids in school as well.
I will say that I do agree with Roderick that you can try to ask why she keeps biting you& if she chooses to explain, you should listen to her & try to work a solution out with depending on her reasoning.
And if that doesn't work and if she keeps biting you, try explaining to your parents that your little sister needs to learn that her actions will and do have consequences. They may think she's too young to be punished, but in my opinion, she's totally not to young to be punished resulting in learning from her own actions
2015-10-27 9:50 pm
Go to the baby section in virtually any store. Buy her a teething ring. Problem solved.
No abuse, no correctional treatment needed. It might cost $4 for a cheap one.
But buy a good one with a handle, and no moving parts is best for her safety.
No choking hazards.
No abuse, no correctional treatment needed. It might cost $4 for a cheap one.
But buy a good one with a handle, and no moving parts is best for her safety.
No choking hazards.
2015-10-27 1:46 pm
Grab her by her mouth and tell her NO!
NO BITING!
This should calm her for now.
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2015-10-29 10:41 pm
Your parents are lazy and inconsiderate, they're punishing you just because it's easier. All you did by pushing your sister was stand up for yourself, you obviously didn't mean to hurt her or anything, you were just teaching her a lesson. You did nothing wrong, but unfortunately we live in a world where sometimes doing the right thing is against the rules. You shouldn't feel like you did anything wrong though, if anything you should feel proud of yourself. You also shouldn't feel discouraged about being told off, you should still stand up for yourself again, this time standing up to your parents. Don't shout or swear at them though cos then you'll be giving them an excuse to punish you, just tell them in a firm voice that they were wrong for punishing you and letting your sister hurt you and that you did nothing wrong. Your own parents are probably the most difficult people to stand up to, but you owe it to yourself to do just that. Good luck!
2015-10-28 6:31 am
Fill a clean spray bottle with water and spray her every time she does it. Your parents are allowing her to act like a misbehaved dog... Well train her like one.
2015-10-27 3:35 am
Ouch! I hurt for you just thinking about a bite.But consider this thought.If your sibling constantly annoys you—bossing you around or invading your space—it might be hard not to let resentment build. But a Bible proverb says: “The squeezing of the nose is what brings forth blood, and the squeezing out of anger is what brings forth quarreling.” (Proverbs 30:33) If you hold a grudge, it will result in an angry outburst just as surely as squeezing your nose will cause blood to flow. Then the problem will only get worse. (Proverbs 26:21) How can you prevent an irritation from bursting into a raging argument? A first step is to identify the real issue.
Incident or Issue?
Problems between siblings are like pimples. The surface evidence of a pimple is an unsightly sore, but the cause is an underlying infection. Similarly, an ugly clash between siblings is often just the surface evidence of an underlying issue.
You could attempt to treat a pimple by squeezing it. But you would only be dealing with the symptom, and you may leave a scar or aggravate the infection. A better approach is to deal with the infection and thus prevent further outbreaks. It’s similar when it comes to problems with siblings. Learn to identify the underlying issue, and you will get past the incident and right to the root of the problem. You’ll also be able to apply the advice of wise King Solomon, who wrote: “The insight of a man certainly slows down his anger.”—Proverbs 19:11.
So in other words find out why your lil sister is doing this so you can know how to handle the situation in the future successfully.She may just want some of your time and attention,and in her mind she may feel that's the only way to get it.Show her a better way;you may can just read a story book to her in the evenings.I hope this helps.
Incident or Issue?
Problems between siblings are like pimples. The surface evidence of a pimple is an unsightly sore, but the cause is an underlying infection. Similarly, an ugly clash between siblings is often just the surface evidence of an underlying issue.
You could attempt to treat a pimple by squeezing it. But you would only be dealing with the symptom, and you may leave a scar or aggravate the infection. A better approach is to deal with the infection and thus prevent further outbreaks. It’s similar when it comes to problems with siblings. Learn to identify the underlying issue, and you will get past the incident and right to the root of the problem. You’ll also be able to apply the advice of wise King Solomon, who wrote: “The insight of a man certainly slows down his anger.”—Proverbs 19:11.
So in other words find out why your lil sister is doing this so you can know how to handle the situation in the future successfully.She may just want some of your time and attention,and in her mind she may feel that's the only way to get it.Show her a better way;you may can just read a story book to her in the evenings.I hope this helps.
參考: jw.org
2015-10-31 2:41 am
If she likes to bite give her something to bite. For example, always have a lollipop or something she really likes on hand and when she tries to bite you, eat the candy in front of her but don't let her have it, tell her if she wants one she has to stop biting you. If that doesn't work, as soon as she bites you, give her no validation at all, so what I would do is walk out of the room if you can and ignore her, act like she isn't even there for like a day. It will be really hard to ignore her because she will probably try to bite and annoy you even more but be persistent, she will eventually learn her lesson. If you can last a day, completely ignoring her then try two or three days, maybe even a week and you will realize she will eventually put her energy into something else that will given her instant validation.
2015-10-30 2:09 pm
is she trying to get your attention? Sometimes small children act out when they feel they are being ignored. They are literally little animals. Just like puppies they can be aggressive. I know its not your responsibility but you might try and give her some special attention once a day. just for five min. five whole min of just you and her interacting. tossing a ball, coloring, playing what she wants to play. Just so she knows that she is important to you. Then on days when she bites you, you can tell her "no special time when you bite me." She is old enough to get it. She will enjoy her time with you and will not want to bite you because she will lose out on the bonding.
2015-10-28 9:51 pm
next time let out a blood curdling scream and I really mean what I say
it will scare the wits out of her and maybe get the attention of your parents
or
you could bite her back
it will scare the wits out of her and maybe get the attention of your parents
or
you could bite her back
2015-10-28 7:55 am
give her fruits to eat, fruits that need biting and chewing! -- always keep some with you for her. (this advice is supported by NLP theory! it works in most cases!)
2015-10-28 2:19 am
She'll continue to bite you for as long as she's able to get away with it. Your parents are suppose to discipline her because she's 4 years old and old enough to know that what she is doing is wrong and causing you pain. Because your parents are refusing to discipline her and out of desperation you pushed her, now you are grounded? No, no, no, no. They we're suppose to discipline her after the first time she bit you. These parents are either not your biological parents, stepmom/stepdad or they are just a real pool of diarrhea. Plan to move out at 18 for your own sake.
參考: Life
2015-10-27 7:26 am
Tell your parents that they should be fair with you and your sister, and also what you feel about it. So they can understand what you feel. Your sister is a 4 year old right? Just let her understand that her biting habit hurts you: Try to bite her, enough to feel that it hurt so that she can never do it again.
2015-10-27 1:11 am
try to talk to them about it.
if they dont do anything wow your parents are a###S
if they dont do anything wow your parents are a###S
2015-10-28 8:43 pm
I have a better solution. Just tell your parents something like "I'm worried about her, she started biting other people. God knows what disease or germ she could get. Not everyone washes their hands after they go to the bathroom you know...". Make it about her not about you. You're the hero in all of this, protecting your sister, and the thing becomes more serious because, hei, germs and kids, right?
The idea with this is to just be sharp, use few words and don't expect for immediate reaction. Just...let it sink in
The idea with this is to just be sharp, use few words and don't expect for immediate reaction. Just...let it sink in
2015-10-28 7:12 pm
Bite her back. If she understands how it feels, maybe she will stop.
2015-10-28 6:00 am
I don't have any brothers or sisters, but I do have to deal with other children from around the neighborhood. If they are biting me or doing anything that could hurt me, but their parents think I'm lying and their children are angels, then the only way I can prove to them is to set up a hidden camera in a room that the problem usually happens, and let it run while I do whatever I need to do. I make sure that Anything I do is not going to start them up to thinking I may have done something to the child to want them to bite me.
So after taking about a 10min video, near the end the child just walks right straight up to me and bites, scratches or throws a toy at me, while i sit there peacefully and continue my work, while explaining to the parents when they watch the video that it happens everyday.
So after taking about a 10min video, near the end the child just walks right straight up to me and bites, scratches or throws a toy at me, while i sit there peacefully and continue my work, while explaining to the parents when they watch the video that it happens everyday.
2015-10-28 3:17 am
bite her ! she'll cry and stop !
2015-10-28 1:35 am
Don't hit her with a shovel...
2015-10-28 12:38 am
Biting is never acceptable regardless of age. Your parents need to realize that they are making a big mistake allowing this behavior. They will soon learn when she goes to school that this behavior will not be tolerated and quickly punished. Including them being called in for a meeting on that this behavior needs to be quickly stopped
2015-10-27 11:01 pm
It may be a sign of affection just try to avoid her bites for now. Hopefully she grows out of it or finds new ways to show her love. But being 4 it's still too young to really reason with her or even figure out why she's doing it.
2015-10-27 8:12 pm
Bite her back ..not enough to make her bleed but enough to hurt her....it sounds cruel but it actually works or you could pinch her everytime she bites or yell and grab her ...enough to scare the hell out of her...she wont do it again
2015-10-27 7:07 pm
Whatever she is doing but still she is your sister, very young and lovely. She probably need your intention. Try to change her habits, by spending more time with her. Try to engage her in a game. A simple game which you can play with a little child like your sister. Please don't try to hurt her. You are much older than her and you have to play a role of Elder Sister which includes some sacrifices:)
2015-10-27 5:44 pm
Punish her yourself. Pop her in the mouth whenever she does it.
2015-10-27 9:59 am
Bite her back. It doesn't have to be hard but she might get the idea.
2015-10-27 4:46 am
Bite her back when your parents aren't looking !
2015-10-28 9:45 pm
You're 13 and should be able to out think a 4 year old. When you see her coming, walk away. If you have your own room, keep her out. When she enters a room walk out of the room. If she sits down on the couch next to you, get up and go into your room. After a week or two of keeping her in the deep freeze, she'll change her ways. People hate being ignored more than anything.
2015-10-27 2:07 pm
You need to bite her back and maybe do it a little hard to her. And your parents are not doing their job as parents to teach her right from wrong.
2015-10-27 6:10 am
If your parents aren't doing anything, you should. Go and spank her bare bottom. You should even go bite her bottom if you really want to drive the message home.
2015-10-27 4:38 am
Bite her right back, and hard - but be sure not to draw blood. When your parents ask you why you did it tell them, "She has been doing it to me for WEEKS and you refuse to protect me from this abuse. So I handled the situation myself. Ground me all you want, but if she bites me again, I will bite her. And if you try to punish me again for defending myself I will show these scars to the school nurse and tell her you are not keeping me safe." Then do it.
2015-10-26 11:58 pm
Bite her back!
2015-11-01 4:16 pm
Sit down, with your parents, and tell them how you feel about this...
plus, they MUST do something about it!
plus, they MUST do something about it!
2015-10-31 4:57 am
First: TELL YOUR PARENTS AT LEAST.
Second: when she bites again, grab her hand and hit it, then say "Don't do that to me" or "No, ma'am!"....
Hope that helps.
Second: when she bites again, grab her hand and hit it, then say "Don't do that to me" or "No, ma'am!"....
Hope that helps.
2015-10-30 4:34 pm
She is too old to be biting, that's something babies do when they're teething. Wait until she starts school, and starts biting kids there, and she'll soon be told off big time by the teachers, and your parents will be called. Then your parents will realize!
2015-10-30 12:22 pm
Don't go near her!
2015-10-30 7:51 am
Don't let her bite you.
2015-10-30 4:16 am
You really need to work this out with your parents. Honestly, they are so lazy for not doing anything about this. Try discussing this with your parents, and if you have a hard time convincing them, show them some of these answers because a lot of people agree that you're being treating unfairly. If that doesn't work, put something that tastes really nasty on wherever she bites most lol.
2015-10-29 10:12 pm
I am so sick and tired of parents playing favorites with their kids. It's just unacceptable. Have a talk with your parents and let them know that they are being very unfair. It's the most you can do. Your sister will get worse if your parents continue to let her get away with murder.
2015-10-29 8:05 pm
:(
2015-10-29 3:57 pm
when i was that age i bit every kid in day care till one day a kid bit me i never did it ever again
maybe she will get bit by a kid too that's how i learned my lesson on not biting
maybe she will get bit by a kid too that's how i learned my lesson on not biting
2015-10-29 3:19 pm
That really stinks. You are going to have to tell your parents what's happening. It's probably a case of," Your sister is younger and deserves more attention than you, so she can do whatever she wants."
2015-10-29 1:28 pm
So sorry to hear that your sibling is doing this to you!! How aggravating, irritating, and frustrating that must be for her to do that! On top of it, not seeing your parents discipline her, to the proper degree, could be even harder to accept. While it def sounds like it could be unfair for you, the bible helps parents in dealing with children. Just like all of us need to be corrected by our heavenly father, so we as parents should do w/our children. Prov. 6:23 (in part says)...the reproofs of discipline, are the way of life. Eph. 6:4...bring them up in the discipline and mental regulating of Jehovah. Discipline doesn't always mean spanking. It means readjusting the child's thinking - in whatever reasonable way that may be. Perhaps your parents could take a look at some articles on www.jw.org which are for families. It has tips for all members of the family to help have a peaceful home!! There are also videos. Perhaps you could share them w/you sister. It may be a constructive way for her to spend her time as well as teach her some things along the way. Caleb and Sophia are excellent videos that kids of all ages can enjoy!!
2015-10-29 6:37 am
Confront your parents. That is not very fair.
2015-10-28 11:31 pm
Classical conditioning. Don't hit her back, but put something bitter on your arm (not poisonous or toxic!). Next time she bites, she'll get the bitter taste and never bite again! (hopefully)
2015-10-28 10:32 pm
Well my youngest cousin used to do this to me alot when she was a baby babies usually bite when their teeth go itchy or when they are curious about if the thing they are biting eatable or not most of babies do that it's normal for babies to do that probably your parents know this but you are also right babies can be pain in the *** just tell your parents to get some toys for her to bite
2015-10-28 11:56 am
You may be dont understand your sister. Actually she wants to play with your. So She bites. as your sibling she feels that you are most nearest to her. So try to make her understand that you felt hurt first by word. You may Cry in front of her instead of react pushing. After all you also responsible to teach and guide her with love not by react terrorizing.
You may also play some game in which are hardworking physical exercise too. Like Soccer/Cricket/Wrestling/Hide & Seek/Catch me If you Can etc.
TRY IT SHE WILL FORGET PLAY WITH YOU BITING.
ACTUALLY SHE LOVES YOU, BELIEVE ME.
SHE WILL FEEL SORROW WHEN SHE UNDERSTAND THAT YOU HURT BY HER BITES.
You may also play some game in which are hardworking physical exercise too. Like Soccer/Cricket/Wrestling/Hide & Seek/Catch me If you Can etc.
TRY IT SHE WILL FORGET PLAY WITH YOU BITING.
ACTUALLY SHE LOVES YOU, BELIEVE ME.
SHE WILL FEEL SORROW WHEN SHE UNDERSTAND THAT YOU HURT BY HER BITES.
2015-10-28 7:03 am
ask your parents to take it seriously
2015-10-28 12:33 am
If there is a specific spot that she keeps biting, you could put something on that spot that tastes super gross so that at some point she won't bite you anymore because she knows it will taste super gross..
2015-10-27 9:29 pm
My cousin did that to me when she was 3 and I was 15. I bit her back and it never happened again.
2015-10-27 6:51 pm
One of those dog collars perhaps? Just kidding! Try and teach her biting is bad by showing her it upsets you. It sounds stupid but maybe you could fake cry whenever she does.
2015-10-27 6:31 pm
You should talk to a teacher or counselor at school. Maybe they can help you find a way to get your parents to do something about it. Take pictures of the bite marks to show them.
2015-10-27 5:48 pm
I know how you feel I am your age and my sister is also four years old when she gets in my stuff I just tell her she can't use my stuff until she stops.
2015-10-27 12:38 pm
About all you can do is say no like you are, and be aware that this monster of a child that your parents have created is only going to get worse. So whenever the child is around, be leery. Your parents aren't going to change what they are doing until it is too late to get control of the situation, you will not be able to do anything about it becouse the authority is the parents.
2015-10-27 12:12 pm
Because she is the "baby" they may let her get away with it but it seems a serious problem with aggression which needs to be dealt with now before she goes to school. If they don't do anything talk to your school counselor.
2015-10-27 6:59 am
Tell a teacher in school you need a adult with authority to bring your parents into being responsible adults and take the situation and handle it not allowing it to continue
2015-10-27 3:51 am
tell them this is a problem for you than maybe they will see that something must be done about it
2015-10-30 8:16 pm
hit her in the mouth maybe she'll get the hang of not biting people.
2015-10-30 4:44 pm
smack the **** out of her
2015-10-30 2:01 am
Wow this is a very perplexing question. My best solution for you is to bathe in the hottest hot sauce you can get your hands on and the next time she bites you she will starting crying herself because her tongue will literally be on fire. Then hide the milk and turn off the water supply to your house.
2015-10-29 11:02 pm
Slap the **** **** outa her
2015-10-29 3:44 pm
kick her in the teeth
2015-10-29 2:44 pm
Pray to God
2015-10-29 9:58 am
What is wrong with you ?for goodness sake bite her back until she screams,then tell your parents as they can't stop her, you are simply showing her how much it hurts,ok.
2015-10-29 2:38 am
I have a four year old brother, and I have several approaches. Depending on what you feel may work with your parents, you might try one of these out.
At age four, this is the age where your sister should start to learn right from wrong, and the age at which your parents should begin to discipline her. Ask your parents whether she bites the children at school. Tell your parents that, as the parents of this child, it is their DUTY to start to teach her that biting is wrong. Tell them that the teachers will think them bad parents if they don't, or that it might be very embarrassing for them if she acts out at school.
I personally let my emotions guide me when my brother acts out towards me. I don't hold back. Whatever I'm feeling, I let it show. Whatever I'm thinking, I let them know. If I'm upset, I'll tell them, and I'll tell them why. Ask them what you did to deserve this. Ask them why he's their favourite. Ask them why they'll allow him to make you BLEED and do nothing about it. YOU BLED, FOR GOD'S SAKE. It was actual BLOOD. He can't get away with that! But he did and that must hurt! Remind them that YOU are their child too and they have just as much a responsibility to protect you as they do the other one! It may seem immature, but it's true. But don't fake emotions. Only say/do these things if you really feel it. Never feign tears or anger. This approach works for me because I truly think and feel these things.
If you feel they won't respond to this approach, try the 'passive approach.' Sit helplessly while she bites you. I know this sounds strange, but just hear me out. Let her bite you and push her away WEAKLY. Then turn to your parents with a look of HURT, not anger. But not a look of blame, just a look of hurt, or maybe a silent look as if to say 'a little help here?' They might respond to this, because it is a parents instinct to protect and nurture and this will be made easier for them if you are not aggressive. By shoving your sister away, you hurt her too. She went crying to them and adults hate seeing little children cry. It's sad and irritating, but parents seem always to want to protect/nurture crying younger children over crying older children. So if you don't make your little sister cry, you're not a threat to her. If you're not a threat to her. Instead, they will see that SHE is the only one being aggressive and will thus shift all their protective instincts onto you.
I hope you understood that last bit...it's a bit complicated, but it's what I've observed anyway. Remember NOT to be manipulative. Especially with what I said about emotions. Never, ever fake emotions. Only ever show your TRUE emotions.
At age four, this is the age where your sister should start to learn right from wrong, and the age at which your parents should begin to discipline her. Ask your parents whether she bites the children at school. Tell your parents that, as the parents of this child, it is their DUTY to start to teach her that biting is wrong. Tell them that the teachers will think them bad parents if they don't, or that it might be very embarrassing for them if she acts out at school.
I personally let my emotions guide me when my brother acts out towards me. I don't hold back. Whatever I'm feeling, I let it show. Whatever I'm thinking, I let them know. If I'm upset, I'll tell them, and I'll tell them why. Ask them what you did to deserve this. Ask them why he's their favourite. Ask them why they'll allow him to make you BLEED and do nothing about it. YOU BLED, FOR GOD'S SAKE. It was actual BLOOD. He can't get away with that! But he did and that must hurt! Remind them that YOU are their child too and they have just as much a responsibility to protect you as they do the other one! It may seem immature, but it's true. But don't fake emotions. Only say/do these things if you really feel it. Never feign tears or anger. This approach works for me because I truly think and feel these things.
If you feel they won't respond to this approach, try the 'passive approach.' Sit helplessly while she bites you. I know this sounds strange, but just hear me out. Let her bite you and push her away WEAKLY. Then turn to your parents with a look of HURT, not anger. But not a look of blame, just a look of hurt, or maybe a silent look as if to say 'a little help here?' They might respond to this, because it is a parents instinct to protect and nurture and this will be made easier for them if you are not aggressive. By shoving your sister away, you hurt her too. She went crying to them and adults hate seeing little children cry. It's sad and irritating, but parents seem always to want to protect/nurture crying younger children over crying older children. So if you don't make your little sister cry, you're not a threat to her. If you're not a threat to her. Instead, they will see that SHE is the only one being aggressive and will thus shift all their protective instincts onto you.
I hope you understood that last bit...it's a bit complicated, but it's what I've observed anyway. Remember NOT to be manipulative. Especially with what I said about emotions. Never, ever fake emotions. Only ever show your TRUE emotions.
2015-10-28 10:24 pm
Kid, life is tough. Join a martial arts club.
2015-10-28 8:50 pm
She's only four what do you want your parents to do ground her? How do you ground a four year old? DO you think kids actually stay on time outs? You got in trouble because you pushed her and you're old enough to know better. When my little sister was little she used to pull my hairs and bite me. My parents just told her no. I was ok with ti because I knew she was only little and didn't no better.
2015-10-28 5:49 pm
Tell her you will record her biting you and then show mom & dad. Also tell her that if she does it again, you will bite HER. When she runs to mommy & daddy to tattle on you, explain to them that it's ok when she does this behavior to you. If they are going to allow this as an acceptable behavior for her then they are going to be in for a HUGE surprise when she gets kicked out of whatever school she wins up in. PAYBACK.
2015-10-28 4:49 pm
SLAP THE **** OUTTA HER
2015-10-28 3:32 pm
When my little sister was 4 i was in your shoes but what i did was i always corrected her even if my parents got mad but I remember saying "If yall aren't going to raise her to be nice then i am and if she bites or hits me one more time im doing the same to her until she gets it" FWI my little sister then turned on my parents which i enjoyed bc The tables were turned lol OOH and i also recorded her being really mean bc they wouldn't believe me .
2015-10-28 2:28 pm
Bite that ***** back
2015-10-28 2:02 pm
Punch her in the face as hard as you can! Then look down at her while she is screaming crying and say "BITE ME AGAIN *****" then for good measure.... One last kick to the stomach area and walk away like a cold hearted bastard...
2015-10-28 1:57 pm
Bunch in the face next time.. It ll stop
2015-10-28 8:47 am
give her chocolates and educate her . this is wrong thing to beat and bit.
She is little now.
She is little now.
2015-10-28 7:26 am
Ever tried running away when she is trying to bite you?
2015-10-28 6:12 am
Bite her back really hard!
2015-10-28 4:10 am
My little sister did the exact same thing, and my parents did absolutely nothing. When she does it again, tell her 'no' and if she doesn't listen, give her a a light smack on the butt, if she goes crying to her mom and dad, tell them that your tired of her biting you, and if they don't do something about it you will smack her.
2015-10-28 3:16 am
Bite her back, not hard, just enough that she can feel it. If that doesn't work, next time she bites you put a little hot sauce in her mouth.
2015-10-28 12:34 am
bite her back!
2015-10-27 9:15 pm
Well if I was in your shoes I would bite her back and let her feel what it's like. and I think it would not be long till she stops biting you
2015-10-27 7:06 pm
ouch
2015-10-27 3:41 pm
She could be a zombie if so, you are infected :)
2015-10-27 1:22 pm
well maybe you have rabies or some disease
2015-10-27 6:37 am
Pop her in the mouth before she does it and say NO. SIT. ...........exactly a dog
2015-10-29 10:49 pm
2015-10-28 8:06 pm
Just slap her when she does it. She'll stop.
2015-10-28 2:42 am
maybe she is hungry.
2015-10-28 1:50 am
ignore her
2015-10-28 12:06 am
If you bite her back you get in trouble but battery operated shockers work wonders they don't leave marks and you can buy or make one ez!
2015-10-27 9:00 pm
Break her jaw, don't be a pansy
2015-10-27 7:47 pm
I would just slap the **** out of little biter and she can whine all she wants, your parents should be bitten too
2015-10-27 11:46 am
Belt her !!! Smack her over the head !!!!
2015-10-28 11:08 am
If your parents wont do anything you need to act more parent/like to her. If she bites you again tell her your not going to talk to her or paly with her for a week. Make sure you follow thru with it. Also give her a stern look (not mean) all the time for while, maybe a month even when things are ok. If your friends have little brothers or sisters call your friends while your sister is around and say how lucky they are to have such nice little brother or sister that doesn't bite them (have a regular conversation first so no one gets suspicious).
2015-10-27 6:07 pm
she is just four...she would do stuff like this!
2015-10-27 12:42 am
Well, you are thirteen and she's four, that's why you got grounded and she didn't. Developmentally, she doesn't understand grounding, the way they are dealing with her behavior isn't the best, but you and she are not the same developmentally. I'm sorry that you wound up feeling like you needed to hurt her to get some attention brought to the issue, but, like you found, pushing back when someone pushes you (or bites you) generally winds up in the most physically strong getting into hot water. It's something to keep telling your parents though; I need you to help me deal with this because I want to hurt her.
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