My son passed away 6 months ago, I am wondering if I can still call myself a mother or am I not longer a mom?
2015-10-26 3:37 am
He was 15 years old and passed away in a car crash, he was my only child. I still find myself referring to myself as a mom, but am I stil?
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2015-10-27 12:24 am
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Here is what i think you son would like to say to you.Dear Mommy,
I have one Mom! Only one! And the BEST mom ever! Nobody can ever take you away from me. I will not give up on you! and I know you will not give up on me.
I may no longer be there in body. And I am so sorry that you are going through so much pain.. no parent should outlive their child. I will be here looking out for you just as you have looked out for me. There are privates, captains, Majors, Generals and presidents in this world . But you have earned the highest rank possible.
So wear your rank with pride! The rank of MOM!
I miss you too
Your loving son.
2015-10-27 3:41 pm
Of course you can! For what it's worth, I am so sorry this happened to you. No parent should lose a child. You gave birth to him, and obviously care about him, so you are a mother. I'm sure you were and are a great mum. Your son may not be alive in the physical sense, but I'll bet he's still with you always watching over you in a spiritual sense. Just know that it's not your fault, you will get through this, and your son loves you - his mother.
2015-10-26 7:41 pm
I have 2 wonderful sons who are now adults, or they would have been if one was not visiously murdered 2 years ago. There are no words that could possibly console any parent, especially a Mother. Even thou he is gone from my life here on Earth, he .will always be my son. All sons and daughters have only 1 Mom and 1 Dad, and nothing will ever change that fact. He became my son when he was born and he is still my son in death. Forever and always! Stay strong Mom!!
2015-10-27 4:35 am
This is so sad. I'm sorry that your son passed away Yes, you are still a mother. And yes, you can refer to yourself as a mother. Of course, one day someone may ask if you have children. And your answer would be yes, but.... Your tragedy does not pre-empt that you are a mother. You are a mother in the present tense. But do not think that your being a mother ended when his life ended. Your being a mother now relies on the joys of the past to fill the present of today. But no matter what, concerning this, you are how you feel. And I am sure you feel like a mother would under the circumstances, grieving and missing your son. He is your son. Not he was your son. And you are his mother.
2015-10-26 5:57 pm
Of course you are still a mother. My brother passed away on September 21st and I still, and always will, consider him to be my brother. As I read your question and the answers my tears fell freely. I know it's not exactly the same, but I understand what you are going through.
I also lost a child when I was seventeen but I didn't have the pleasure of giving birth to him. I'm not going to go into detail, but it's been 17 years and it's still really hard to think about. I consider myself to be a mother even though my child was never able to draw his first breath outside my womb.
I know there are no words to make the pain of your loss more bearable, but I know your son is looking down on you from Heaven, as is my child and brother. You will be reunited with your son, and when that happens, there is will be no heartache, only joy.
I also lost a child when I was seventeen but I didn't have the pleasure of giving birth to him. I'm not going to go into detail, but it's been 17 years and it's still really hard to think about. I consider myself to be a mother even though my child was never able to draw his first breath outside my womb.
I know there are no words to make the pain of your loss more bearable, but I know your son is looking down on you from Heaven, as is my child and brother. You will be reunited with your son, and when that happens, there is will be no heartache, only joy.
2015-10-28 11:00 am
This is so sad. I'm sorry that your son passed away Yes, you are still a mother. And yes, you can refer to yourself as a mother. Of course, one day someone may ask if you have children. And your answer would be yes, but.... Your tragedy does not pre-empt that you are a mother. You are a mother in the present tense. But do not think that your being a mother ended when his life ended. Your being a mother now relies on the joys of the past to fill the present of today. But no matter what, concerning this, you are how you feel. And I am sure you feel like a mother would under the circumstances, grieving and missing your son. He is your son. Not he was your son. And you are his mother.
2015-10-26 7:29 pm
You will always be a mom! You gave birth to that child and raised him, so you will always be his mother and he will always be your son, even if he's not here anymore! I am so sorry for your loss. I have a month old son and I cannot imagine losing him. I pray that you can get through this difficult time, and although the pain will never heal, I pray that you find the strength to continue on with your life. I can't imagine what you must be going through.
2015-10-27 3:33 pm
Simple answer is your a mom for the rest of your life you gave birth to someone even if you lose a child to some kind of tragedy or illness your still a mom this will never change; just like if your married and your spouse dies your a widow not just another single person. Sorry for your loss especially with a child so young may God Bless you with some inner healing and strength for you to mend your heart and so you can in due time move on with your life. Maybe if your not that old have another child or even adopt pass this love you had for your son onto some other kid who needs it.
2015-10-27 5:08 am
That's a coincidence. I know a guy who went to my school who was 15 and passed 6 months ago. He was a passenger in a car that was speeding. All my friends who were friends with him spent the entire day the next day at school in the counseling office because they were really sad about him. Anyway, you created life to this boy and you cared for him and no one can change that. He may not be with us physically but he's not gone. You're still a mother and that will never change. If you're son is the same person I'm thinking about, all his friends miss him and love him. I'm sorry for your loss and I wish you best of luck
2015-10-29 1:07 am
First let me start off by saying, I'm very sorry for your loss. Im a 15 year old as well and you should still call yourself a mom. Because guess what no matter what happens, he will always be your son and you will always be his mom. Im very sorry for what happened. Let me confess up until a few moments ago i was thinking about killing myself, for various reasons. But hearing your story makes me feel terrible that I would never want my parents to feel this way. Let me just say thank you to whom ever you are because you saved me. God bless you and your family, and let me conclude with saying he is your son and he will never forget about you just as you will never forget about him, I know it may be hard to hear after losing someone(I lost my sister a few years ago in a car crash) but the best thing to do for yourself, other family members and what your son would also want is don't continue to cry just remember how wonderful and how great of a kid he is (not was is, because your son will always be with you). He will always be your son and you will always be his mom.
2015-10-28 5:37 pm
I'm so unbelievably sorry this happened to you but you seem so strong, keep going!
I'm sure your son is up in paradise somewhere looking down on you and calling you his Mom so of course you are still a mom! You will always call him your son so no matter how far away he is from you he is still your son and you gave birth to him so you will always be a mother to him.
Just because he's not here physically doesn't mean he isn't with you, he is still a part of you and you a part of him forever.
I'm sure your son is up in paradise somewhere looking down on you and calling you his Mom so of course you are still a mom! You will always call him your son so no matter how far away he is from you he is still your son and you gave birth to him so you will always be a mother to him.
Just because he's not here physically doesn't mean he isn't with you, he is still a part of you and you a part of him forever.
2015-10-26 3:44 am
Read John 5:28 and 29..You will always be a mother especially because your son will be resurrected according to bible prophecy. Revelation 21:3,4 talk about a time of pain free living that we living right now, and those being resurrected have an opportunity to experience and enjoy.
2015-10-26 5:31 am
First of all, I'am SO VERY sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how terrible it must feel to have to bury your own child! Yes you are still and will ALWAYS be considered a mother. A mother is someone who gave birth to children and since he was your biological child, you are still considered his mother!! Same goes for his father. Again I'am EXTREMELY sorry this had to happen to you. Good luck and God Bless you!!!
2015-10-26 9:49 am
You gave birth to a son, and that forever makes you a mother. I believe his Spirit is with you, aware you miss him, and love him.
2015-10-26 2:53 pm
Of course you're still a mother. You're a grieving mother. Nothing changes that love that only a mother has for her child, whether your child lived an hour or sixty years. You knew him, his likes, dislikes, he had plans and you had hopes. Nothing is going to change that unique relationship. I know, out of my own experience, that you won't ever forget, or really get over your loss, but eventually it will only bring back the pleasant memories with less pain than you ever thought possible right now. When you can, find other ways to help other children.
I read to kids at the library, for instance, and over the years I helped at hospitals for kids. I thinking once you're a mother you learned to give love, and it needs someplace to go.
I read to kids at the library, for instance, and over the years I helped at hospitals for kids. I thinking once you're a mother you learned to give love, and it needs someplace to go.
2015-10-27 2:59 am
I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know do you are religious,but either way,I am praying for you and the soul of your son. Yes you are still a mother. You will always be a mother,no one can take that away from you. You will always be a mom. God bless,and I wish you the best in your grieving process.
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2015-10-29 10:07 pm
This is tragic and I'm sorry for your loss. Being a 16 year old who has attempted suicide multiple times and has seen the effect it had on my family, I can only imagine what you're going through. But to your question, are you still a mother? Of course. You conceived and raised a child and although he sadly did not get to live to his full potential, you still brought someone into this world and cared for them. You have experienced being a mother and your maternal instincts don't go away just because your son did. However, if calling yourself a mother for right now doesn't feel right and feels sad because of the memories it could bring up, you don't have to. Once again, I'm so sorry about your loss and hope not only you find yourself at peace, but your son does, too.
2015-10-26 4:51 am
I am so sorry for your loss. And yes, no matter what your son still lives on in your heart, mind, and heaven. God takes care of him now, until you can again. You are a mom, still! :-)
2015-10-26 3:44 am
Yes you are 100% that was your baby and you are still his mother cause he will forever live in your heart. Really sorry for your loss.
2015-10-27 11:31 pm
Absolutely. The Oxford English Dictionary defines "mother" as, "The female parent of a human being; a woman in relation to a child or children to whom she has given birth." You gave birth to a child, and therefore you are indeed a mother.
Also, definitions aside, you have all of the experiences of being a mother (pregnancy, childbirth, raising the child, etc.) so by that approach you're also a mother.
Unfortunately, if someone asks if you're a mother, they often assume that that means your child is living, and it could bring up the painful situation where you have to explain what happened to your son. So it's really up to you how to describe yourself. Perhaps if someone asks, "are you a mother?" You could simply reply, "I had a child, yes, but he passed away." Most people will be caring enough to simply say, "Oh, I'm sorry to hear that," rather than prying further.
In very few cases is it really relevant to ask if someone's a mother, so hopefully it won't come up very often. But you can certainly continue to think of yourself as a mother.
Also, definitions aside, you have all of the experiences of being a mother (pregnancy, childbirth, raising the child, etc.) so by that approach you're also a mother.
Unfortunately, if someone asks if you're a mother, they often assume that that means your child is living, and it could bring up the painful situation where you have to explain what happened to your son. So it's really up to you how to describe yourself. Perhaps if someone asks, "are you a mother?" You could simply reply, "I had a child, yes, but he passed away." Most people will be caring enough to simply say, "Oh, I'm sorry to hear that," rather than prying further.
In very few cases is it really relevant to ask if someone's a mother, so hopefully it won't come up very often. But you can certainly continue to think of yourself as a mother.
2015-10-26 4:11 am
Im sorry for your loss. But you will always be a mother because he was your son.
2015-10-26 3:41 am
Yes you are.
I at least think you still qualify as a mom. If you would like to call yourself a mom, go right ahead. :)
You still raised him. You still love him. Just because he is dead doesn't mean he isn't your son anymore.
That's why sometimes widows or widowers still wear their rings. They still consider themselves married.
I am very sorry for your loss.
I sure hope this helps. :)
I at least think you still qualify as a mom. If you would like to call yourself a mom, go right ahead. :)
You still raised him. You still love him. Just because he is dead doesn't mean he isn't your son anymore.
That's why sometimes widows or widowers still wear their rings. They still consider themselves married.
I am very sorry for your loss.
I sure hope this helps. :)
2015-10-26 3:41 am
once a mother, always a mother! ! SO ABSOLUTELY YES... as long as your son remains embedded in your mind and heart You are a mother and you will be till the end.. so feel proud to say that You are a mother of a son who will always remain alive in your heart :)
2015-10-26 3:39 am
Hello there,
I'm sorry about your tragedy. but you should think of it this way. God is the one that choses our destiny o fate. Maybe its best for your child to die. Yes your still called a mother. I wish the best in life and come close to God and he will heal you and help you out. Trust he loves you more than anything and your son is happy with God
I'm sorry about your tragedy. but you should think of it this way. God is the one that choses our destiny o fate. Maybe its best for your child to die. Yes your still called a mother. I wish the best in life and come close to God and he will heal you and help you out. Trust he loves you more than anything and your son is happy with God
2015-10-27 1:29 am
You are and will always be your son's mother. The fact that he is no longer able to be seen on this earth, doesn't change his very real relationship with you, his mother. I lost my son when he was 2 months old , to SIDs. I know the pain of your loss, and yes, dear, you are still a mother.
2015-10-28 12:30 pm
My mom passed away 17 days ago due to cancer. My mom may not be here anymore, but she's still my mom. I am sorry to hear about your son though.
2015-10-28 7:03 am
You will always be a mother. You conceived and birthed a child. Your child has just passed on but that does not take away the fact that you had a child. If you were the first to pass on would that make your child a bastard?? NO!! It would just be that your child lost his mother. Having a child and being present in their life is what makes you a mother. Not a death or anything else take that away from you. You are a mother and will be one for the rest of your life. On your tombstone it my say beloved mother.
2015-10-28 6:55 am
I have 4 living children. two sons and two daughters. One of my daughters had a twin brother and 32 years ago he died from what we then called crib death and is now called SIDS. When people ask me how many children I have I say, "five" without thinking. You are a mother, you will always BE a mother whether you ever give birth to another child or not.
2015-10-28 6:19 am
Of course you are still a mother. He would be so angry if he found out that you think otherwise. Once a mom always a mom. He will think that you have forgotten about him if you stop calling yourself mom. He will be lost. But he knows you won't let that happen. Your son knows that you will always be his mom. That can never change. Our physical bodies are weak. They don't remain on this earth for very long. But our spirits. They roam. They are always here. Your son watches you and one day you will reunite with him. Don't be afraid. I love you mom. Also, if you want to meet with him, try astral projection. Just look into it. You can leave your body and roam, and be free. It is your spirit that leaves while you sleep. Anyways, son always loves mom. Always.
2015-10-27 11:46 pm
I could not imagine the pain from a loss of a child. I am sorry for you loss of your son. YES, YOU ARE ALWAYS AND FOREVER CONSIDERED A MOTHER. You have carried this growing boy in your belly, gone through the pain of delivering a healthy boy, you held this boy with joy, love, care,gentle affection, protected this boy from any harm from anything or anyone, you kissed, hugged, laughed, kissed boo boos, comfort his sadness, had great conversation and he has accepted you as ONE of two people who he can depend on for advise, reassurance, love, acceptance and most of All the truest best friend and mama that will always be there physically,spiritually, and emotionally. This is for a lifetime! Im confident you were his last thought before he closed his eyes. Moms is a special person in every sons life. Cherish the great life you had with him in this world. Its OK to feel your grieving.You are forever a mother nothing changes that Mama! God Bless and big bear hugs to you!
2015-10-27 8:41 pm
Absolutely! I believe that a woman because a mom as soon as conception. Especially after 15 years, you'll always be a mom. And I'm very sorry for your lose, I'll pray for you and your family.
2015-10-27 6:59 pm
You're still a mom, you carried him for 9 months,raised him wonderfully for 15 years thus, you are a mom
I'm so sorry for your loss though, deepest of sympathies
I'm so sorry for your loss though, deepest of sympathies
2015-10-27 2:52 pm
I'm so sorry for your loss, of course you're still his mother, no matter what.
2015-10-27 10:59 am
YES. As a President is a President all their life,YOU will remain a Mother.
2015-10-26 11:08 pm
Yes oh course you are. You'll always be a mother and your child will be looking down on you wishing he could comfort his mother. Rip to your son, such a tragic loss, my thoughts are with you. You'll always be a mother until the day you are taken and will see your son again.
2015-10-26 9:26 pm
Sorry about your loss. Once a Mom always a Mom.
2015-10-26 8:49 pm
i am so sorry for your loss. Yes, you are still a Mother and always will be. I have three daughters. One is 23, one is 18 and the other is deceased. Even if I didn't have the other two, I would still be a Mom to my Stephanie.
2015-10-26 3:49 pm
Sorry for your lost. You can always be a MOTHER at least for him. He did exist in this world even it's a short time and you're the woman who gave him life so where or what ever your kid is, you're always be his mother. Look at some people who have never even have sex but call themselves mothers or fathers just because they have their beloved pets that they love as much as their own children, you even gave him your DNA, 9 months space in your body, breast feeding and so on, so why can't?
2015-10-26 4:41 am
Once you give birth to a child, you will always and forever be a mother
2015-10-26 4:15 am
I'm sorry for your incredible loss. You gave birth which qualifies you as a mother forever.
2015-10-26 3:39 am
Wow, that must be so hard on you; I can't even imagine. I'm very sorry for your loss. But you are absolutely still a mother. And he is still your son, even if he is gone. That will never, ever change!
2015-10-28 3:13 am
Yes. You are still a mother.
2015-10-26 9:16 am
You will ALWAYS be a MOMMA <3
Sorry for your loss darling. I had a natural abortion, secretly i like to know that i was a mother.nobody knows just me and my fiance. I still am. I dont care if it was too small, i felt love towards it the moment o found out i had a natural abortion and noticed that i was pregnant i didnt know. It was heartbreaking. But i felt that ive love my bby like if ive had him forever! Its just a special connection that a mother will always carry. Be strong , hes still there with you spiritually <3
Sorry for your loss darling. I had a natural abortion, secretly i like to know that i was a mother.nobody knows just me and my fiance. I still am. I dont care if it was too small, i felt love towards it the moment o found out i had a natural abortion and noticed that i was pregnant i didnt know. It was heartbreaking. But i felt that ive love my bby like if ive had him forever! Its just a special connection that a mother will always carry. Be strong , hes still there with you spiritually <3
2015-10-28 9:03 pm
The way I see it is no matter what he will always be your son and you will always be his mom. So the answer is yes you are still a mom. I'm so so sorry for your loss.
2015-10-28 4:54 pm
sooooo sorry to hear this but you are still a mom my dog just passed away but im still his mom
(im sorry Im not compareing them but a loss is a loss )
(im sorry Im not compareing them but a loss is a loss )
2015-10-28 4:37 pm
Yes, you are still a mother, just to an angel now.
2015-10-28 3:30 pm
Im so sorry. I literally cried reading your question. I have only one son and he is 8 yrs old. He is my only child and every day I have this fear that something terrrible will happen to him and he will be taken away from me and then I will no longer have my only child. I think I would feel barren, empty and just unable to live.
2015-10-28 2:53 pm
BIG NO...You're still a mother...You was born and left earth as a mother...
2015-10-28 1:54 pm
Im very sorry what happened, and offcourse you are still a mom why not you care about him and you gave birth so you are a mom , like when my grand pa died he still is my grand pa, i wisha wonderfull life and with a lot of hope (sorry for ny english)
2015-10-28 1:35 pm
Do you know kids who died early they will ask God to take their mom to heaven and god will accept little kids praying at the time.
You are still mother and always being mother.
In our society people call in the name of "x's mother' even after the kid died.
if you introduce yourself with your sons mother you will feel that.
what is your sons name.
for example if your sons name 'john' you may introduce yourself as 'you may call me john's mom' and people will call you 'hello john's mom'... like that.
In arab, there is tradition of calling people with the name of their kid.
if you are very much sensitive about your motherhood and calling mother you may try this traditional introduction.
it may help you much.
You are still mother and always being mother.
In our society people call in the name of "x's mother' even after the kid died.
if you introduce yourself with your sons mother you will feel that.
what is your sons name.
for example if your sons name 'john' you may introduce yourself as 'you may call me john's mom' and people will call you 'hello john's mom'... like that.
In arab, there is tradition of calling people with the name of their kid.
if you are very much sensitive about your motherhood and calling mother you may try this traditional introduction.
it may help you much.
2015-10-28 9:39 am
Oh geez, I'm so sorry that happened to you, hun.
And yes, you will ALWAYS be a mother no matter how old your kids get, no matter if they are no longer here, you'll still be his mother.
And yes, you will ALWAYS be a mother no matter how old your kids get, no matter if they are no longer here, you'll still be his mother.
2015-10-28 7:39 am
Yeah
2015-10-28 7:34 am
I am so sorry to hear that.
Yes of course you are a mom. No matter where he went, your love of mom is still with him. He is only you son and your husband's son.
He called you mom for 15 years, you are his mom forever.
I was brought up by my grandmother, she died in 2013, but I feel she is always around me, her love is still with me, deeper then before, I am her granddaughter forever.
Yes of course you are a mom. No matter where he went, your love of mom is still with him. He is only you son and your husband's son.
He called you mom for 15 years, you are his mom forever.
I was brought up by my grandmother, she died in 2013, but I feel she is always around me, her love is still with me, deeper then before, I am her granddaughter forever.
2015-10-28 2:33 am
You'll always be a mother since you've given birth. I'm sorry for your loss.
2015-10-28 2:27 am
I'm so sorry. And yes of course you're a mother. You raised him until the age of 15, and I bet if he was still here, you would've raised him until he was on his own.
2015-10-27 11:24 pm
You a mom and always will be. Proudly refer to yourself as a mother.
2015-10-27 11:19 pm
yes you are. you gave birth. what if you were giving birth to a dead child? would you still be considered pregnant if you didn't have a breathing body in you? what about when you are de-virginised, if that person died after, would you still be a virgin? what i am saying is of course you are a mother. he must have had a terrific life with you. i am so sorry about what happened. i am 14 and i have known people dying in accidents or something happens. i hope you get better, RIP.
2015-10-27 10:04 pm
I am very sad after reading this. Of course you are a mother. You had a son, and that lasts forever. Nothing can and nothing will ever change that. I am very sorry for the loss of your son.
2015-10-27 9:54 pm
Just becuse your child is no longer in your arms doesnt mean your not a mother, i am very very sorry to hear about your loss. Your son would want you to smile, he IS still your son and yes sweetheart, you are and will always be a mother
2015-10-27 9:37 pm
I am so sorry for your loss. I couldn't imagine that type of pain. You will always be a mother and nothing can take that away from you.
2015-10-27 7:57 pm
Yes!! Don't ever tell yourself your not!! You birthed him and cared for him. You are a mother for the rest of your life.
2015-10-27 4:20 pm
Yes
2015-10-27 3:01 pm
You are definitely a sister mourning the loss of a brother. Mother and mom of former son.
2015-10-27 12:57 pm
My goodness, I can hardly see through the tears. My eldest brother died and my mum was beside herself with grief. In our culture,being an Arab, a parent is called after the eldest son and so my mum was always called Um Jiryes, (Mother of Jiryes), the same as the father would be called Abu Jiryes which is (Father of Jiryes), A friend came in to visit one day and she called my mum Um Khalil, which is the name of the second son. Everybody in the room was so outraged, as my mum was to everyone Um Jiryes, if that answers your question. So you are 100% your son's mum and will always be that. Remember the good times always. Lots of Love and prayers
2015-10-27 12:28 pm
I am so sorry for your loss. Be comforted in the assurance that you will always be a mom. May God comfort you with happy memories of your son.
2015-10-27 11:49 am
Interesting question.
It seems to me that you feel that by "denying" that you've ever been a mother, you're suggesting that your son never existed. He did exist.
Follow your heart.
You're a Mother.
It seems to me that you feel that by "denying" that you've ever been a mother, you're suggesting that your son never existed. He did exist.
Follow your heart.
You're a Mother.
2015-10-27 7:49 am
Absolutely!
2015-10-27 7:27 am
You are a mother to an angel. That's what you can say
2015-10-27 5:17 am
I'm sorry of course your still a mom & you will be his mom forever
2015-10-27 3:23 am
Of course your still a mom !
2015-10-27 2:43 am
you can. His death doesn't change that. In certain cases of abuse or abandonment i believe a women would lose the right to call herself a mother, but otherwise I believe are a still a Mother
2015-10-27 12:28 am
of course you can, although he no longer walks this earth(bless his soul) you still carried that beautiful baby for 9 months and youll always be a mother
2015-10-26 10:22 pm
My sympathy for your loss.
You will ALWAYS be a mother. You bore a child. If it comes up you can explain that you lost your child, but you are a mom. There are many lonely children who need a mother's wisdom and guidance. Pray to God to send you where you are needed and He will not leave you comfortless.
You will ALWAYS be a mother. You bore a child. If it comes up you can explain that you lost your child, but you are a mom. There are many lonely children who need a mother's wisdom and guidance. Pray to God to send you where you are needed and He will not leave you comfortless.
2015-10-26 8:18 pm
Yes, You will always be your Son's Mom......forever and ever!! When you walk thru those Gates he will call for you......and that will be with open arms and calling you Mom.
My DEEPEST sympathy for losing your young, handsome Son.
My DEEPEST sympathy for losing your young, handsome Son.
2015-10-26 7:24 pm
of course your still his mother. nobody can ever take that away from you! you are a kind, thoughtful mother. I bless you and your son xx
2015-10-26 5:37 pm
I am so sorry for your loss. But nothing will ever change that, and you are considered a mother. Your son will always still be with you. The relationship with your son will always stay bonded and never to break.
2015-10-26 4:40 pm
I'm so sorry for your lost and of course :) You will always be his mom no matter what. That was your baby.
2015-10-26 4:31 pm
You're absolutely a mother. I am so sorry for your loss.
2015-10-26 12:39 pm
I am sorry to hear about your loss, but as you gave birth to him, you will always be a mother
2015-10-26 3:47 am
Im very sorry for your loss, you are still a mother and you will always be
2015-10-26 3:42 am
yes u will always be a mother to ur son even if his time has come before urs...
2015-10-26 3:38 am
You will always be a mom.
2015-10-28 9:22 am
Of course you are still his mom! You gave birth to him after carrying him for 9 months and took care of him up until his passing. I'm sorry for your loss though.. i bet you were very good to your son! :)
2015-10-27 9:50 pm
You're still a mother; being a parent isn't just a state of being; it's a state of mind and heart.
I;'m so sorry for you loss; I really love you with all of my heart; I'll pray for you.
Be assured that one day you'll see your boy again; one day the circle will be broken; and the pain will stop.
I love you and I'm so very sorry.
I;'m so sorry for you loss; I really love you with all of my heart; I'll pray for you.
Be assured that one day you'll see your boy again; one day the circle will be broken; and the pain will stop.
I love you and I'm so very sorry.
2015-10-27 2:40 pm
I don't know what to say. But as son i can tell you that a mother is a mother for ever. she is the best person i the world even her son is dead or live. You were a mother and you will be a mother forever.
2015-10-27 4:09 am
You are still a mom, you're just a mom who lost her son.
2015-10-27 2:27 am
Of course you are a mom. I'm sorry for the tragic loss of your son, but you will always be a mom - once you give birth or adopt a child you are ALWAYS considered to be a mom.
2015-10-26 7:36 pm
Once a mother always a mother.
2015-10-26 7:37 am
Yes youre still a Mum! He ll always be your boy. Youre a very strong person x
2015-11-02 2:57 am
You gave birth. You're a mother! Now you don't have a son. You have a late son. My condolences.
2015-10-31 1:25 am
Of course you can ! I'm so sorry for your loss Honey :(
2015-10-31 1:12 am
I'm very sorry for your loss. I lost my mum two years ago to cancer whenever I had just turned 16. I still refer to her as my mum even though she's passed on, so you can still refer to your son as your son. My deepest condolences, I know you'll get through it
2015-10-30 11:06 pm
You're right, that is a complicated question. But, like everyone else, I think you can. You were, afterall, his mother. And you have the option of having another boy, named after him, if you want to. But whether or not you name your next one, after him, consider having two kids, next time.
2015-10-30 10:11 pm
Absolutely call yourself a mother. Add the word beautiful alongside it
2015-10-30 7:51 pm
Of course you are still his Mother - who else is, or could be ? Only you !
YOU gave birth, YOU are his Mother, no one else, you will ALWAYS be until the day you join him, then you'll be together forever.
YOU gave birth, YOU are his Mother, no one else, you will ALWAYS be until the day you join him, then you'll be together forever.
2015-10-30 7:28 pm
You will always be a mom and a great one. What happened was nobody's fault. I wish I was your son to help you get through this
2015-10-30 7:23 pm
Yes. You are the mother of his dead body.
2015-10-30 6:56 pm
Yes you are still a mother and you will always be ....and I am really very sorry for what had happened to you and your lovely son....may his soul rest in peace.
參考: Peace be with you and God bless you.
2015-10-30 6:44 pm
you will always be his mother no matter what
2015-10-30 5:58 pm
yes . Do you own any pets ? You should get one to to help out in these hard times
2015-10-30 5:54 pm
you will always be a mother, no matter what. You got the right and the luxury to be called a mother when you carried that beautiful child for 9 months. sorry for your loss
2015-10-30 5:50 pm
Yes.
2015-10-30 5:45 pm
My son passed away 15 years ago, and whenever I am asked how many children do I have I say 2. One in heaven and one here with me. You will always be his mom. Forever. Hold on, it will get easier, it will never go away, will never stop hurting, but it will ease. Remember the love. I am so sorry for your loss.
2015-10-30 4:16 pm
You will always be a mom. Just because your son was taken from you doesn't take away the fact that he is still your son, and you are still his mother. I am incredibly sorry for your loss. Loosing a child is the worst thing that could happen to a parent. The best people always get taken from us first. I know that it's a tough road but stay strong.
2015-10-30 1:25 pm
you held a living human being in your womb. you held that same being in you arms. you hold that same being in your heart. you ARE a mother and will be a mother for the rest of eternity long after you are dust in the wind. your baby will always be your baby. you get to celebrate every mothers day and be proud of the wonderful person you brought into this world.
2015-10-30 8:11 am
You're the mother of an angel.
2015-10-30 7:20 am
Once a mother, always a mother. He's still your son and always will be. You'll see him again after this life and you'll always still be his mother. I'll bet he loves you and is watching over you. God bless you!
2015-10-30 6:32 am
Once a mom, always a mom. Sorry about your loss.
2015-10-30 4:48 am
Im so sorry for your loss and Of course you are still a mom and you always will be.
2015-10-30 4:34 am
Omg! I'm so sorry. Yes u can still be a mom you are a mom you are his mom.You will always be a mom cause u gave birth to a child & raised & nurtured him all those years.That's what Moms do! He is still your son & he will always be with you.. Take care
2015-10-30 4:01 am
Dude of course you're still a mom. In my opinion, as long as you've adopted or given birth to a child and you love them to no end, you will always be a mom.
2015-10-30 2:44 am
You will always be a mom. My daughter died a year ago and I still say I have 4 children. Death can't take this away from you. So sorry you didn't have your son longer.
2015-10-30 2:30 am
Yes your still his mom
2015-10-30 2:28 am
You will always be his mother! He is still your child and he will always be your son. You are husband and wife until death do you part but there is no such thing as death do you part between a mother and her baby. Sooner or later you will be together again. I speak from experience I too have lost my only son 2 years ago and it still hurts and I never stop thinking about him, but I keep myself moving forward telling myself that I will see him again. This is your pain and only you know the hurt don't let others dictate how you feel and how you should mourn he IS and will always be your child and you ARE his mother!! I hope this helps may God bring you peace.
2015-10-30 1:58 am
of corse you're still a mother. if he was in your stomach he's your son.
2015-10-30 1:50 am
once a mother, always a mother.
2015-10-30 12:36 am
You will always be a mother and you will always be his mother . Just bc he passed doesn t make you less of a mother than anyone else .. you raised him for 15 years and now he is your guardian angel .. give my condolences , keep your head up
2015-10-29 11:48 pm
First, I`m so sorry. But you will always be a mother. Being a mother is a lifetime job, you were and always will be a mother.
2015-10-29 11:35 pm
yes you are still a mother
2015-10-29 11:01 pm
Yes you are still a mother stay strong !
2015-10-29 9:42 pm
First of all I am so tremendously sorry for your loss....of course you are still are mother. Even though your son is gone he will always be your child and you will always be his mother. I had a friend who passed away in an accident when we were teenagers and I know his mother was extremely strong during that time, just like you are now.
2015-10-29 8:38 pm
Of course you can. You gave birth to him and never forget that.
2015-10-29 8:25 pm
am so sry for this news,ur a mother and a good one at that,be proud
2015-10-29 5:48 pm
You will always be a mother. I am so sorry for your loss. Your son will always be your son no matter what.
2015-10-29 5:32 pm
First of all, so very sorry for your loss. You will always be mom. Best wishes for healing.
2015-10-29 5:05 pm
You ll always be his mom, and you ll always have him with you in your heart. Stay strong momma ❤️
2015-10-29 4:56 pm
You are his Mom forever!
2015-10-29 4:17 pm
Condolences on the passing of your son.......you gave birth to a human being,therefore to my way of thinking you are and always will be a mother.
2015-10-29 3:46 pm
you're son will always be your son no matter what so don't let your tragedy dictate your relationship with your son. sorry for your loss.
2015-10-29 3:41 pm
I'm so sorry. You can call yourself whatever you believe is appropriate
2015-10-29 2:18 pm
I'm very sorry for your loss.
YOU will always be a mom forever!!
YOU will always be a mom forever!!
2015-10-29 1:40 pm
That's up to you, I don't think anyone would correct you, and if they do they're an a$@hole.
2015-10-29 1:28 pm
That is a sad story but, to answer your question, yes. You raised someone for 15 years. Not only that if you wanted to get in really literal terms, the definition of a mother is (a woman in relation to a child or children to whom she has given birth). Even tho your son has passed you would still be considered a mother. So yes its Ok to call yourself a mother.
2015-10-29 12:21 pm
of course you are still a mother
2015-10-29 10:40 am
i am so sorry for you MOM !!!!
2015-10-29 10:01 am
Of course you are... very sorry for your loss which can't be recover but you gave birth to him and you will remain a mother forever.. There are somethings which can't be control by us. Just have faith and do not lose hope he will be watching you wherever he is.. So be strong and happy because it will make him happy...
2015-10-29 10:00 am
Of course you are!
2015-10-29 9:43 am
i am sorry for what had happened. of course you can still call yourself mother.mother is the greatest person in the world and no one or nothing can deny it .hope that you can get through it as soon as possible.
2015-10-29 9:21 am
I'm so sorry! I can not begin to imagine your pain. Yes, you were and are and always will be his mom.
2015-10-29 9:10 am
Not a parent, extremely sorry for your loss and won't preach how you are supposed to feel, but will blood bonds are forever, they are the only ones that are constant and eternal.
2015-10-29 7:56 am
my mom passed away but doesnt mean i dont have a mom, deceased people are as alive as u make them
2015-10-29 7:52 am
Yes you can! Of course you can. And I'm really sorry about that I hope he rest in peace , he's in a better place now.
2015-10-29 7:28 am
I'm extremely sorry. You will always be a mom you will always be his mom. All my prayers go out to you.
2015-10-29 6:24 am
Of course you are. None can ever take that back. No parent should ever lose a child. I'm so sorry for your loss
2015-10-29 6:07 am
Of course you are. What if you had another child, and you died before he did. He would still consider you his mother!
2015-10-29 5:44 am
You will always be a mother.
2015-10-29 4:58 am
You are. Your character shows itself that you go on. I lost my baby boy when he was 3 years. I am an old man and cry often. Some say that mothers have a much closer bond to a child. Still if you can live through this you will be able to help others and grow more love in your heart.
2015-10-29 4:54 am
I am so sorry. I cried when I read that. Yes, you are his mother. I'm sure he was very happy to have such a caring, loving mother. And would be proud of you for staying strong.
2015-10-29 4:31 am
You gave birth.
You are mother.
Sorry for your loss.
You are mother.
Sorry for your loss.
2015-10-29 4:22 am
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your question is actually the answer. If you feel that close to him to miss him and be wondering about this, then that's precisely the answer. It's your love for him that's showing through. Once a mom, always a mom. You still hold him close to your heart = mom. You call him your son = mom. You call yourself his mom and wonder if you're right = mom.
The fact that you care about him and this question was brought up proves to me that you're his mom.
The fact that you care about him and this question was brought up proves to me that you're his mom.
2015-10-29 4:15 am
I am so sorry. Yes you can still call yourself a mother because you have been through and experienced what a mother has experienced.
2015-10-29 4:02 am
yeah, Why not? its not like anyone is gonna say "Oh... your son died??? that doesnt means your a mother anymore.... :/ sorry"
If anyone does tell you that your not you can just blow up in there face and people will understand.
If anyone does tell you that your not you can just blow up in there face and people will understand.
2015-10-29 3:54 am
If you can consider losing a child through miscarriage or abortion being a mother, I think you can still consider yourself a mother. Motherhood never ends. Your child just grows up, or passes on. Sorry for your loss.
2015-10-29 3:41 am
I'm sorry for your loss, you still are and will always be a Mom.
2015-10-29 3:39 am
I am deeply sad and sorry to hear for your loss, of course you can still call yourself a mother. Women upon giving birth are automatically called mothers. Being a mother not only means you were able to produce an offspring, but being able to give love and care to a child, brings out the essence of being one. You gave birth, gave love and care to your son for 15 years, and that love and care stays in your heart even if he is gone. That permanent mark in your body, that once you conceived, carried your baby for nine months and that wound of giving birth, will not go with the passing of your son. It will forever stay and forever will be a reminder yes you are a mother.
2015-10-29 3:30 am
Yes you can. Just because you lost him doesn't mean he doesn't exist. When I was in college. There was this person. he said he had 9 children. He lost one right after childbirth. but he always said 9 children.
2015-10-29 2:53 am
of course and sorry for your loss
2015-10-29 2:44 am
You are still a mother. Now you are a bereaved mother.
2015-10-29 2:41 am
Yes mum and he is still with you but he would tell you that you still have a lot of living and loving to do.
2015-10-29 2:40 am
I teared up reading this. I'm 16 years old and if I died, I would still consider myself a child. so yes, you will and allays will be a mom.
2015-10-29 2:32 am
Of course! I'm sorry for your sorrow... I hope the wound heals soon enough. He will always be in your heart, and you will always be a mother. Even up in heaven, you are still his mother even if you aren't able to walk by his side anymore. As long as you live. Even past when you live, you are able to call yourself the mother to that child. Again, i'm very sorry for your sorrow, sadness, and loss. I will promise you it gets better. I'm sure he is watching you up in heaven.
2015-10-29 2:21 am
Motherhood is a BIRTH RIGHT or and ADOPTION RIGHT. As such one nurtures a child and thus is a mother to that child, SO DEFINATELY YES always a mother of and to him. Sorry about your loss, but; look at the stars at night and say HELLO SON.
2015-10-29 1:30 am
Even though your son is no longer here with you, he will always be in your heart, and so you will always be a Mom....
2015-10-29 1:28 am
Yes! It's your right! I'm so sorry for your loss! You ARE a mother of an angel!
2015-10-29 1:21 am
you are still a mother
2015-10-29 1:01 am
Once a mom always a mom. Thank you for moms. I'm so sorry for your loss
2015-10-29 12:51 am
i wish you peace and im sorry for your loss. know that he is and always will be with you. yes, of course you are a mother. please talk about him to anyone and everyone. for your own piece of mind. stay strong sister. you are not alone.
2015-10-29 12:33 am
There's different types of loss death or maturation loss.. When your children move on to life.. Regardless you'll alway be a mother weather child is present or nor
2015-10-29 12:17 am
So sorry for your loss. Once a mother, always a mother! Your still a mother and he is still your son, just in another place now. God Bless.
2015-10-29 12:11 am
dear friend i lost my son also aged 15 he was a wonderful son whom i loved with all my heart and still do although his body has passed on he lives within me and always will i live his life for him as love never dies he will always be in my memmories and in my heart so really his body has passed on he still lives within me i do know how you feel deeply always remember the love you had for each other it never fades it only grows stronger as time passes you will always be his mother till the end of time just like i will always be with my son as they live on within us mabye not in the physical body but always within the heart its like a oneness that never leaves you only gets better as he is always with you and enjoying the things that you do as true love is unconditional god bless you dear friend be happy for yourself and your son like i do
2015-10-29 12:01 am
You will always be a mother!!! I am so sorry for your loss but just because he passed away doesn't mean you're no longer a mother! God blessed you with the divine right to be and always be considered a mother! I'm sorry you lost a child I couldn't imagine how you must feel but please do not lose your title of mother. You have birth so you are a mother
2015-10-28 11:59 pm
You will always be a mother. Referring to yourself as a mother is just as right now as it was 6 months ago. My sympathies for your loss, I cannot imagine what you are going through.
2015-10-28 11:04 pm
yes.....,
2015-10-28 11:01 pm
YOU are definately still a MOTHER. You are just a mother too a baby that is living in heaven
2015-10-28 10:54 pm
Of course you can! Your son may have passed but his soul and your love for him will always be with you! Be proud and honor him! Honor your motherhood! Don't let it die!
2015-10-28 10:41 pm
I am so incredibly sorry to hear this happened to you. of course, you're still a mother for the rest of your life. you gave birth and raised a son. and I believe you still HAVE a son, hes an angel x
2015-10-28 10:18 pm
Yes you are still a mother I'm so sorry for your loss
2015-10-28 9:42 pm
You'll always be a mom; since the day you had your son
2015-10-28 9:39 pm
Iam so sorry for your loss .. Yes you are a wonderful and strong momy
2015-10-28 9:37 pm
You can do what you want. When something that serious happens you shouldn't care what people think.. I can't believe you actually care what people think
2015-10-28 9:30 pm
You are a way better mother than a lot of other ''mothers'' out there. And I think that most people agree that your son would love you to be happy and have more children
2015-10-28 9:07 pm
yes, you are still a mom.
2015-10-28 8:44 pm
you gave birth to him that's what made you his mommy sorry to hear he passed so suddenly
2015-10-28 8:30 pm
Yes of course.
2015-10-28 8:15 pm
u r a mum.
2015-10-28 8:09 pm
The fact he was born to you will never change, mom.
2015-10-28 7:57 pm
Dear Lady, I am truly sorry to hear of your loss.
You will always be a Mother (Mom) and can wear
that name with pride.
You will always be a Mother (Mom) and can wear
that name with pride.
2015-10-28 7:35 pm
Don't ever question that. You ARE and ALWAYS will be a mother. I'm so sorry about your loss. Try to think about the happy times you had together.
2015-10-28 7:28 pm
Wow I would be very heart broken if my mother says she isn't a mother after I passed away. It's hard to lose a son ,it's hard to lose a mother but it's even harder to deny that your the mother of the son you gave birth to! Ahhhhhhh you make me cry already, please always know that you are a proud mother of son!
2015-10-28 7:25 pm
You are the mother of your son from the moment you gave him birth. He is your son forever, in this world and the next, for all time.
I pray for you and your son that this time grief passes quickly.
Gigli singing as for your son.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wHqP5FFoyf0
I pray for you and your son that this time grief passes quickly.
Gigli singing as for your son.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wHqP5FFoyf0
2015-10-28 7:20 pm
of course your a mother! your child may be with the angels and darling you will always be a mother until your last breath
2015-10-28 6:55 pm
You will always be his mother.
2015-10-28 6:52 pm
So sad . hope you get relief from it soon .
2015-10-28 6:47 pm
Of course you can.
2015-10-28 6:45 pm
Of course you are. I'm very sorry about your loss.
2015-10-28 6:43 pm
You are still and always will be a Mother.
2015-10-28 6:26 pm
Is he your son? Then you are still a mother.
2015-10-28 6:21 pm
Yeah
2015-10-28 6:20 pm
I'm so sorry for your loss. But never should a mother ever doubting herself as a mother! No parent should lose a child. And I strongly believe that you are and were a great mum to your son and he must have been so grateful to have you as his mother. Stay strong and Keep going!
2015-10-28 6:19 pm
you are a mother because you had a child - simple as that.
My most sincere condolences on your loss.
My most sincere condolences on your loss.
2015-10-28 6:16 pm
Yes, you'll always be his mom just as he'll always be your son. Forever.
Very sorry for your loss.
Very sorry for your loss.
2015-10-28 6:13 pm
YOU ARE STILL A MOTHER!! You gave birth to a son, he might not be here anymore, and im sorry for your loss but you cant undo the fact that you gave birth to him and raised him, so therefor you will always be a mother!!
2015-10-28 6:09 pm
I'm sorry for your loss I can't even imagine what you must be going through. But you will always be a mother once you've given birth. Just because you can't see him anymore doesn't mean he's not still here watching over you. Remember that :) he's still with you
2015-10-28 5:59 pm
you will always be his mother. no matter what happened. So sorry for your loss. With his passing, it doesnt change your status...just now you are a mom of a departed child whom I am sure you loved with all of your heart. Your life changed because of him. You ARE his mother. No situation can take the status away
2015-10-28 5:57 pm
YOU gave birth to him - therefore, you are a mother and will be a mother forever.
2015-10-28 5:37 pm
Very sorry for your loss and yes you are a mother forever
2015-10-28 5:19 pm
Of course you can! My papa passed away in 2003, but I never stopped calling him papa wen referring to him.
2015-10-28 4:42 pm
I'm very sorry for your loss. But you are forever a mother because you experienced bearing a child and raising one. Nothing can take away from you nurturing the child in your womb and giving love for the child for 15 years. You experience motherhood and I feel like once you experienced that you know what it is to be a mother compared to other women who havent had a child.
2015-10-28 4:07 pm
YOU ARE STILL A MOTHER
2015-10-28 3:58 pm
My only child passed away recently and I will always be his dad! The question does arise if I am a single parent or if I have children when asked on a dating site etc. But after losing a child that is the least of concerns.
2015-10-28 3:35 pm
Of course, you will always be a Mama! Never think differently. My heart hurts for you & you'll be in my prayers.
2015-10-28 3:23 pm
Of course you are still a mother. My very deep heartfelt sympathy for your loss
2015-10-28 3:22 pm
My condolences for the pain and loss it is unbearable he may not be alive physically but he will reside in your heart forever.YES you're a mother you could be a proud mom.let The lord serve him the best and heal your pain
JAI SHREE RAM
JAI SHREE RAM
2015-10-28 2:58 pm
You will always be a mum. He knew you as a mum so honour him by honouring yourself. He would never want you any other way.
I can tell you that it is far worse losing children while they are still alive. Your son is at peace, You don t have to worry about losing him to life. He is cradled in bliss wherever he is . Take heart, Mum.
I can tell you that it is far worse losing children while they are still alive. Your son is at peace, You don t have to worry about losing him to life. He is cradled in bliss wherever he is . Take heart, Mum.
2015-10-28 2:45 pm
I am sorry for your loss... You were, you are and you will always be a mom. He may be gone, but you should celebrate his life, not his death... And you being his mom is a big part of his life. No one will or can fault you for that.
2015-10-28 1:48 pm
Yes of course it's okay. You were, are, and always will be his mum.
To quote Mitch Albom, one of my favourite authors, "death ends a life, not a relationship".
To quote Mitch Albom, one of my favourite authors, "death ends a life, not a relationship".
2015-10-28 1:37 pm
You are a mom
2015-10-28 1:27 pm
In all means , you are a mom .... The only question is , Have you been a good Mom to him? Only u can answer that :) n my guess is yes <3 u!
2015-10-28 1:01 pm
You are always a mother of your child. The hardest things we do as parents is to have to bury our children before us. My son was killed 11/12/2006 in Samarra Iraq and everyday I talk about him and keep him alive. Then my step-son died on 5/23/2013 and again I am and always be their mom. We keep them alive by talking about them and sharing memories. We never stop being a mom nor do we ever stop grieving
2015-10-28 12:39 pm
Yeah you are still a mother and sorry to hear about your son that's so sad...????
2015-10-28 11:27 am
:'(
2015-10-28 11:27 am
you will always be amother
2015-10-28 11:08 am
Of course! He's your son and always will be.
I'm sorry for your loss.
I'm sorry for your loss.
2015-10-28 10:08 am
Once we are blessed with children we become mom and we need to hold this place for our children who love us equally. If we or They are not with us today due to any circumstances still we need to continue doing what would have made them as well as us happy. He/she will always love you where he is. May his soul rest in peace.
2015-10-28 9:01 am
Sorry to hear that. You're still his mother.
2015-10-28 8:51 am
of course you are. If your son died , It doesn't mean that your not a mother anymore. 9 months of bringing him inside your womb is the start of your journey as a mother. For sure raising him at the age of 15 is not a joke, it takes full of sacrifices and effort. Once a mother , will always be a mother. keep going.
2015-10-28 7:55 am
Yup
2015-10-28 7:55 am
am sorry to hear that... but u can call urself a mom
2015-10-28 7:15 am
You are always his mom. No one can ever fill that void in your life but you can do a lot of good by working with teens or maybe adopting one. As you know that is such a trying time in a kids life and your hurt can be calmed by giving back that way.
2015-10-28 7:01 am
of course you can!
2015-10-28 6:45 am
you will always remain a mother, not because of what he would think but because you can't go back to who you were before you had a child, you're a mother
2015-10-28 6:32 am
I can hardly understand your pain, still my eyes water just going through what you have written. Your son must have been very blessed to have a great mom like you.
I know, there is nothing anyone can say or do to lessen your sorrow a bit, but whatever you do, don t ever giveaway on being a mother. You r a great one, please keep going.
I know, there is nothing anyone can say or do to lessen your sorrow a bit, but whatever you do, don t ever giveaway on being a mother. You r a great one, please keep going.
2015-10-28 6:22 am
of course your a mom u would always be a mom.
2015-10-28 5:44 am
Yes,you can. Im sorry for your loss,an know that Jesus loves you,your son an family an bring healing,peace,we just ask Jesus in our heart,forgive our sins to be saved, He is Faithful and Just to forgive all sins,amen an Google Beth Moore an Charles Stanley,Christian teachers to encourage you in Jesus an could seek a Christian Bible based Church.May The LORD Jesus Bless,heal,speak to,save you, your family,friends,us all,give peace,Grace each day,in Holy Spirit,Christians to help you your family,by Jesus stripes you,your family,are healed,saved,an all.amen
shalom Israel,family. Have faith in God. Mark 11:22 God is a Refuge for us.Ps 62:8
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shalom Israel,family. Have faith in God. Mark 11:22 God is a Refuge for us.Ps 62:8
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參考: Word of God
2015-10-28 5:25 am
Sorry for your pain and loss.
You are a Mom and always will be.
You are a Mom and always will be.
2015-10-28 3:26 am
I m so sorry for the loss of your son. I can t even begin to imagine what you must be going through. You are, and always will be, his mother and no one and nothing can take that away from you. You gave him life and you raised him. He s your baby. Stay strong. May you find comfort.
2015-10-28 3:12 am
Yeah you will ALWAYS be his mother weather he's on earth or not. He lives in your heart
2015-10-28 3:06 am
I know women who say that they have 4 children and that one of them is in heaven (they had a miscarriage) Youre still a mom no matter where your son is
2015-10-28 3:00 am
Yes, you will always be a mom.
2015-10-28 2:47 am
Of course your still a mother!!! I'm so dearly sorry for your loss.
My grandpas twin brother passed away before I could ever even meet him in a drowning accident. My grandpa still calls himself his brother. Just because somebody's gone doesn't mean they are in your heart.
My grandpas twin brother passed away before I could ever even meet him in a drowning accident. My grandpa still calls himself his brother. Just because somebody's gone doesn't mean they are in your heart.
2015-10-28 2:00 am
You will always be a Mum. Your loss is very tragic and you need to find comfort in knowing that you were his mother for 15 years and continue to be his mother in your heart. Keep as many reminders of him around as you can and celebrate the years you had together.
2015-10-28 1:41 am
I am so sorry to hear this. You will always be his mom and death can not take away that he is your son. May God bless u.
2015-10-28 1:37 am
Im so sorry, god bless you
2015-10-28 1:13 am
You will for always be his mommy and your son he will always be.
2015-10-28 1:12 am
you will always be a mom
2015-10-28 1:05 am
I am so sorry this happened to you.
You are still his Mom.
You gave birth to him which makes you a mother .. and a mom .. and you always will be forever.
You are still his Mom.
You gave birth to him which makes you a mother .. and a mom .. and you always will be forever.
2015-10-27 11:10 pm
Yes you should
2015-10-27 11:02 pm
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain and trgedy of losing any child, much less the only one.
Of course, you are always a mother. You are that identity even when your children grow up or die suddenly or die of old age.
If it comforts you to think of yourself as a mother, you might consider reaching out to other children - who can never take the place of your son, but might comfort you -in that role. Try reading to kids at the library or wlring with kids at a hosptial. they can always use volunteers.
Hang in there, and try to develop some other interests to help you cope with your loss.
Of course, you are always a mother. You are that identity even when your children grow up or die suddenly or die of old age.
If it comforts you to think of yourself as a mother, you might consider reaching out to other children - who can never take the place of your son, but might comfort you -in that role. Try reading to kids at the library or wlring with kids at a hosptial. they can always use volunteers.
Hang in there, and try to develop some other interests to help you cope with your loss.
2015-10-27 10:58 pm
Mom, Can I tell you that he walks along beside you never to leave your side again. A gift only given by loss of the flesh. A pain that you will bare by the strength of his memory. Talk to him as if he were by your side.. Imagine you hear his reply... Imagine you hear... until soon you will hear and he will call you MOM... Until again you feel his embrace...
2015-10-27 10:53 pm
You can, it's doesn't matter what happened you still raised a child no one can take that experience from you
2015-10-27 10:25 pm
Once a mother always a mother. May God send much love and comfort to you and all your family.
2015-10-27 10:09 pm
you can still call yourself a mom because you were once a mom
2015-10-27 9:44 pm
you still can
2015-10-27 9:38 pm
Yes. Once a mother, always a mother. Sorry for your loss; gone too soon.
2015-10-27 9:18 pm
I would say yes you can
2015-10-27 9:04 pm
Your still a mom.
2015-10-27 8:49 pm
Yes you will always be a mother no matter what.
2015-10-27 8:30 pm
sorry for your loss.
2015-10-27 7:44 pm
First Off Im sorry for your loss :( and second YES you will always be a mother no matter if your child is around or not.
2015-10-27 6:45 pm
Sorry for your loss. You were a mother and will always be a mother. Stay STrong
2015-10-27 6:42 pm
My brother died over 20 years ago, after a battle with cancer, but he's still my brother to me and I still miss him, as do my parents. I never tell people that I don't have siblings -- if anyone asks, I always mention him. And if I talk about my childhood, I don't leave him out.
As long as you miss your son, you're his mother. I'm so sorry for your loss, and that mothers and fathers have to lose their precious children to random, stupid things like cancer or car acccidents. It may be the way the world is, but it isn't fair.
As long as you miss your son, you're his mother. I'm so sorry for your loss, and that mothers and fathers have to lose their precious children to random, stupid things like cancer or car acccidents. It may be the way the world is, but it isn't fair.
2015-10-27 6:33 pm
Yes you can I know lot of people that still does
2015-10-27 6:25 pm
You are and will forever be his mother, that never stops, you wouldn't stop being his mother if it was the other way around....I'm so sorry for your loss.
2015-10-27 5:32 pm
First of all I am really sorry for your loss. Yes you can call yourself mother, although gone he is still your son. You can never forget the memories he gave you, the love you showered on him and this all will stay with you till the very end
2015-10-27 5:08 pm
No one lives forever. May LORD VISHNU bless him. You must be strong. You are a MOTHER after all.
2015-10-27 5:04 pm
Yes you can.
2015-10-27 4:16 pm
Everyone above said it beautifully! YOU are a MOM always once you have a child regardless of the circumstances. Honor his birthday and his achivements in his life and when your time comes you will be together again and that is something!
2015-10-27 4:07 pm
Sorry for your loss; You will always be MOM !
2015-10-27 2:32 pm
You will always be a mother, sorry for your loss.
2015-10-27 2:04 pm
First of all, I'm so sorry for your loss, I really hope he rests in peace.
To answer your question, yes. You can still call yourself a mother.
He'll always be your son x
To answer your question, yes. You can still call yourself a mother.
He'll always be your son x
2015-10-27 1:42 pm
you can still call yourself a mom and I hope you will. I am sorry you face this great sorrow.
2015-10-27 1:25 pm
Of course you're still a mother. You're child just isn't with you in bodily form because he's in heaven, but he's still watching over you. He's with you spiritually.
2015-10-27 1:23 pm
Sorry to hear that. Your son lives on in your heart so you are still mum.
2015-10-27 1:05 pm
Yes you are! Don't worry.
2015-10-27 12:51 pm
Yes you're still a mom. I hope you have heard this "once a mom , always a mom".
God bless????
God bless????
2015-10-27 11:57 am
You are still a mother
2015-10-27 11:16 am
Sorry to hear that. But you were, you are and you will be. Cuz he will always live in your heart. Right? Do be too sad and you are truly his dearest mother for sure. I am happy with my family and hope you're soon have another baby to ease your pain. Bless you!
2015-10-27 10:43 am
You will ALWAYS be a Mom... Your son just Passed... As mine did! God Bless...
2015-10-27 10:25 am
My sister died when I was younger. However my mum will always say she has two children, one who lives with us and one who lives far away. She inspired a lot of out family, so we are proud to say she was part of our family. I am so sorry for you loss, there are no words I can say that will make you feel better. However my thoughts are with you.
2015-10-27 9:42 am
you are, and I'm soo sorry for your loss
2015-10-27 9:37 am
Your are and forever will be a mother. Sorry for your loss...
2015-10-27 6:42 am
of course you are.
i'm sorry for your lost.
i'm sorry for your lost.
2015-10-27 5:13 am
Such a tragic thing to happen, you are still a mother though.. Wish I had a mom
2015-10-27 4:28 am
You'll always be your son's MOM...wear the title, proudly, forever !
2015-10-27 3:50 am
You will always be a mom. God bless you and our hearts are with you and that your son is in a place you will meet back up with him one day. We should be grateful for every person and thing we have and also grateful for all the people big and small your son touched in his short time in this world, and all the people he changed will be better and propagate better beings because of crossing paths with him.
2015-10-27 3:34 am
you gave birth you will always be a mom. I am so sorry for your loss. If you haven't had a chance to meet with other parents that have lost a child please do it will help to know you are not alone.
2015-10-27 3:27 am
If he had a good life then your an awsome mom
2015-10-27 3:24 am
Sorry for tour loss :(
2015-10-27 3:23 am
YES, YOU ARE STILL A MOM BECAUSE HE LIVES IN YOUR HEART FOREVER...
2015-10-27 3:19 am
Mommy to an angel.
2015-10-27 2:46 am
I'm sorry for you loss. You will always be a mother.
2015-10-27 1:48 am
Why of course.Your son will always be a big part of your life;after all he came from you.Think about this,my parents have been dead almost ten years.I'm sure you have friends that have lost their parents too.Do they ever stop referring to them as mom and dad when talking about them?Of course not so you don't have to say you're not a mother.The main reason too is found in the Bible.On several occassions Jesus resurrected dead ones back to life including children,showing what he will do in the future for many who have died.Here is just one exampleOn another occasion, Jesus was approached by a man named Jairus, who asked for help for his gravely ill 12-year-old daughter. Shortly thereafter, word came that the girl had died. This news left Jairus heartbroken, but Jesus told him: “Have no fear, only exercise faith.” At the family’s home, Jesus went in to the lifeless girl. Taking her by the hand, he said: “Maiden, I say to you, Get up!” What happened? “Immediately the maiden rose and began walking.” How did her parents react? “They were beside themselves with great ecstasy.” As Jairus and his wife embraced their daughter, they felt deep happiness. It was as if they were dreaming.—Mark 5:22-24, 35-43.
Such detailed Bible accounts about the resurrection of children show grieving parents today what they can look forward to. Jesus said: “The hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out.” (John 5:28, 29) Jehovah God purposes that his Son will give life to those who have died. Countless millions of children lost in death will “hear his voice” when he speaks to them: “I say to you, Get up!” Those young ones will again be walking and talking. And like Jairus and his wife, the parents of those children will be “beside themselves with great ecstasy.”
If you have lost a son or a daughter in death, please know that God can change your sorrow into joy by means of the resurrection. To benefit from this glorious prospect, obey the psalmist’s exhortation: “Search for Jehovah and his strength. Seek his face constantly. Remember his wonderful works that he has performed, his miracles.” (Psalm 105:4, 5) Yes, serve the true God, Jehovah, and worship him acceptably.
What will be the immediate result if you “search for Jehovah”? You will receive strength through prayer to God, you will feel comforted by the loving concern of true Christian companions, and you will be uplifted by studying God’s Word. Moreover, in the near future, you will experience the ‘wonderful works and miracles’ that Jehovah will carry out for your eternal benefit and for that of the son whom you lost in death.
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Such detailed Bible accounts about the resurrection of children show grieving parents today what they can look forward to. Jesus said: “The hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out.” (John 5:28, 29) Jehovah God purposes that his Son will give life to those who have died. Countless millions of children lost in death will “hear his voice” when he speaks to them: “I say to you, Get up!” Those young ones will again be walking and talking. And like Jairus and his wife, the parents of those children will be “beside themselves with great ecstasy.”
If you have lost a son or a daughter in death, please know that God can change your sorrow into joy by means of the resurrection. To benefit from this glorious prospect, obey the psalmist’s exhortation: “Search for Jehovah and his strength. Seek his face constantly. Remember his wonderful works that he has performed, his miracles.” (Psalm 105:4, 5) Yes, serve the true God, Jehovah, and worship him acceptably.
What will be the immediate result if you “search for Jehovah”? You will receive strength through prayer to God, you will feel comforted by the loving concern of true Christian companions, and you will be uplifted by studying God’s Word. Moreover, in the near future, you will experience the ‘wonderful works and miracles’ that Jehovah will carry out for your eternal benefit and for that of the son whom you lost in death.
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參考: jw.org
2015-10-27 1:47 am
That breaks my heart iam sorry. To him you were his mom and just cause he passed your still his mom here or not
2015-10-27 1:06 am
Aww, I'm sorry. You're STILL a mother. A kind, caring one.
2015-10-27 12:39 am
Yes you still are, I'm very sorry for your loss. You're in my prayers.
2015-10-27 12:25 am
Awwww of course you can. You'll always be his mom. I'm sorry for your loss.
2015-10-27 12:09 am
Yes absolutely (MOM)
2015-10-26 10:57 pm
I'm so very sorry. No parent should have to lose their child this way. I think you might be comforted to read how Jesus felt when he saw a funeral procession for a young man who was his mother's only child, at Luke 7:11-15. The accounts says Jesus was deeply moved, and performed the miracle of resurrecting this child back to life, so that his mother could have him again.
The Bible teaches us that God yearns to bring back to life the dead who are preserved in his memory. His Word, the Bible, gives us a wonderful hope, namely, the prospect of living in a paradise on earth and seeing the resurrection of our dead loved ones. Here is an article about this, and I hope you find peace and hope in it:
http://wol.jw.org/en/wol/d/r1/lp-e/2008169#h=1:0-10:73
The Bible teaches us that God yearns to bring back to life the dead who are preserved in his memory. His Word, the Bible, gives us a wonderful hope, namely, the prospect of living in a paradise on earth and seeing the resurrection of our dead loved ones. Here is an article about this, and I hope you find peace and hope in it:
http://wol.jw.org/en/wol/d/r1/lp-e/2008169#h=1:0-10:73
參考: The Bible
2015-10-26 10:44 pm
Yes, mom.
Peace and a manageable level of grief are my wishes for you.
Peace and a manageable level of grief are my wishes for you.
2015-10-26 9:59 pm
No one could ever cancel the fact that you carried your son in your womb for at least seven months, that qualifies you to be a mom as long as you will live. There are many tragic circumstances in our lives, but the loss of a boy to a mom probably is the biggest to endure and requires a lot of courage, so stay strong for you are going to be a mom forever. I think that your son would like to see her mom laugh every now and then, for life has to go on and he knows that.
2015-10-26 9:50 pm
Once a mother, always a mother.
2015-10-26 9:30 pm
Did he stop being your son when he died? The answer is no. So no you did not stop being a mother.
2015-10-26 7:29 pm
You will always be a mom to a beautiful boy who brought a lot of beauty into this world with his life. I do believe in eternity and an after life and he will be there.
2015-10-26 6:56 pm
you will always be a mother. sorry for your loss
2015-10-28 7:21 am
Mother is relation to son or daughter. The moment you lost your son, you became ex-mom.
2015-10-27 10:42 pm
Tom Cruise is 6months/1</0.5 & 15?
2015-10-28 2:49 am
no you cant he died that means you are not a mother, like who's mother are you? no ones you could adopt a child but you might kill him to haha
2015-10-26 4:05 pm
Troll.
2015-10-26 4:35 am
no your not a mom and your son forgot about you so move on!
2015-10-28 9:44 am
I m sorry that these people have to lie to you to make you feel better, but I cannot.
Being a mother is the caregiver of their son or daughter, in the tragedy that the son or daughter dies, you are no longer a mother.
Here s an example, a wife that had a husband that died becomes a widow. That woman is no longer a wife anymore, just like you re no longer a mother.
Sorry for your loss, times heals all wounds.
Being a mother is the caregiver of their son or daughter, in the tragedy that the son or daughter dies, you are no longer a mother.
Here s an example, a wife that had a husband that died becomes a widow. That woman is no longer a wife anymore, just like you re no longer a mother.
Sorry for your loss, times heals all wounds.
2017-01-20 7:51 am
Of course. You are a mom, you gave birth to him, meaning no matter where he is, in body or not, you are still honored as his mother :)
2015-11-09 8:36 am
you are able to refer to yourself like a mother. Of course, one day someone may ask for those who have children. And your answer will be yes, but.... Your tragedy does not pre-empt that you're a mother. You are a mother in our tense. But do not believe that your being a mom ended when his existence ended. Your being a mother now depends on the joys of yesteryear to fill the existing of today. But regardless of what, concerning this, you are the way you feel. And I am certain that you feel like a mother would underneath the circumstances, grieving and lacking your son. He is the son. Not he had been your son. And you're his mother.
2015-11-01 2:07 pm
as long as your sons merories are with you you will be the Mother. You will have same feelings. it dosent matter whether you call yourself mother or not you will feel motherhood for your entirelife.
everyone die and take birth. there is a common supreme soul from where they come and go. Spiritually speaking, there is no death. and physically death happens its certain.
You must be thinking that you should end this chapter. if you keep calling youself a mother, it will remind you of your child which is not here with you. If you think so then do it. It should calm you.
but if this dont work, i mean you are not able to forget, then dont be upset. I will take time.
dont be stucked with that incident. your son will not like to see you like this. look arround yourself.
everyone die and take birth. there is a common supreme soul from where they come and go. Spiritually speaking, there is no death. and physically death happens its certain.
You must be thinking that you should end this chapter. if you keep calling youself a mother, it will remind you of your child which is not here with you. If you think so then do it. It should calm you.
but if this dont work, i mean you are not able to forget, then dont be upset. I will take time.
dont be stucked with that incident. your son will not like to see you like this. look arround yourself.
2015-10-31 6:25 pm
ur always a mom
answer mine
answer mine
2015-10-31 4:40 am
Sorry god bless you have strength
2015-10-31 1:24 am
You will always be a mom. You are a grieving one, sorry to say.
2015-10-30 5:31 am
When you gave birth to him he became a part of flesh and soul. He will forever be in your heart and no matter where he is you will always be a mother to him. Don't ever forget that. I lost my daughter 5 years ago due to late miscarriage. I always consider myself a father even after her death even though she is in a better place. Stay strong and always live for his memories. Have a good night hun.
2015-10-30 12:24 am
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2015-10-29 1:57 am
yes you are still a mother. sorry for your loss
2015-10-28 12:11 pm
You will be a mother until the day you die - pregnancy made permanent changes to you that cannot be undone. Your sorrow and your loss do not undo the past, and your son lives on in you as long as you remember him.
2015-10-27 8:20 pm
You will always be a mom. May your son rest in peace.
2015-10-30 7:31 am
you really sound like a TROLL. no REAL mother would EVER ask this question.
2015-10-29 11:39 pm
Iam sorry to hear that.
Well you were his physical parent in the earth. But in heaven he has his father and only one .hes ur father too.
Well you were his physical parent in the earth. But in heaven he has his father and only one .hes ur father too.
2015-10-29 5:41 pm
It is a strong love towards passed away , but the illusion that " is " will become " was " with time.. Time is the strongest healer for all miseries .
2015-10-29 3:44 am
**** no become a whore and maybe you will be with your old ugly ***
2015-10-29 12:35 am
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2015-10-28 6:31 pm
i can make you feel good or you can look at the fact that right now ur not a mum. u used to be one though.
2015-10-28 5:44 pm
youre a moron mormom
2015-10-28 1:28 pm
Can I call you mommy
2015-10-28 9:45 am
You'll be whatever is said and believed. Be worthy.
2015-10-28 8:12 am
Really??????????? Your asking this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2015-10-28 7:20 am
Hey, it's always fair to think that everybody is both good and bad.
2015-10-28 6:51 am
To find an answer just please swap your current position with him for a moment. Now can he say that you are his mother or not ?!
2015-10-27 4:16 am
Ci would say yes since he is your future feneration
2015-10-30 3:01 pm
This really is so sad. I'm sorry that the son passed away Indeed, you are still the mother. And yes, you are able to refer to yourself like a mother. Of course, one day someone may ask for those who have children. And your answer will be yes, but.... Your tragedy does not pre-empt that you're a mother. You are a mother in our tense. But do not believe that your being a mom ended when his existence ended. Your being a mother now depends on the joys of yesteryear to fill the existing of today. But regardless of what, concerning this, you are the way you feel. And I am certain that you feel like a mother would underneath the circumstances, grieving and lacking your son. He is the son. Not he had been your son. And you're his mother.
2015-10-28 4:45 pm
No, your child is no longer living. If the government asks you how many children do you have what is your response?? That's your answer
2015-10-28 11:39 am
I also lost a child when I was seventeen but I didn't have the pleasure of giving birth to him. I'm not going to go into detail, but it's been 17 years and it's still really hard to think about. I consider myself to be a mother even though my child was never able to draw his first breath outside my womb.
2015-10-28 10:46 am
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2015-10-27 5:46 pm
I not trying to be mean but just telling you what everyone else is going to say of course u can u still love him don't u have u ever heard of the terms be realistic and to be honest u outta be ashamed for asking
2015-10-27 3:37 pm
This question was so depressing and sad.
2015-10-27 9:53 am
You can call yourself whatever you want to !!!!
2015-10-27 4:52 am
You are a "former mother". I am sorry for your loss. You are also a mother if you have pets, having pets makes you their mother and protector.
2015-10-27 7:49 pm
I would say you have been a mother rather than you are a mother in my opinion.
Because you were a mother but now he is no longer with you, your not really a mother because you aren't caring for a child that belongs to you.
Because you were a mother but now he is no longer with you, your not really a mother because you aren't caring for a child that belongs to you.
2015-10-26 5:38 am
lol
2015-10-27 3:57 am
Dear Mommy,
I have one Mom! Only one! And the BEST mom ever! Nobody can ever take you away from me. I will not give up on you! and I know you will not give up on me.
I may no longer be there in body. And I am so sorry that you are going through so much pain.. no parent should outlive their child. I will be here looking out for you just as you have looked out for me. There are privates, captains, Majors, Generals and presidents in this world . But you have earned the highest rank possible.
So wear your rank with pride! The rank of MOM!
I miss you too
Your loving son.
I have one Mom! Only one! And the BEST mom ever! Nobody can ever take you away from me. I will not give up on you! and I know you will not give up on me.
I may no longer be there in body. And I am so sorry that you are going through so much pain.. no parent should outlive their child. I will be here looking out for you just as you have looked out for me. There are privates, captains, Majors, Generals and presidents in this world . But you have earned the highest rank possible.
So wear your rank with pride! The rank of MOM!
I miss you too
Your loving son.
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