why do parents tend to avoid talking to kids about sensitive topics instead of mentally preparing them?
2015-10-16 3:43 pm
I understand that parents don t want their kids to be exposed to sensitive or adult topics so that they can t be negatively affected by them. I believe, however, that since most of them will be exposed to such topics on their own in the future, or even at a young age, they should be mentally prepared by their parents. If a kid is going to hear about topics such as violence or sexuality from their friends, for example, they need to be mentally prepared so that this kind of discussion doesn t negatively affect them without the parent s supervision, and so I think that parents should just prepare them so that they can be more mature when they do hear about these sensitive knowledge and don t make bad decisions based off of lack of knowledge or wisdom.
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2015-10-17 12:44 am
Depends on the situation. Some things you need to bring up earlier, others can wait.
I'm quite open with them, and they know if they hear about something they find curious or disturbing they can (and have) come to me.
I'm quite open with them, and they know if they hear about something they find curious or disturbing they can (and have) come to me.
2015-10-16 5:52 pm
I don't know why parents do this either. I am a parent and I am very open and honest about any questions they may have, regardless of the topic.
I grew up in a family where everything was taboo to talk about. Sex, violence, death, even finances. Everything I learned, I learned from friends or tv (no easily accessible info like the internet 20 yrs ago). So I vowed that I would always have an open relationship with my kids and I stand true to it.
My kids knew where babies come from because I have 5 kids so they've all seen me preggers and asked...so we told them. They also know what breastfeeding is and private parts...maybe i'm a little too liberal sometimes but I think it's better to inform them of the truth instead of hearsay from their friends or the internet.
I grew up in a family where everything was taboo to talk about. Sex, violence, death, even finances. Everything I learned, I learned from friends or tv (no easily accessible info like the internet 20 yrs ago). So I vowed that I would always have an open relationship with my kids and I stand true to it.
My kids knew where babies come from because I have 5 kids so they've all seen me preggers and asked...so we told them. They also know what breastfeeding is and private parts...maybe i'm a little too liberal sometimes but I think it's better to inform them of the truth instead of hearsay from their friends or the internet.
2015-10-19 4:20 am
Because for kids it can be to much on their shoulders.
as they get older they can build more information and learn the truth but at certain ages certain topics can really be bad
as they get older they can build more information and learn the truth but at certain ages certain topics can really be bad
2015-10-17 3:31 am
Bad upbringing.
Once a child approaches teen years it's time to talk to them face to face. They are basically miniature adults by the time they reach teen years; they should be able to understand and comprehend.
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Once a child approaches teen years it's time to talk to them face to face. They are basically miniature adults by the time they reach teen years; they should be able to understand and comprehend.
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