Am i asexual?
2015-10-12 8:20 am
The idea of sex upsets me, it seems so cheap and shallow in society. People seem to care about peoples looks more than anything else. It makes me feel like nothing, and im not unattractive people have called me pretty. i don't like that some relationships our based on sex and that sex is done out of lust and not love, i makes me sad and i think its degrading. Im 19 and a girl, also a virgin.People talk about it alot but i don't see the fuss, it actually makes me feel uncomfortable. Why do i feel like this??
回答 (4)
2015-10-12 9:04 am
You feel like this because you're you.
These days i've noticed there is some huge competition to lose virginity and have as much sex as possible, which i find quite odd. While our basic function as humans IS sex, i don't think 14 year-olds ought to be having sex. They aren't even emotionally prepared for it - no way. Its ridiculous.
It's always a good idea to wait until we are in an emotionally close relationship with someone, and then sex is spontaneous. And with someone we actually know and care about, not some random person we pick out just for the sake of having sex.
As far as mature adults go, most of us are married and/or have been married before, in long-term relationships involving sex. Personally, think casual, on-going friend sex for these people is generally ok. These individuals have had sexual relationships for a good part of their lives, and would like to continue having one with another mature human being, IF they meet the right person.
I like sex. I've been having sex for 40+ years. When we have sex with someone who we are close with and with whom we share sexual chemistry, then it's great.
These days i've noticed there is some huge competition to lose virginity and have as much sex as possible, which i find quite odd. While our basic function as humans IS sex, i don't think 14 year-olds ought to be having sex. They aren't even emotionally prepared for it - no way. Its ridiculous.
It's always a good idea to wait until we are in an emotionally close relationship with someone, and then sex is spontaneous. And with someone we actually know and care about, not some random person we pick out just for the sake of having sex.
As far as mature adults go, most of us are married and/or have been married before, in long-term relationships involving sex. Personally, think casual, on-going friend sex for these people is generally ok. These individuals have had sexual relationships for a good part of their lives, and would like to continue having one with another mature human being, IF they meet the right person.
I like sex. I've been having sex for 40+ years. When we have sex with someone who we are close with and with whom we share sexual chemistry, then it's great.
2015-10-12 8:31 am
You might be asexual or just disinterested in sex as how it's usually depicted.
2015-10-12 8:29 am
Because it's normal. Stop thinking about it so much. Stop thinking like you some damn messiah by recognising sex is just something that was originally done to reproduce.
Damn girl since when was love a thing anyway? Sex can be done with anyone or anything. If you don't like that idea then think it's something else.
Stop being so uptight. If you don't want to do it then fine, no one cares.
Also stop labelling yourself. Geez.
If you think love doesn't exist then why do you think asexual does? We didn't evolve so that some of us don't want to reproduce.
Get over yourself mate.
Damn girl since when was love a thing anyway? Sex can be done with anyone or anything. If you don't like that idea then think it's something else.
Stop being so uptight. If you don't want to do it then fine, no one cares.
Also stop labelling yourself. Geez.
If you think love doesn't exist then why do you think asexual does? We didn't evolve so that some of us don't want to reproduce.
Get over yourself mate.
2015-10-12 8:22 am
Don't worry, I have a sister who's asexual and thinks like this. Although I am not asexual, it's definitely a thing!
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