仔女的前途命運, 父母能安排好嗎?
每到小一定中一派位, 眼見好多家長為仔女入名校想盡方法, 講真, 好多人想自己個仔女完成自己完成唔到既夢想, 我心想, 仔女的前途命運, 父母能安排好嗎?
回答 (16)
做父母的都想子女好,我們只可以幫助,但控制不了他們的命運。
Of course, yes.
The DNA and socioeconomic environment of parents, which decide mostly about the future of their children.
Some rich people's children need to apply and receive public assistance, study in public school, know some friends from the public playground in Shek Kei Mei or Aberdeen?
The early childhood, it is sure.
In the childhood, the peer and the schooling, it is sure again.
During the rebellion period, their friends will do some crazy things, but these things cannot afford by the poor, for an example, one girl leaves her home from Canada and back HK for new independent life.
In the adulthood, the problem of making career and buying homes, it is no difficulty to settle if your parents have money. You can earn 20 million dollars annually without doing the real thing.
The old age when the children become old guy, their medical and welfare will not deteriorate if they have enough money.
Other things that the insurance does not guarantee are exceptional.
可以幫忙他有好的前途, 小時間有好的教育, 明白多些知識, 對他之後選擇會好些.
這是不能的,因為不同的仔女也有不同興趣的。很多時父母為了自己的心態來幫自己仔女選擇科目及工作,而不管仔女心態。
好像仔女想讀及/或做有關的科目與工作,但父母拒絕,因為他們說很多不同東西。
所以仔女的前途命運是不能父母安排好的。
仔女的前途命運~~在於是富二代或官二代==
這已是命運使然~~還可安排些甚麼.......?
每個父母都希望子女好,可惜父母也掌握不到子女的前途
當然不能,每個人的命運都不同,是個體的,思想都是獨立的,父母怎能安排到子女前途命運呢,人長大了就有自己思想一套,有自己的路走,父母根本控制不到亦掌握不到子女的將來!
以往自己也不斷為將來籌謀劃策,可結果物資不斷上漲,根本不是自己想象中的那樣,心中感覺疲憊不堪,後一切順其自然,在對待兒女的學業一切也要看他對待學習的態度,逼住他讀恐怕只能起反果效,根本無法掌握住。
有錢就可以,高官個個送仔女放洋,因有無限津貼,你有冇吖﹖
我家附近的學校也是這樣啊,每到上幼稚園或者升小一,因為學校知名度比較高,好多家長在報名的前一晚就已經通宵排隊了。
我看到都覺得很辛苦。
其實何必這樣呢,每個人有什麼樣的天賦,人的一生到底會有什麼樣的成就,都不是人自己可以說的算。
收錄日期: 2021-04-18 00:22:04
原文連結 [永久失效]:
https://hk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20151007040035AAIZeva
檢視 Wayback Machine 備份