Girlfriend now says she wants to wait until marriage for sex? Said we would talk about it tommorow which is today?

2015-09-25 4:58 pm
Long story short me and this girl really like eachother. We were about to have sex and almost got caught in the car as i was trying to put it in and felt like we should stop because its uncomfortable and hot and didnt want to get caught. We are both virgins and talk about sex all the time. We were really passionate in the car making out after and telling how much we like eachother. Then the next day she said she couldnt sleep all night and i asked her why and she said because she couldnt stop thinking about how much she liked me. And i said i like you too but its that shouldnt keep you from sleeping. Then i found out it was because we almost had sex and that she feels guilty because she made a promise to her mom that she would wait until marriage. Shes told me before that she used to want to wait but now doesnt because of me. But once we actually almost try it at the worst place in a car, she thinks shes made up her mind and doesnt actually want to do it anymore after all. I told her that thats not what she really wants and that she letting what her mom think of her control what she actually wants. I mean were both virgins and really like eachother and would talk about sex all the time, we even had cam sex on facetime.. Shes the only girl i want but thinking about waiting til marriage to have sex is crazy especially after we almost did it and she passionately said she wants to have sex with me so bad. Please help me, we both had an argument and cried on facetime
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Me and her would text eachother everyday good morning too. And i idk this is the first time i havnt heard from her since our argument yesterday on facetime, Im just giving her space, I really like this girl and dunno if i should wait for her to contact me when shes ready? Shes supposed to be going to a football game with her girlfriends tonight so should i just for her to talk to me? This is the first day we havnt really talk or even send goodmorning texts :\

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I really was falling in love with her. I let her know countless times shes the only one i want and if i really like a person i want to have sex with them. And it was going so well until she dropped this bomb and now. Its like she doesnt even know what she wants. I know you guys would say just go find another girl but its hard to just give up like that. Please help

回答 (2)

2015-09-25 5:25 pm
If she doesn't want to do it, you have to listen to her. People who are raised by strict (probably) religious parents often have this problem. It's very hard for them to get past the guilt of disobeying God or whatever. Some people even continue to have issues after they are married. The worst thing you can do is pressure her further. Back off, and give her some time. It's possible that she will do it before marriage, but you need to let her get to that decision on her own without you arguing about it.
2015-09-25 5:15 pm
Respect her decision and dont try to talk her out of it. A relationship is worth more than sex

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