Seems like you are playing it slow. This kind of behaviour gets you in the friendozne. She needs to see you as anything more than "her little brother/bff" and be aware of your intentions. It is kind of like you want to win the game but you are standing outside of the field. Show your intentions and see how things play out.
P.S. it is always better if you take a step in person - not by texting/calling. This way you can see her unintended reactions and make better conslusions
P.S.2 if you really want to step up your game you should check this out:
http://theobsessionformulareviews.com