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sorry about the dinner plate comment let me clear it up he said that I took it from him and yelled at him about taking care of it. His older brother usually races me to clean up after dinner lol
Step son jealous of Me and My daughter?
2015-09-23 7:29 am
So My husband and I have been together for 5 years and all of these 5 years his kids have been very jealous of my daughter and I. He is 14 and has Autism NO matter what I do to make him feel wanted at our house he always says he doesn't feel wanted because we get "special" treatment that he doesn't get. Needless to say that is NOT true. I go out of my way for this kid and he is constantly talking about how he practically wants my 5 year old and I completely out of the picture while he is around he wants nothing but ALONE time with his father. Well like I told my husband it's not happening We don't need to leave our home because he wants ALONE time with his father. I have tried everything and I am to the point where I don't know what else to do I need some advice here. He also has lied about a lot of things one being, that I supposedly grabbed a plate from him after dinner and yelled at him about it. His older brother even said that was NOT true. what should I do here? Any advice will help greatly thank you.
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2015-09-23 7:48 am
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Well you can stay or go. Either way it's going to be hard. Staying and dealing with the son. Even though he has his issues going is going to be hard. Being that he lies, and wants alone time with his father. Who in their right mind would leave their home for that? His father should tell him to get with the program. Or else stand in the corner or something. It makes no sense it comes down to the son is trying to control the whole situation. Than you will feel sorry or bad. Cause you have tried everything to make him feel love/wanted within the home. Stop trying so hard when you see your effort isn't amounting to anything. Leaving well i'm sure you love your hubby and that's not a option. What I would do? I would go sit my hubby down and his son. And we will have to come up with a plan of action and fast. If we couldn't come up with something. I would get my kids and leave we're getting a divorce. It's no way i'm staying anywhere. Where a kid is lying on me and don't like me nor my child.
2015-09-23 11:33 pm
You should be in family counseling with a therapist who has experience with both blended families and autism. This is a complex situation. Many kids are deeply resentful of new spouses and step-siblings. A new wife means that his "real" family can't be put back together. Autism suggests that he doesn't have the tools to make connections with you and your daughter or to deal with the breakup of his parents. He needs help and you need guidance.
2015-09-23 4:34 pm
Just live as a good example. Kids often have emotional issues because of their biological parents divorces, and hang on to them for dear life. The child probably doesnt even know why he resents you - but he does.
2015-09-23 10:22 am
You and your husband firm love and trust are very important to handle kids in proper way.
Step son usualy hate step mom bc he feel his biological mom leave due to step mom regardless of real situation.
Therefore, every kind of your effort will not work. Also they try to trick to make you worse with your husband so that you change mind to leave.
Therefore, stop be his mom, just let him and wait untill you become his friend.
Then soon chance will come to help him. He may need your help to something.
Step son usualy hate step mom bc he feel his biological mom leave due to step mom regardless of real situation.
Therefore, every kind of your effort will not work. Also they try to trick to make you worse with your husband so that you change mind to leave.
Therefore, stop be his mom, just let him and wait untill you become his friend.
Then soon chance will come to help him. He may need your help to something.
2015-09-23 9:21 pm
i think your husband should spend some time alone with him so he dont feel that way
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