Wife has lost her sex drive, what do I do?

It is time to her horomone change.
My wife was same experienced.
But, proper diet and exercise will help her get back sexual pleasure.

Most severe problem is her vagina has difficult to get wet for smooth sex. More foreplay is needed to make her get wet in vagina. If required, she can use some kind of lubricant to make smooth.

But, most woman vagina will recover her function.

One .Old woman confirms that she can sex with smooth after her 80 years old.

You didn't see that coming when you two got together? One of the issues with large age gaps in relationships.

Ask your wife to speak to her doctor. Things may be able to be improved. Some women in their 50s and 60s still have very active sex lives, but many do experience a lessening of libido during menopause. Consider sex is biologically for procreation, so when females can no longer reproduce, Nature doesn't see any reason for them to desire sex anymore. There are ways around that, but from that perspective (of us being human animals) there's no point in sex if procreation cannot occur.

Thanks to medical science there are things that can be done for men and women who are feeling lack of libido, lack of ability to sexually perform, lack of proper function in "that area". Hope she can get her groove back and you two are in a better sexual place soon.

FYI, divorce before you cheat, because going off and screwing someone else will just end your marriage anyway. You might as well just be the divorced guy, and not the selfish cheating scumbag divorced guy.

There is a new medication on the market that treats women's hyposexuality ( that's a clinical way of saying it'll make her horny ." Additionally , small doses of testosterone have been used to boost women's libido for decades , it'll slim her down a bit too .

If she is unwilling to seek treatment , then some side action is the only remaining option .

http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/news/20030626/testosterone-increases-libido-in-women

Help her find it. Honestly she needs to see her doctor. I actually want sex more after menopause....lol

As a woman, I've had similar issues. A lot of people are talking about that new drug for females, but I wouldn't touch it with a 10 foot pole.

For a long time, I kept seeing articles about foods to help with various libido issues. Most of the information out there is very superficial, but there is a woman named Abigail Foster who is at the forefront of modern research, and helped a lot of people. We used her Big Libido Cookbook. We went from 1 time per month to about 5 times per month, and my husband couldn't be happier.

I can relate to your situation. My wife and I are the same age but she had the same problem as yours when menopause hit. I understand that it happens through no fault of hers so I don't blame her and I don't complain which would make her feel guilty. You have other methods for relieving the stress so looking outside of your marriage is a risky idea that could result in you feeling guilty. Be ready to face some serious consequences if you decide to look elsewhere for pleasure.

Find a mistress. That's what I did. Finding a mistress is the only thing that saved my marriage. My wife is happy she doesn't have to have sex anymore. I'm happy I have sex with a younger woman. My mistress is happy because I help take of her. Everyone is happy.

I am a woman in her 50's who is also married to a much younger man. I too have experienced a lessening of "automatic" sex drive (meaning just feeling horny a lot for no apparent reason). However, after an initial slide (no pun intended) down on our sexual interactions, I/we looked at things in a different way.
Think about it - really regardless of age, after being married and with the same partner for some time it is necessary to approach sex a bit differently anyway. It takes more creativity.
I was a little taken aback by my seemingly sudden lack of interest, as I am sure was my husband. It took me a little time to step back and think about it. Key here - my husband gave me that time to figure things out without complaining. What it came down to for me is that I need to consider his needs as well as mine and compromise. So I decided to take the 'fake it till you make it' approach. I decided to have sex on a regular basis whether or not I am in the mood. I would always enjoy it in the end. (check your whining at the door to achieve this, ladies). And to my surprise and delight, this method has restored my sex drive to near pre-menopausal levels. Go figure.
Now - I am in good health and I do not take any medications, hormonal or otherwise so that may make a difference.
I would say talk to your wife about how you feel (check your whining at the door too), and really listen to how she feels. Sex in reality can't always be romance and weak knees. Sometimes you just have to do it to get things going. If she is not in good health work on that first. Support her. Love her. Compliment her. Help her with things. These are the real foreplay. The real turn off for women of any age? Begging, whining, complaining, threatening...etc. And of course cheating. Please have enough respect and courtesy for yourself and for your wife to leave her before you would take that kind of action. Hopefully you two can communicate in a better way and figure this out instead.
I hope this helps a little. :)

Tell her. See what she's open to considering.

Would she be willing to try something kinky. Light bondage, light whipping, sensory deprivation? She should also talk to a doctor, she can take meds and hormones to balance her body out during menopause...

OH FOR GOD'S SAKE, ME, ME, ME! JUST MASTUBATE, OR DO HER A FAVOUR AND LEAVE.

What did you think would happen when you married someone so much older than you? This is what you signed up for dude. She's going to get to all those old age milestones much sooner than you.

i hate these comments. no stop pressuring her!! she doesnt want to any more so get lost

do you try different positions? missionary gets boring yo. spice it up. get her drunk or something. talk with her about the situation. your question is paradoxical. if you love her you wouldn't cheat. that is a slippery slope. if you can resolve the situation by changing the way you go about sex with her then do so. cheating is never OK.

She should be at the peak of her sex drive in her 30s. So, something is going on to block that. Are you romancing her or just demanding sex? Is she healthy? Sit down and talk about this, preferably at a romantic spot after a nice dinner in a restaurant. You don't say if you have kids. If you do, maybe she's just exhausted every evening. Does she work outside the home? If she does, then the answer is to hire help or help her around the house more yourself so that she has energy again. That will boost her sex drive (that and flowers, perfume, jewelry, or a simple card with a love note). Run her a bubble bath. You get the idea. If she's overworked and under romanced, that is what causes a lack of sex drive in a woman.

going through it now having the same issues we are both mid 50's if you get some good advice please share

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I'm 40 the wife 45 been together almost 18yrs married 16yrs no sex for over 3.5 yrs be glad you get it monthly even if it is with a dead fish do not cheat. Cheating will only prove you have no respect for your wife and also no moral fiber. Get a toy use your hand the flesh lights and pocket vaginas are very realistic and feel incredible.

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