I feel like my mom doesn't love me?

2015-09-08 9:37 am
My mother has always been very loving and a wonderful parent, happily married to my father, who is also a very loving parent. However, I feel like she favors both my older sister and my twin over me. In the past month, her body language and manner of speaking to me have changed just enough to indicate that something is different. She doesn't act like this towards either of my sisters. What does this mean? Is it normal for this to happen? I can't think of anything I would have done to change her love for me.

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2015-09-08 9:52 am
Yes, sadly it is when you reach a certain age. It's a bit odd that you have a twin whom you believe to be treated more favourably than you, but parents do look at their children as individuals, and when they perceive that they are maturing, they tend to expect different behaviour from them. So they turn off the sort of childish affection they have shown you previously, expecting that you will respond by behaving in a more adult fashion. Sometimes they get their timing wrong, and the child doesn't want to give up its cuddles, or isn't ready to let go of childhood and to start to grow up yet. But think of it like a mother cat with her kittens. She is the most devoted of mothers and will cosset and care for her kittens as if there is nothing else in the world for her. And then one sad day (for the kittens), when they come to her to play fight or to snuggle, she will bat them away. And that's because she knows it is time they prepared for life in the world as grown up cats. But that doesn't mean she doesn't love them and want the best for them. It's the same with you.
2015-09-08 9:47 am
they probably listen to her more often or argue with her less. just try to go 48 hours where you do everything she says the second she asks you to. Trust me, she'll love you the most after that. Also, don't be around her too much. Let her miss you a bit
2015-09-08 9:38 am
It's true of re dnec

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