How do you stop being friends with someone while still being nice?

2015-09-01 3:45 pm
更新1:

We're having problems with our friend. She always feels like a third wheel with us because we have a lot in common and we spend more time together. As a result, she'll pit us against each other and try to make us feel left out in group settings. She always makes us feel really left out and all of our friend problems have stemmed from something she's done. We're hoping to distance ourselves from her this school year, but she has a way of making us do exactly what she wants.

回答 (4)

2015-09-01 4:10 pm
What do you mean "she has a way of making us do exactly what she wants"? First, she doesn't MAKE you. Second, what, exactly, is going on that you describe that way?

Why do you let her manipulate you? why does your other friend let her manipulate her?

Why not hang out together and with other real friends?

You can be pleasant, without spending all your time with her.
2015-09-01 3:49 pm
Old friends never die, they just fade away...
2015-09-01 3:46 pm
Start making less effort to see them. Become involved with other things.
If questioned, just be honest that you no longer wish to be friends, but you wish them the best.
2015-09-01 3:46 pm
avoid them, block them and forget they every existed.

收錄日期: 2021-04-21 13:53:46
原文連結 [永久失效]:
https://hk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20150901074526AAT2qtW

檢視 Wayback Machine 備份