I think my girlfriend felt my penis getting hard? I'm very embarrassed? Help?

LOL she's your girlfriend... She would have taken it as a compliment, she would have probably liked it and would have been more worried if it didn't happen as you wouldn't have seemed as attracted to her. You must be really young to be worrying about this right? Seriously, theres no need to worry, she obviously didn't care or find you perverted

Dude, if she's been texting you and was polite enough to ignore it completely, she was probably a little flattered and maybe even turned on, making her embarrassed as well. If she sits on your lap already, I'd say you two are close enough to talk about these things and get turned on by each other. I assume that you two haven't slept together and you seem a little too mature and responsible to be in high school, so when both of you are ready, talk about it. If you're a teenager with a guilty conscience, though, just pretend it didn't happen and don't sleep with her, even if she's turned on.

You're boyfriend and girlfriend, it's not something to be embarrassed about. However now that I think about it, you sound like a 13 year old.

So you got a hardon while YOUR girlfriend was sitting on your lap. It's cute and i think honestly she knew you were embarrassed, it happens, though think the worst that's gonna happen, you'll get teased when you two are more comfortable with either other

There's no need to be embarrassed. Firstly it's normal for that to happen you did nothing wrong or bad and you certainly aren't a pervert. Secondly if she is texting you and ignoring that it happened it clearly didn't bother her and she might of even been turned on by it. I'm a girl and I know I would. It's flattering in a way. I really wouldn't let it bother you and if it is bothering you that much go and talk to her about it she might tell you she liked it you never know. Whatever you do don't continue to ignore her because that would probably be the worst thing to do and she might start to get mixed ideas. As I said just talk to her about it I'm sure she will understand. Good luck.

You are being too hard on yourself. A strong woman won't think that - but you may want to avoid having her sit in your lap. (It's good to hear a question from a person with a conscience.)

I hope that your girlfriend is a strong woman. May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money). A strong person isn't overly concerned with what weak people say, do, or think.

My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), break up with this girl in a kind way she’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of girl (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of woman is difficult to find - but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

Hope this helps!

I would be more likely to break up with someone if he stopped responding to me as opposed to having a hard on.
It turns me on to know he's got an erection. And the fact that I contributed to it. I don't really mention it as that's not my personality, but I do like it.

As someone else stated, you're being too hard on yourself.

But really, if you're open to the possibility of having a sexual relationship, just roll with it. She probably thought it was hot. I would confidently text her back. Don't bring up said erection, but don't worry about the fact that it happened. Hell, I would even tell her that you liked when she sat on your lap. This type of thing does not bother girls. A few years back in my dorm I remember talking to some girls about dancing in the club. They said they thought it was funny when a guy they were grinding on got hard on. Girls know that sitting on our laps or grinding on us will cause certain things to happen, so seriously, don't worry about it.

I think u should text her I mean every guy get hard when a girl sit on his lap. But nothi b g yo worry if you guys are in a relationship. Shé know you didn't mean to do that and she might of want to let you n know that u that she is ready to take the relationship to next level. So just text her okay. If you didn't text back then she might think you don't like her in a sexual way so just text her and good luck.

A Pervert is someone who gets sexual pleasure in a strange way. Nothing strange happened here .Your GF sat on your lap .Her soft curved and warm butt was right on top of your penis which is a very sensitive organ . She would have really enjoyed the hardness againsst her butt and may have pressed harder against the dick . If she has thought you are a pervert she want text you . There is nothing for you to get embarrassed .Just text back saying that you had a wonderful feeling when she was seated on your lap . If she got sexually exirted at that moment she will reply saying I too had a wonderful feeling . This is a good start to get involved romntically and enjoy life .