why does everyone in my family hate me or not happy with anything i do?

2015-08-03 9:01 pm
OK im 19 years old and basically since my youngest brother was born he's now 11 i have been felt left out or not worthy enough.when i was growing up i was centre of my parents of attention and was happy when my second brother was born now 16 but when my youngest brother was born that when i started to feel left out but the worst didn't start there, roughly when i started high school (07) i had felt i had lost my friends from primary school and started looking for new ones met a few people who were nice but a bit shy and i find that any friends i make my mum disapproves but i don't know why there not badly behaved there not rude and not violent, there both really nice people but my mum is not happy with them or me.also living in my family is hell 4 arguments and shouting guaranteed a week my littlest brother is now dangerously stupid (said by a few), spoiled and gets everything his own way, he is greedy and fat for his age 9( just less than my weight ) my mum refuses to accept it. he is also a bully probably gets it from my mum accused his whole class of bullying him ( i have met most of his class again really nice kids) , then at home he constantly accuses me and my other brother of hitting and punching him and saying curse words and telling our mum which then leads to the same lecture not to punch him although we never layed a finger on him (well until the other day when i finally had enough and actually punched him)
will continue at latter date out of word limit
更新1:

a wee bit clearer 1/ i get the blame for everything eg i will get blamed for punching little brother although there was no actual contact 2/ my parents always fall my youngest brothers fake cry (same one as above) 3/my parents don't trust me or my friends 4/ my parents are never happy with ANYTHING i do 5/ my parents are constantly stealing from me mainly MONEY (not for dig money i buy all the stuff i need) 6/ i have done loads of good things to please my parents but they don't appreciate it

回答 (2)

2015-08-03 10:29 pm
maybe they dont hate you and you just think they do
2015-08-03 9:28 pm
OK

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