Im 20 years old and i have constant heath anxiety. Help :(?

2015-07-12 2:12 pm
I constantly think something might be wrong with me, with no just reason or having any symptoms of anything, etc. I had a small lymph node in my neck & until the doctor told me it was no big deal, i thought i had lymphoma. And then i thought i had some mouth cancer, went to the dentist & im perfectly fine. Now im concerned that i have breast cancer and ovarian cancer. I dont have symptoms, lumps, etc. But i still havent gone to the doctor for that stuff this year yet, so im getting freaked out about that now. Please help :(

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2015-07-14 1:20 am
Tell a dr. about all this. There are good meds for anxiety.
2015-07-12 6:12 pm
I've had cancer twice. The only time I think of it is on this board.
2015-07-12 3:31 pm
Hello,

Well, I am surprised if you have no normal worries. What about worrying about your boyfriend or girlfriend, your financial situation, the acne spots on your face, your hair-cuts, - something more appropriate to your enviable age.

It must be nice if you have so few "normal" things to worry about, that you can spare so much time on this desperately unlikely stuff.

It's usually doctors in training who get this, - when we first learn about the really rare stuff, we imagine we have it. But in fact, the mortality rate amongst junior doctors is so low that we get sought out by Insurance industry, wanting to insure our lives!

I think once a doctor graduates, and gets actual experience of how very common, minor illnesses are, - then a minor illness always comes first to mind when a patient presents with some complaint.

When I was in practice as a family doctor, I don't think I saw one new case of lymphoma or mouth cancer. Breast cancer is not so rare, I suppose, I did see that.

I don't quite know what would work for you. When I was younger, I was anxious so took up parachuting and skydiving, and ended up doing 300 parachute jumps altogether. When you're doing that, you only worry about whether your parachute is going to open properly, - everything else seems pretty trivial!

There are other hobbies that offer more of this appearance of danger, - perhaps one of those would concentrate your mind, if skydiving does not appeal. Mountaineering or motorcycle riding, or sub-acqua diving, perhaps.

Another good trick is to get acquainted with the modern concept of a "micromort," - that is a risk of dying of exactly one in one million. This is useful for putting risk into perspective. Skydiving carries a risk of 8 micromorts, - the risk of dying is about 8 per million.

Driving a car for 8 hours a day, actually carries twice that risk, - 16 micromorts. This is quite a good article, and has some intersting tables, (click and return), https://utahavalanchecenter.org/blog-what-risk-riding-avalanche-terrain

Or you can search on <micromort> for other enlightening and interesting figures. Riding a motorcycle for one hour a day, - 60 micromorts.

So on the one hand, I'm suggesting you worry about ordinary things more, and also get something 'dangerous' to challenge yourself with. So as to have some good stories to tell your grand-children.

On the other hand, if you want to read up on medical matters, start more at the "common illness" end of the spectrum; and you could use "micromort" tables to find out what really *is* risky in this world.

Hope this helps.

Best wishes,

Belliger
retired uk GP
2016-04-06 10:05 am
It might not be pregnancy, as you are still young, periods are still irregular, I've had periods for over 3 years and they still aren't that regular... I've sometimes had those same fears, although I've never had a pregnancy test. Trying to explain this, I'm going to believe you when you say you've never had sex... going to the most extreme, is there any moment at all that you don't remember... because it could be possible you were drugged and raped and don't know about it. This is the only rational explanation as it is impossible to be pregnant without sex. Take another test then see your doctor... then speak to your parents but leave that till last because you don't want to cause unnecessary discomfort. If you are pregnant, think carefully about abortion, I personally am against it... I believe that every living thing should have a chance in life... even if you put it up for adoption, I will say no more about that I hope you will let us know what happens good luck xxx
2015-07-13 2:02 am
At least you recognise your problem for what it is - severe anxiety.
That is all that is wrong with your health and you should be seeking treatment for this condition.
2015-07-13 12:28 am
So get help for your anxiety.
2015-07-12 4:01 pm
What happens if you live to be 100 without nothing more than a cold or flu? Where would all of that senseless worrying get you? Nowhere. Stop worrying and start living. Speak to your doctor about seeing a psychiatrist. You will thank yourself when you are older and wiser.
2015-07-12 2:16 pm
If it helps I've had a small lymph node on my neck for about 4 years now hasn't bothered me and the doctor told me it was nothing, just stay calm if you feel you have symptoms that are scaring you see a doctor but don't be constantly worried, what is written for you is written get on with life and forget the anxiety! I'm sure this will pass I always experience the same thing
2015-07-13 3:08 am
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