ear lobe piercing. So if i just got pierced, do i just leave them in for most of the time until i want them out ? I dunno how this works.?

You'll want to leave the jewelry in for the full healing period - 2 to 3 months. This includes refraining from changing the jewelry (unless a problem arises, like an allergic reaction). After they've healed, you can try leaving the jewelry out for short periods of time and see how your body reacts. Some people will need to leave jewelry in place for 6+ months before the piercings become "permanent", meaning you're able to go without jewelry for lengthy periods of time. Once an ear lobe piercing has had an ample amount of time to heal and mature, they tend to remain open. But of course, everyone heals differently.

If you take them out early then your ear holes will close up and it will be all for nothing keep them in for awhile and the take them out when The ear rings been in for awhile By that time the holes will stay open

You leave them in until they're fully healed; generally at least 3 months for ear lobe piercings.

After that, up to you.