I've been dating a great guy for the past almost 4 months. He is very affectionate, even though he doesn't say it with words. We have a lot of fun together, but he also respects and cares for me, and are really happy together.
About a month into the relationship, I told him I loved him because I knew how I felt. He thought it was too soon and told me, and I understood and stopped saying it until I'd hear him say it. A month later he did. We'd say it back and forth for a bit of time, but then he told me again that he doesn't feel that he's "in love" with me yet... I was stumped.
He's 24, I'm 23. He says he's never been in love. When we hang up he often says "I care about you", which sounds like "I love you" but not in those words.. Should I be concerned?
My boyfriend doesn't say he loves me, why?
2015-06-25 8:20 am
回答 (7)
2015-06-25 8:28 am
Umm I feel like him not being in love with you is a problem.
But, some guys just need time! Sometimes it takes a long time or for a person to leave before they know if they actually are in love or not.
Talk to him... Tell him if he's just stringing you along or if he actually sees your relationship going anywhere! He's the only person that you can get your information from. Good luck
But, some guys just need time! Sometimes it takes a long time or for a person to leave before they know if they actually are in love or not.
Talk to him... Tell him if he's just stringing you along or if he actually sees your relationship going anywhere! He's the only person that you can get your information from. Good luck
2015-06-25 8:27 am
I agree with Marie - good for him for not saying it if he doesn't mean it. Four months isn't really that long, and some people are less comfortable with saying how they feel. As long as he's treating you right, I don't think you have anything to worry about. He'll say it eventually and when he does, you'll know he means it.
2015-06-25 8:24 am
uh its been four months. props to him for not saying it without meaning. Love takes time. dont be concerned.
2015-06-25 8:29 am
Four months is still quite early in the relationship, and some people don't know exactly how they feel until a lot later. I don't think you need to worry beyond asking him why he said he loved you if he didn't feel it.
2015-06-25 8:25 am
He's probably not sure if you're the one who he REALLY truly loves yet. Now don't let this discourage you, he's still thinking about whether this is a good idea and if he'll regret it, etc.
He could be shy and it could be hard for him to say he loves you, but if he really does, he should come around eventually. It's only a matter of time. Good luck!
He could be shy and it could be hard for him to say he loves you, but if he really does, he should come around eventually. It's only a matter of time. Good luck!
2015-06-25 8:37 am
4 months is not enough time to fall in love give him a year minimum.
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