yesterday me and my bf had a little argument. We did say mean things to eachother and some of the thing I said (if you love me you shouldn't push me away from you and remember there are other fishes in the sea) he repeated back the same thing I said to him and said well there are also other girls so don't make me mad. I said I know that, I am just trying to explain to you that I am with you cuz I love you but you sometimes act immature without realising.
I know I was wrong to say things like that and he knows I love him and been with him 4 years regardless of the distance.
Anyway, today I called him to apologise and cool off the situation. He was with his friend. He embarrassed me in front of his friend and repeated what I said! he said ( you didn't pay attention to what you said, you said you gonna cheat on me) I said to him I didn't say I am gonna cheat, I said don't push me away because there are other fishes in the sea, I was angry when I said it.
Ok I don't have a problem what my bf said but not in front of his friend?? I felt he undervalued and belittled me and there was no need for this when I just called to apologise. He didn't even give me chance to say sorry and had a big go at me infront of a stranger!
Btw this not the first time he does this, he did it once before infront of his mom!
I don't want break up. I want him to realise that it's not acceptable to undervalue me infront of other cuz I have never done it to him.
I spoke to him about it but I'm upset