My bf embarrassed me in front of his friend what to do now?

2015-06-14 9:49 pm
yesterday me and my bf had a little argument. We did say mean things to eachother and some of the thing I said (if you love me you shouldn't push me away from you and remember there are other fishes in the sea) he repeated back the same thing I said to him and said well there are also other girls so don't make me mad. I said I know that, I am just trying to explain to you that I am with you cuz I love you but you sometimes act immature without realising.

I know I was wrong to say things like that and he knows I love him and been with him 4 years regardless of the distance.

Anyway, today I called him to apologise and cool off the situation. He was with his friend. He embarrassed me in front of his friend and repeated what I said! he said ( you didn't pay attention to what you said, you said you gonna cheat on me) I said to him I didn't say I am gonna cheat, I said don't push me away because there are other fishes in the sea, I was angry when I said it.

Ok I don't have a problem what my bf said but not in front of his friend?? I felt he undervalued and belittled me and there was no need for this when I just called to apologise. He didn't even give me chance to say sorry and had a big go at me infront of a stranger!

Btw this not the first time he does this, he did it once before infront of his mom!

I don't want break up. I want him to realise that it's not acceptable to undervalue me infront of other cuz I have never done it to him.

I spoke to him about it but I'm upset

回答 (3)

2015-06-14 10:19 pm
✔ 最佳答案
If you've spoken on him putting you on blast in front of people before it shouldn't have happened again. It's not that he embarrassed you in front of people, he's also putting yalls relationship out there to be frowned upon by other people. It creates a tense situation to be around their friends or family when they do this bcuz you feel as if everyone knows that everything in the kingdom isn't gold! Sometimes you just have to fall back a few steps for them to realize their actions too
2015-06-14 10:50 pm
You have am argumentative bf. Do you want to continue being with him?
2015-06-14 10:02 pm
You just need to chill out a bit. It dosnt seem like his doing anything wrong. He can't help that his friend was there when you called. Your words must have hurt him. Try not to start fights if there dosnt need to be fights. Just be good to each other. Also you don't have to thrash every little detail out and you don't always have to win. Just let it go and concentrate on being nice to each other.

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