I've been with my partner for three years now and he's always sort of been, well an asshole. I've been living with him and his parents for about a year and four months now and I am 16 weeks pregnant with his baby. Ever since I've become pregnant, he has become worse. He is obsessive, he is controlling, he is manipulative and abusive. I am so terrified of him recently that I had to sleep with his mom last night. I love him so deeply and want to have a family with him and spend my life with all three of us, but not like this.
I'm so stressed out I am afraid I am going to have a miscarriage. Also, he smokes pot next to me all the time and gets pissed off when I leave and calls me a "drama queen", but I'm just trying to protect my baby. And the other day, he wanted me to sit outside with him when I got done work, but I was too tired and he called me a lazy *****. He doesn't understand. I don't know what to do here. I am so sad. So stressed.
He doesn't have a job.
He's immature, and not ready to grow up.
He argues with me every day, all day.
I do everything in my power to stay away from him. I'm even afraid to walk down the steps to get something to eat and drink.
It is probably best for me to leave and take care of my baby on my own, huh?...
Emotionally abused while pregnant?
2015-05-18 5:53 pm
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2015-05-18 6:06 pm
✔ 最佳答案
Things aren't going to change, I know how you feel, been through that myself. The guy I was with did the same and I also got hit. I ended up loosing the baby at 6 months a long. You need to get away from him, you deserve better. He has no respect for you and you don't need him around the baby. When you do leave, get a restraining order. After the baby is born, contact CPS and tell them what you have been through with him and they will help you. A guy like that has no business being around a baby. If you do leave he will more than likely beg you to come back, he will change, he loves you and the baby. Sad enough it won't, trust me. Good luck and I am sorry that you are going through this. 
2015-05-18 5:56 pm
if he's physically or mentally abusive, call the police and ask to file a restaining order. if he's doing this while your pregnant, they could charge him with some sort of abuse.
if you have other family or better friends available, leave him and see if you can move in with them for the time being. if they care about you, they will help you.
if you're not officially married to him, you can leave at any time, while he may try to file for custody of the baby, gather some evidence of your own of what he does to show that he's not ready to be a parent so you get full custody.
good luck.
if you have other family or better friends available, leave him and see if you can move in with them for the time being. if they care about you, they will help you.
if you're not officially married to him, you can leave at any time, while he may try to file for custody of the baby, gather some evidence of your own of what he does to show that he's not ready to be a parent so you get full custody.
good luck.
2015-05-18 7:34 pm
Being stressed out and crying is not good for Ur baby. You need what's best for u and Ur chil . Do what's best for you even if it means leaving Ur partner to be on ur own. You can raise that baby without him. Think if how he's gonna be when the baby's born. What if he does it to the baby ? Get out now or talk to him and let him know how u feel
2015-05-18 5:54 pm
i would dump someone like that
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