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There is not a single other Libra man who is like YOUR Libra man.
This is because Libra is ONLY his Sun sign ... just one out of 10 planets, and the Sun's sign is only 1 out of 40-50 factors in his birthchart.
HIS astrology is indicated by his birthchart, and unless someone else was born at the exact same time and location as HE was, he has no astrological twin. He is unique.
You cannot use his Sun sign to understand him, but writers aren't going to tell you that because then they would loves their income.
And you cannot compare his Sun sign (Libra) with your Sun sign (Capricorn) to determine compatibility. That too is a commercial scam the writers push. If you want to use astrology to accurately determine compatibility, you have to look for any/all "synastry aspects" between his chart and yours. No other astrological technique is valid.
Unfortunately, no matter how good the synastry comparison is, unless both parties are emotionally mature, the relationship will fail. Astrology does NOT tell us how much a person has grown up emotionally. Astrology is only an influence and does not control us.
Love takes about 2 years of steady dating before it even BEGINS to grow.
What happens, at first, is the fantasy stage called "infatuation." Our brain pumps out chemicals that make us literally "high" over the other person, and what we call "love" is actually a "high", being in love with BEING in love, and a selfish attachment to how the other person makes us feel (love is not about selfish attachment).
So ....
yes, it IS good at first. But this is only a fantasy phase. And the infatuation lasts only from 2 days to 2 years, and then dies out.
It would appear that you made a few errors:
- You thought the infatuation phase was the reality of the situation.
- Your mistook the "great" of the infatuation as being the LASTING reality of how the relationship would be.
- HIs infatuation is dying out before yours is.
- What you have NOW is the reality.
- And one of those realities is that he has trouble trusting that anyone could love him (unconscious low self-esteem) ... and since trust is 65% of what makes a relationship work, the relationship is NOT going to work. We do not have the courage to trust another person's love if we do not love ourselves, fully and unconsciously. And there is nothing YOU can do to solve this problem for him.
As for love/attachment/sex/chemistry .. that is only 11% of what makes a relationship happy and lasting. It is your misfortune that you became attached to someone who doesn't have what it takes to make a relationship work. Love won't save it.