How do I stop being awkward?
2015-04-16 5:41 am
Im 17 and Im socially awkward. I get really nervous around girls. I have weight issues that makes me uncomfortable in my clothes which adds onto the effect of me neglecting society. Im so awkward I cant even talk to my friends I feel like they dont like me anymore. Cant grow a pair to get a job because I feel like I will break down during an interview. I have no strengths and a bunch of weaknesses. I cant read in front of the class. I shake when I present in front of class, run out of breath and feel like going home to hide. Why cant I just be normal?
回答 (3)
2015-04-16 6:46 am
This may sound cliche but YOLO. You don't know what you're missing. You're 17 you should be having the time of your life! You're stressing over things other people don't actually care about try googling the spotlight effect. I mean, who cares, I'm happy and as long as I don't step on other people I'm good. Turn your world upside down.
Say what you wanna say and find friends who care and can help you get out of your shell without giving a damn about your physical appearance.
Just be YOU :)
Say what you wanna say and find friends who care and can help you get out of your shell without giving a damn about your physical appearance.
Just be YOU :)
2015-04-16 6:07 am
In future never indulge in such negative thoughts. Don't try such misadventures. It is risky.
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2015-04-16 5:51 am
First off, we're all just people. You speaking to me is the same as me speaking to you. We're all the same. We're all going to die, we all experience feelings, etc. No big deal. You have the same amount of power as everyone else. Just say what you think, **** the consequences. What is anyone going to do? Eat you? You can't live your life being afraid. There is absolutely nothing to be afraid of 'cause absolutely everything is temporary.
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