've had my phone hacked into before previously by another ex. It hurt. I couldn't believe someone i trusted for two years would do it. Privacy is very important to me and trust. I do not want to be tracked like a dog.
Anyway i met the "love of my life" who also happens to be an IT guy and hacks for a living. He's very adamant about his security. Doesn't even save pics on his phone.
I deleted him from everything and got a new.phone service and number. Thats how freaked out i was after this gut feeling.
If you suspected you were constantly spied on like.this would you react similar or have i gone too far with paranoia?
Not to mention, he carried around a razor phone on top of his work phone all the time. I didn't think about that until now. Was very sketchy about that. Thanks everyone for your continual answers. This has been very heartbreaking in the process because I still do not know for sure and don't know if I ever will get to the bottom of if he was innocent or not.
*and he used his work phone for all personal calls and everything else. Why did he need the razor?
And if this doesn't top the icing on the cake, I don't know what does. I was always researching "How to tell if boyfriend hacks" and posting questions like this. One of the last calls I had were of him crying out of the blue saying he was afraid our relationship was going to end, when I did not signal that except for my searches. That's the only way he would've known since he lives 3,000 miles away.
