Please help me I'm crying?
2015-02-23 11:18 pm
ok so my brother has always been extremely abusive but he's getting worse. I'm a 13 year old girl and he's 16, he's over double my size. He constantly calls me fat (I'm not at all) , stupid, ugly, everything. He hits me, spits on me, yells over everything and all in front of my parents. They do not care. They pretend they do but they also pretend he just sometimes smacks me or punches me and stuff. If I do anything wrong even the slightest thing that doesn't even matter he will scream at me like I just killed somebody. I try to tell my parent how bad it is but they don't do anything. It's so much worse than it sounds but I can't describe it. Please help me. Please.
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2015-02-23 11:30 pm
✔ 最佳答案
You need to get evidence and go to the authorities. Video it all. Find a CPS worker near you and phone them when you're not at home. Tell them you've recorded everything and you need help. Also get your parents reaction as well on camera. That's neglect right there. The only thing you can do is go to the authoritues. Your parents don't want to help so let someone do it. Do it for you. This may sound harsh but if you don't go to someone who can actually help, then you've wasted your time. You shouldn't go through that.
2015-02-23 11:21 pm
Call the police
2015-02-23 11:22 pm
well since you're 13 you can't do much if even your parents won't say anything, but if he hits you one day and he leaves a mark then show it to your parents and if they still don't say anything then it seems like you're on your own.
but that's okay. i live with an abusive family emotionally. i went through those same type of things were my older brother would hit me and call me names and they didn't really care. anyways all you can do now is do the best you can to achieve whatever goals you have in life so you can move on. try to keep yourself distracted and doing things.
don't cry over your brother hurting you. keep focused into things that matter. good luck (:
but that's okay. i live with an abusive family emotionally. i went through those same type of things were my older brother would hit me and call me names and they didn't really care. anyways all you can do now is do the best you can to achieve whatever goals you have in life so you can move on. try to keep yourself distracted and doing things.
don't cry over your brother hurting you. keep focused into things that matter. good luck (:
2015-02-23 11:27 pm
If your parents aren't helping, try look to another adult you trust like an aunt, uncle, teacher etc. Write down everything he does over a period of time in detail but don't exaggerate be exact so you have proof, including dates. If it gets really bad don't be scared to contact the guards straight away.
2015-02-23 11:26 pm
Let your parents know what he's doing is abuse, and you have the right to call the police and press charges against him for domestic violence/assault. Tell them he hurts you, and that you're going to take matters into your own hands, since they aren't dealing with it. Hopefully, this will change things and your parents will do something. If they don't, call the police next time he puts his hands on you and press charges against him. He has to learn that harming others is wrong (and not even legal).
2015-02-23 11:19 pm
Show this post to your parents, and ask them what they think about the situation.
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