Will you accept this guy if he said to you that you are short and ugly?

2015-02-20 10:04 pm
There is this guy who show interest in me about 2 years ago, we dated a few times. I was not really into him, but I think I should give him a chance. However, after about a handful of dates, he disappeared. I mean, he is around, not lost, but did not ask me out for dates anymore.

2 years later, now, he came back to date me again. We talked and I asked why he "disappeared" for 2 years? He said he was sorry and told me that I was not the type he always had in mind. He wanted someone who is tall, slim, has good skin and long hair. However, I am very short (4'11"), not obese, but quite chubby, has acne all over face and always keeps short hair. He continued to say now that God had revealed to him that I am actually the one for him. He wanted to start a relationship with me again. I have not accepted him yet, so he kept emailing me everyday. He also said he is ready to get married anytime.

I am very confused and not sure if I should give him another chance? I still do not really like him, but started to think he may also be the one that God has chosen for me. So far, I have not been successful in any relationship. I am not desperate, but who does not want a boyfriend? Has God really changed him? He also has some other shortcomings, but who is perfect?

回答 (4)

2015-02-20 10:09 pm
✔ 最佳答案
No do not get back together with him, especially if you do not like him in that way, and after what he told you. He basically told you he couldn't get the kind of girl he wanted so he will settle for you. Don't do it, wait for the right guy to come along
2015-02-20 10:12 pm
No, I wouldn t. As the people above me said: "He basically told you he couldn t get the kind of girl he wanted so he will settle for you." "He insulted you and ghosted you why would u want to date him??" "Do not go out with him if you don t like him!"
2015-02-20 10:11 pm
don't trust him he's using tactics from player books
2015-02-20 10:06 pm
No!! Do not go out with him if you don't like him! He insulted you and ghosted you why would u want to date him??

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