How Do I Convince My Parents to get a Dog?

2015-02-19 5:06 pm
When I was really little, I used to tell my parents I wanted a dog even though I was afraid of them. Now, I'm a Junior in high school and I have come around to actually wanting one. My favorite breed is Boston terriers, so if I could get any breed it would be that. I've done a little research on Boston terriers, enough to know the basics about training them and they live 10-15 years. For me, it seems like the perfect dog. I'm an only child, my house itself is small, and I need something to motivate me to be more active but not so active that I don't have time for anything else. In my dreams, I see myself being totally devoted to this dog and loving every aspect of it. However, there are lots of problems that face me. To list a few, the street I live on is very busy, my house is messy and overloaded with random junk, I'm going to college in about a year, I've never owned a dog before, and this dog will be my greatest responsibility of my life so far. This doesn't even include how my parents feel about dogs. My mom is terrified of dogs, especially ones that are large and/or try to interact with her in aggressive kind of manor. She freaks out just when a dog touches her or barks. My dad feels that dogs are rather useless responsibilities that cause problems. He doesn't see the positives in many things, so he neglects all the good things about dogs that I've come to learn and want to have. I have more I want to say so I'm going to add it in the comments.
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Also, money is tight in my house and I know that any breeder wants multiple thousands of dollars for a Boston terrier. Anyway, how do I convince my parents to get me a dog? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

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2015-02-19 5:27 pm
With how your parents feel about dogs and knowing they would have to look after it while you are out and most definitely when you go off to college then it doesn't sound like a good time to get one does it.

Certainly not going to try and help convince your parents when the dog will last less than a year with your family and have to be rehomed.

Wait until you are in a position to commit the years you need to.
2015-02-19 8:48 pm
The biggest hurdles here are that when you go to college the dog will be left with your parents. You've already said that your mother is afraid of dogs and your father thinks they are useless.

Best situation, then, is to wait until you are out of school, living on your own, and can devote time to a dog.

"Boston Terrorists" are very active dogs and that can be annoying for people who are not dog people.
2015-02-19 5:51 pm
I'm with Lorraine on this. And I think you realize it as well with the way you worded your post.... Please don't get a dog when you only have a year to commit to it and your parents are not going to be willing to care for it when you're gone. It will end up in a shelter, needing to be rehomed. It may even end up being put to sleep in the worst case scenario.

I really wanted a dog too, but decided to wait - and even though I'm 21 now, I'm still waiting because I'm in university and living in a dorm. I could potentially move out and get one, but I know I wouldn't have the money and time to spend on it with all the lab work. So I'm waiting until I graduate, get a steady job and even then I'm going to see what my schedule looks like and won't get one unless I feel I can give it everything it needs. I hope that you will do the same!!!! So many people want a dog so badly that they don't think of the actual dog's best interests......:(
2015-02-19 5:50 pm
With how your parents feel about dogs I dont think it is a good idea to get one for now until they understand why you want to have one and they feel comfortable with him being in the house.You said your mother is scared of dogs,how would it look if there is a dog living under the same roof as your mother and she is living in constant fear that the dog might attack or bite her.Show her videos of dogs with children and show her that the dog isnt scary and actually if a dog senses her fear,he starts to panick.For your father you can show him what do dogs do,how they play,work and just make a good companion.Get a small to medium dog and i think boston terriers is a good breed for new owners,they are silly and they dont require that much exercise,they shed minimal amounts,and they love companions,dont take space.But dont get one before explaining to your parents about him and why you want one otherwise you will have a dog in household of confused and scared people and that will affect him.

Hope everything works out.
Good luck :)
2015-02-19 5:22 pm
Show them you're responsible enough to take care of something like another being.Convince them you'll look after it, and you'll take extra care of it.Also,the letter idea is a very good idea.


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