Relationship became very boring and no spark.?

2015-02-11 10:29 am

My bf and I have been together for 3 years and we both are in our mid 20's I love him dearly and I know he loved me. We don't live together yet but we will this year . Lately we just literally don't do anything he comes picks me up we don't do anything just drive around and don't do anything he doesn't text me as much as more and I honestly am just bored and I feel he is bored of me to although he says no . It seems he's more excited when he drops me off home to leave home than when he is with me . I am not sure what to do I feel like when I ask him he gets upset and he always has an excuse that I don't plan anything to do and I always come up with ideas and sometimes I wish he could but seems he just is lazy or tired idk what to think or do:(

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Kit Fang

2015-02-11 10:47 am

You are both responsible for the relationship. If you find your evenings driving around boring, then do something about it! Plan interesting things to do, rather than leaving it up to him, and then do those things rather than giving in and doing nothing. Ask him to come up with something, if he doesn't like your ideas. Tell him that you feel bored, and that he is bored of you, and this is making you question the relationship. If he is at all interested, that will make him think about what's going on, and potentially change his attitude.

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