If I caught my younger sister bringing her BF into her bedroom, but my parents weren't home to facilitate it's OK i said NO. Right?
2015-01-27 8:52 pm
I come from a family of 6 she's the youngest I'm number four but she's 16 years younger... she was a bit of a surprise... I'm not going to lie some of it was because she is my BABY sister, but 99% of it was IK she isn't on birth control... and when I asked if he had a condom he said no. She's not talking to me... I know this wasn't really my business I just care about her SOOO much. I just would hate to see her, get pregnant or get an STD and live with it for the rest of her life. I'm not going to lie... I don't want her having sex. Period. But she needs to go on birth control and he needs to wear a condom.. they're too young to have a baby and neither have a job...I'm also a mom myself... someone please reassure me I wasn't being a total *****...
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2015-01-27 8:54 pm
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You did the right thing. Teens (and sometimes adults) need a responsible person to step in and save them from themselves and/or protect them from harm.
2015-01-28 12:51 am
I come from a family of 9 and my younger sister took her boyfriend back to her bedroom there intentions were to have sex. She is only 15 and is 18 so i went in there and told him that he had to leave once he refused and told me to go f**k myself I picked him up out of my baby sisters bed and through his @$$ out the window. Of course my sister started loosing her mind, but i explained to her that he is 18 and she is 15 and if she got pregnant he would probably leave the state the first chance he got. So you need to explain to her about not having sex until she knows that he is the man the she wants to stay with for the rest of her life.
2015-01-27 10:54 pm
tell your parents
2015-01-27 9:21 pm
You were not being a *****. You are being very fair. They at least need if use a condom!!!!
2015-01-27 9:19 pm
It raises an interesting question. My first impulse would be to get the police involved, but perhaps there's a better outfit, like CPS, to handle this sort of problem. I would make it very clear to them that if they break the law the onus is on them - you won't be protecting either of them from the consequences. That you will enforce whatever rules the Masters of the House wishes to impose when you're there taking their place. We have a name for those who forego birth control: parents.
2015-01-27 9:12 pm
She does deserve her privacy, but if she is NOT smart about it, then it was a good thing you steped in, you might just saved her from getting pregnant or sick. Dont talk to your parents about this, since you are her older sister, talk to her has if she was your child.
2015-01-27 8:58 pm
I don't know what to say about this but I hope you and your sister all the best!!
I was going to suggest tell mom but that might be too hard for your mom and your sister might be mad and will try to not talk to you.
Well try to have a good relationship with your sister, let her know you want the best for her, and when she opens up, convince her to do the right thing. :) Good luck!
I was going to suggest tell mom but that might be too hard for your mom and your sister might be mad and will try to not talk to you.
Well try to have a good relationship with your sister, let her know you want the best for her, and when she opens up, convince her to do the right thing. :) Good luck!
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