please help marriage in trouble!?

I just got married Nov. 22 2014. We have only been married 3 weeks. We argue all the time, but the problem we are arguing about is his mother tries to stay in our business. Were 24 & 25 ages. His mother & her husband came over the weekend it was hell. I had no idea they were coming until the morning of my husband didn't tel me on top of this I had a hair appointment so they were at our house fixing breakfast with him. I left the house angry & came back home to find our bills & everything everywhere his family came over saying they wanted to help us I was in shock I didn't know any of this. Then told us he appointments setup for us to look at apartments. I told them I was not & my husband has not told me any of this. They left angry at me he demanded I give them apology I refused. This is our first time living on our own. Were are talking things out to see what we wanted to do. I told them I only talked with husband about all this once & know what to do. Well everything was great until he went to the bank with our money. He is now involving his family in our money problems. He talked with & said he wants a annulment and when I text him he tells me he's in a meeting. He doesn't want to come home and keeps telling our issues with family. I am heartbroken he said will call me back after his meeting. He has anger problems be4. I try & cuddle with him & kiss he pushes me away unless he wants sex. He always too tired though. I feel like have made a mistake but I really want us.