which programming language should i start learning first?

Depends on what you want to program.

If you are looking to do web design, begin with HTML with CSS.

If you are looking to design web application, begin with Java and with Javascript.

If you are looking to create full featured computer programs, begin with any version of C.

"C" is considered to be "the" programming language. Most of the others (except HTML) use the concepts and much of the syntax of C. If you learn C, you can pick up almost any other language with little difficulty. It is usually just learning the syntax (exactly how a command is worded), and you can get that from cheat sheets for the languages. Learning C will give you all the programming concepts you will need to understand. Those concepts are the same in every language.

Kind of like if you learn to drive a Ford, you can then drive any other car by just figuring out where the buttons or and the dash instruments are for that model. Learning "C" is like learning to drive. Once you know it, you can quickly pick up anything else.

The one major exception is HTML, which is 100% different from any other language out there. But it is only just for designing text based web pages.

the answer is different for each person. First of all, decide what the project is you want to work on and what you want to do. For example, if you want to build a website you should learn HTML to start with. I don't know programming but i know bits of AIML because my hobby is making a chatbot

Programming languages are tools. What do you want make?

http://radar.oreilly.com/2013/11/which-language-should-you-learn-first.html

Spanish or french