forgot wife's birthday and yelled at her.?

YOU A S S HOLE(you deserved it for her) ...but i will help you!

write her a letter, BECAUSE SHE IS SO ANGRY....SHE WONT LISTEN TO YOU!!!, SAY YOU LOVE HER AND THAT YOU ARE SORRY BY THE WAY YOU TREATED HER, , and apologize! (if she asks if you forgot her birthday, TELL HER THE TRUTH(that you remembered later), DON'T LIE OR YOU WILL ADD MORE FUEL TO THE FIRE WITH ........... THE LIEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!)

- make her breakfast in bed
- run her hot water bubble bath FOR HER- THE WATER MUST FILL LIKE THE BUTTON OF THE BATH, AND YOU PUT SHOWER GEL, WHERE THE TAP WATER FALLS, AND IT WILL MALE A BUBBLE WATER bath LIKE you see in THE MOVIES! MAKE SURE THE BATH IS CLEAN, AND THE WATER is HOT!!!
- get candles
- give her a massage...
- take her to dinner, or you make her dinner
- don't forget dessert(something you know SHE LIKES)
- take her to dance, or put music in your house, and ask her to dance!

You SUCK as a husband. I'd start putting her FIRST or expect to be divorced real soon.

If you are relieving yourself of work stress by having confrontations with your wife, you are destined for a divorce. Find another way to relieve work stress if you love your wife.

Damn few things are worth arguing over with your spouse. Six months later, they are not important and you can not even remember why you thought the issue was important.

Go buy a huge bouquet of flowers, take your wife out to nice dinner and beg her forgiveness for acting like you have.

You have to stop being a jerk to your wife. You need to be nice to her and accept the fact that she is a much better person than you. Having stress from work interfere in your home life is not a good thing. Maybe the stress from work is a result at you being a jerk at work too.

You sit down and COMMUNICATE with your wife. You may also want to seek out some personal counseling on how to deal with stress and arguments. It's never okay to yell at or name-call other people. It resolves nothing, raises your blood pressure, and adds to your negative karma, not to mention upsetting the other person and possibly causing an injury to your relationship with them that an apology cannot repair.

Get a personality transplant

no you have to compensate her twice. Cajole her much.
Gift her something what she like most and filled her with much love as u can as a man. Hope u get me.

You need to deal with your work stress that doesn't involved fighting with your wife. As for her birthday, you need to atone for your sins by buying jewelry.

Admit to her that you are pathetic and suck as a husband on every level. (while kneeling and in prayer posture at her feet). Lol. Then buy her an expensive gift.

It's her fault for not reminding you a couple days ago.

It's not like you don't have important things to worry about.

Learn how to communicate better with your wife.