is it possible to love some one but not be attracted to them ?

Yes bc love is an emotion not physical thing.

U can love them other ways just as your family loves u aka parents mom and dad, if that's all u like them for that's kinda harsh in my opinions that's basically telling the person her only like u because the way u are u r looks don't attract me, there wouldn't be any other reason than the personality and caracter, it's either that or both looks and personality. U mas well not even move forward with them at all because ur probably a slut aka hoe because u don't like his appearance. "My opinion"

family, friends???

Are you attracted to your parents?

I believe so.
Although love and copulation go together,its quite possible to love someone for other reasons than sex and to love someone who is not physically attractive to you.
Also people love their siblings and their children but are not attracted to them physically.