should i disown my family?

i may be unusual but i have always felt that we are not obligated to love our parents for the simple reason we did not chose them and they may not be the upstanding perfect people society tells us they are supposed to be .....this has been demonstrated in countless stories of child abuse not all children are conceived out of desire and pay the price of their birth with abuse I myself have seen this first hand . this also may be a individual personal perception on your part of the situation but may not be as abnormal behavior as you view it either way i suggest you seek out school or professional councilors or advisers for your personal situation thank you for your question

If they're abusive, get out asap
Speak up to someone, you don't deserve a bad family

What do you have that they would want?