I never lend more than I can afford to not have returned. You will seem cheap if you speak to her now about the money. She will wonder why you didn't remind her sooner. No one likes to hear that you have been holding a grudge against them and for three months over just $10. I just got paid back two days ago from a friend that has been struggling. The first part of the loan went back about three years ago. I have another loan out that went to a neighbor man for $300 about 15 years ago. I have another loan out from a couple of months ago that smarted on the amount, but I trust her to make good on it. I look on loans to help others as money in God's piggy bank. He will repay me when I really need it even if I am not repaid by the original borrower. Your girlfriend sure doesn't seem like much of a moocher if that is the only time this has happened and for so little. She may have forgotten.
I say leave it - it is no big deal and I am sure she didn't mean anything by it - she simply just forgot to give it back. If you really love your girlfriend it shouldn't matter if she borrowed $10 - lets face it $10 isn't a lot these days anyway....
Also this was 3 months ago - it will just seem petty if you ask for it now!
Relationships are about sharing and you shared your $10 - so please leave it and continue loving your girlfriend.
are you serious? she borrowed $10 she didn't borrow you entire life savings. Shes your girlfriend this shouldn't be that big of a deal. Of course if this continues to happen a number of times then ye you confront her but not for $10 and especially not for the first time she does it!!
She can't be much of a friend to you if you're upset that she hasn't repaid you $10. I think I'd be thankful the lesson on her reliability was so affordable and not do her any more favors.
honey I know times are tough but its only $10 not $100 or $1000. Just let the incident go. I bet the two of you are kids and still learning the difference between right and wrong. I stopped lending people money unless its my trusted boyfriend of 7 years because you cant count on them to be considerate enough to give it back. Yes many of us are greedy selfish assholes. 99.9 % of all humans look out for #1 because its in our nature to want to survive. And theres a sucker born everyday. Next time she asks you for money tell her "Get a job like everyone else you bum" that will shock her enough to realize how wrong she is for taking advantage of your good nature. If you don't put people in their place when theyre wrong and try to correct their bad behavior then theyre going to think its ok to take advantage of you. If they get angry or upset too damn bad they have realize sooner or later the world doesn't revolve around them and that people are to be used and discarded like yesterdays trash. The sooner you realize that the better off you are. Why are you even bragging about that you have money to begin with anyways?
Hey! first thing which i have learnt is if a friend (not particularly your girlfriend) is a true friend then they would never take it from you if they intend not to return it.
So if she is not returning it then she might not be your true friend at first. not because its money, but because
1. they have no loyalty towards basic things in life.
2. True friend never wants their friend to be at loss.
just think simply would you do the same if you would be at her place? if the answer is really no then you know that it's totally unfair. no need to seek for the guidance any more. :)
Why are you even moaning about this sit bruh if 10 dollars makes you bankrupt why are you even trying to get a girlfriend? IF i am saying IF you do get married that girl won't have a big life and ps take is as a gift for her its fine
Break up with her ! I can't people like weather their you girl friend , boyfriend or even a friend who promised to pay the money back in a few days weeks 1-3 month that they borrowed and still haven't not pay you back you have to tell them bye because people like that are not to be trusted .