Should i be upset with her?
2014-09-26 6:31 am
So my girl friend and I are both in college and last week i went to go visit her for my birthday. This year is the first year I ever got to spend with my birthday with my girl friend. I have a pretty well paying job on the side, but still as a college student I bought a one way $100 train ticket just to come down and see her for my birthday. Anyways, this is the first year she is in college as I'm a sophomore. As this being her first year of college, she was still only just getting to know her surroundings and friends at college. To cut to the chase, Saturday night, she asked if she could leave for an an hour and a half to go pre game with her tennis team due to the party being at there house. Not knowing if she bring me, she left me in her room for the two hours while she went out and got drunk. To be fair, yes this was a big opportunity for her to meet friends, as I learned my freshman year and respected that; but at the same time I just feel that she just isn't wanting to keep the relationship serious if she wants to go out, get drunk with friends, to only come back and want to sleep for the rest of the night when she knows that i would only have 5 hours to see the following day. Girls and guys, seriously, should i have been upset with her wanting to go out instead of spending time with me on my birthday?
回答 (7)
2014-09-26 6:40 am
It depends how much you care for this girl. Personally, I just went through a break-up because of a similar situation. I'm in college as well, and my ex was long distance but she never picked up the phone to check up on me or anything, so I figured she just didn't care, and I moved on. Just realize that you're both in college, it's a new experience, honestly, I would dead it because speaking from experience relationships in college are a kind of stupid. These are the years where freedom truly rings, go find out what you like at your college, sleep around, discover what suits you, you have growing up to do, that's where experience can help you out, best of luck.
2014-09-26 6:36 am
Listen, like, if you want something long term.......dont even bother with her. Shes a party girl. actions speak louser than words, no matter how much you wnt to say how "amazing" she is......she was wrong for going out KNOWING IT WAS YOUR BIRTHDAY......but she decided to hang out with her tennis team......aka, she blew you for her freinds.....
2014-09-26 7:39 am
Wrong timing. Both of your are responsible for not arranging time correctly.
2014-09-26 7:17 am
a woman is not a furniture
ask your mother
ask your mother
2014-09-26 6:42 am
As a girl, I think that that was very wrong of her to do that to you. I would never do that to someone that I loved on their birthday. She has plenty of time while you aren't there visiting to go and do that kind of stuff. At the least she could of asked if you wanted to accompany her so that she could still spend time with you while including you in something fun. It was your birthday so she should be trying to fulfill your wishes that day and make it special. She should also be more appreciative that you came to see her. You have every right to be angry.
2014-09-26 6:39 am
I think that you should give her the benefit of the doubt since it was her birthday and you still had 5 hours the next day.
2014-09-26 6:33 am
yes no
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