Astrological compatibility depends on the "synastry aspects" between any/all of your 10 planets and any/all of his 10 planets.
In order to determine what those synastry aspects ARE, we would have to see the entire timed circle birthcharts for both of you.
Those who try to determine compatibility by comparing signs have been tricked by the "commercial astrologers" who are just doing it to make money. Comparing signs doesn't actually work.
So here's what you do ...
For both of you, you need to gather the birthdate, the birthtime (as exact as possible), the time zone they were born in, and whether or not Daylight Saving Time was in effect on the day of their birth.
This site below, if you enter that data, will provide a written list of the aspects between your two charts. You take EACH aspect and google it, adding the word "synastry" in your search term.
Each aspect has an influence on how you two relate to each other. Expect some of the aspects to be positive and some to be negative.
There is no such thing as a synastry without some of both. And there is no such thing as a relationship without some of both, once the honeymoon phase has died out.
Relationships work mostly because the two people have become mature enough to just accept each other comfortably, instead of fighting and trying to make each other do something different.
http://www.configurationhunter.com/astrology-online/free-synastry.php?zi=02&luna=9&an=2014&ora=13&minut=00&timezone=HAST&zi1=02&luna1=9&an1=2014&ora1=13&minut1=00&timezone1=HAST&conjunction_orb=8&sextile_orb=6&square_orb=8&trine_orb=8&opposition_orb=8&customangle=1&customorb=0&aspecttype=AL&sun=1&moon=1&mercury=1&venus=1&mars=1&jupiter=1&saturn=1&uranus=1&neptune=1&pluto=1&sun1=1&moon1=1&mercury1=1&venus1=1&mars1=1&jupiter1=1&saturn1=1&uranus1=1&neptune1=1&pluto1=1