看了你說的話覺得你應該很辛苦!
我覺得你應該找社工、社福機構幫忙。
你唔使咁灰,你仲後生(我大你少少),唔好比段有問題的婚姻搞到你覺得自己無用!因為我覺得你係個努力的人,所以別放棄人生!社工會比你建議的,萬一有事你可以經社工安排住那些婦女宿舍的,應該。不過要問他們。
Sorry about your marriage.
In answering your question, it is possible that you will be able to get what you have paid for. In fact, in most of the case, you will get more than what you have paid for.
In Hong Kong, the court considers contribution as one of the key factor to determine division of properties in a divorce proceeding.
Since your contribution (the amount for decoration) relates to your marriage, even you don't have the title of the property, your "investment" has in fact made the 50% of this non-martial property to become a martial property (as the decoration has made the property appreciated, you will be entitled for the increase in value as well).
At this moment, what you really need to do is to consult a lawyer and prepare all relevant document to support your claim (when you say the money is from you, you should have evidence to prove that).
睇妳啲問題都好心酸, 但咁嘅老公離婚就好. 不要再諗著攞翻30萬.佢話會俾翻10萬妳. 我就唔信囉.
錢財身外物. 如果妳係離婚後自己生活到. 無謂因要攞翻啲錢而綁著自己,令自己生活得唔開心. 天大地大睇開啲, 去結識啲新朋友. (而父母亦始終都會有老去的一天), 無屋著住就去申請單人屋,(雖然都要等好耐), 住屋方面, 妳可以嘗試找社工及區議員幫忙. 不要想得太灰,
其實妳唔係冇人冇物, 起碼仲有舅父同亞依. 唔好放棄自己呀,
好以個廣告: 人生滿有望, 前路由我創.
如果妳老公再叫妳.... 妳叫佢自己去先啦, 仲要加上廢人俾佢用.
**人善被人欺, 馬善被人騎" 做人有時太讓步,未必是好事.
我只係知道夫妻之間問題, 從來唔會係一個人問題
至於你問到亦答你, 以你地而家咁局面, 都應該係搵律師出面
即使失去了你的最愛,不必傷心,不必難過,因為他必定不屬於你!
在你哭泣是時候是否注意過,也許你的身邊一直都有著一個隻屬於你的王子!
一直默默的喜歡你的真命天子呢?
睇尼你同你老公都好多問題下,其實離婚有好多野搞好多野煩,如果你想要番30萬我諗你就算離婚都未必會咁快拎得番,你既情況我建議你可以搵社工尼幫手做調解,可能會調解成功就可以避免離婚.如果真係要離婚既話都好多野要傾,都幾煩下.離婚之後你唔會乜都無,離婚後佢要俾瞻養費你,但就算離左婚都唔等如你可以拎番果30萬,但本人有個建議,唔一定成功,只提供俾你作為參考,如果有咩事本人概不負責.你可以嘗試向社工提出你老公無盡做老公既責任,當然你要提供證據證明,而你如果證明到列樣野你就有可能可以追到果30萬.但你要判斷一下你老公有冇能力還果30萬(假設你成功追到既話)但詳情你都係要搵d專業人士問下,例如律師/社福機構等等,香港好多機構都會幫類似你列種情況既人.你可以去問下.